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1) I tell myself that I'm resilent and will overcome whatever obstacles may come my way because in reality, obstacles are not a part of my vocabulary: It's just takes me a while to covertly subvert obstacles and make them into something that is taste-worthy.
2) I have enjoyed not working so hard lately but in 48 hours, I'm going to work a 14 day stretch; then catch my breath and work another stretch of time; then next month, on a certain weekend, party like a Goddess. ![]() 3) My mom celebrates her birthday on Sunday (she's going to be 74). She's also been waayyyyyy toooooooo quiet. My 'radar' is uber-sensitive lately. ![]() 4) I've gotten smarter with pinging certain posts on fb: I ping the posts that send a loud clear message that I'm intolerant of racist, over-the-top biased social behaviors and it's paying off: cousins and certain other friends & family members have 'vanished' and are getting the message loud and clear. 5) EVen though life has been uber stressful since my birthday, I've been feeling rather playful lately.
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`1) I am a procrastinator. To a fault. I use to have to live by deadlines and day planners. My schedule was so tight I rarely got home before dark and almost always left before daylight. Now, I fight to make sure that doesnt re-occur consciously but also, in a very passive aggressive unconscious way. I find myself missing appts. I forget meetings. I drag my feet on things that have a time schedule.
2) I hate hate hate talking on the phone. Its gotten much worse the past couple years. I think this comes from believing you could get to know someone and have a relationship with them if you spent enough time with them online and on the phone. (I learned this is SO not true) And also because there was a time when every phone call was a crisis, from my former line of work. It really doesnt matter how it started. What does matter is that there are dear friends I havent spoken to for almost a year because I cant stand to be on the phone. New friends know I have about ten minutes max before I start to get anxious. If you dont pick up my cues, or my direct request to get off by 30, there is a good chance I simply wont pick up the phone again when you call. 3) my fav purse designer is Dooney & Bourke. I would so die for one of their pink ones! 4) I religiously watch reruns of the 70s show and then Criminal Minds every night 5) I dont cry anymore I use to cry alot. I had alot to cry about. And that made me sensitive to things that would also move me to tears. I realized the other nite, that I hadnt cried much at all this year and when I did, it was over physical pain, not emotional pain.
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1. I love having fresh flowers around the house
2. I am grateful for my blessings in my life and say so daily 3. I am a hugger, don't expect a limp handshake 4. I rarely carry a purse, have had one stolen and gun shy now 5. I bought a set of gozilla salt and pepper shakers the other day, VERY tacky |
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1. I am a Marine
2. I studied Ballet as a child/teenager 3. I secretly covet Country Music 4. I can pee standing up and not get my socks wet 5. My intentions are amazing. But my follow thru is shit.
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1. I grow and collect cactus.
2. I'm sort of addicted to science fiction games/movies/books. 3. I think cowboy hats & boots are really sexy... ![]() 4. My arms are full of small birth marks... like polka dots. 5. I design and sew costumes for fun. Preferably Steampunk or Anime stuff.
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1. I refuse to walk barefoot in the house.
2. I love sleeping with a fan on, cannot sleep in dead silence. 3. Everytime I buy poptarts (which isn't often) I hide them or eat them when I'm alone. They are yummy and I hate sharing. 4. My roots are Canadian and German 5. I check the entire house for insects/bugs every single night before I go to bed just to make sure there is nothing lingering around before I snooze off. It's become an obsession.
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1) I still wear my much beloved sterling silver Tear-drop earrings; but I recently treated myself to a brand new pair of Austrian crystal, Crystal-ball-tear-drop-like, earrings.
2) I thank my lucky stars that I understand a plethora of logic utilized in the game of Chess and subversively apply that particular logic to most areas of my life. 3) I do not relish experiencing job and income insecurity. 4) I am developing a finer appreciation for the moments of free time in my life. 5) I have loved living in my home town for nearly 20+ years now, but lately I am tempted to move. I have no idea if this is an fleeting temptation or if I should act on this particular temptation. It might only mean I should listen to The Temptations or the elements of Earth, Wind & Fire - but it's a real temptation, the temptation to move (relocate).
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1. I cannot be trusted with a box of cookies.
2. Biting into a crisp, cold dill pickle, makes me extraordinarily happy. 3. When I am having control issues, I find using products with bleach and scrubbing with a scrub brush quite cathartic. 4. Sometimes I think too much (tonight would be one of those times). 5. I love vintage Harlequin Romance novels (okay, novels is pushing the bar a bit). And, when I read them, I always wear headphones and listen to schmaltzy love songs (don't judge, it's just not nice). |
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1: I am afraid of the dark, and use nightlights. 2: My favourite board game is Who Killed Dr Lucky. 3: I do not like to go out to eat often, but when I do, I don't like to try new places. 4: I love garlic, LOVE IT. If there was a garlic cereal I'd eat it. 5: There can never be enough big, clean, fluffy, colourful towels in the bathroom.
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1. I'm built like a Roman gladiator.
2. I'm actually "The most interesting man in the world", portrayed by the bearded guy in the Dos Equis commercials. 3. I'm a computer nerd. I repair all Bill Gates' stuff. 4. I'm actually the one that invented the internet, not Al Gore. 5. I don't always tell tall tales, but when I do, they sound like 1-4.
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1. I used to model clothing for JustMySize, Fashion Bug and Penney' back in the 90's.
2. I have lost a LOT of weight, naturally, without drugs, surgery or fad diets. I did it the good old fashioned way-diet and exercise! 3. I adopted my son, Jacob back in 2007 not knowing much about raising a boy! BTW: He looks just like ME!!! (No, I did not birth him, seriously.) 4. I love to cook and bake, but having no one to appreciate the time and effort of a full meal I usually don't cook like I want to. 5. I love to spoil my partner! I sooo miss hiding little notes, naughty ones tucked away in lunches or coat pockets, "date nights", weekend getaways.... I should probably put a warning label on myself...
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