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07-03-2013, 11:50 PM
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17 Months Today!
Have a blessed day today! Yes I know counting this far in may seem very silly..lol But it is one of my most greatest achievements..It shows others it can be done...And I truely do celebrate my new life. So for the record...I continue to count..lol Hope you all are doing well and keeping strong. For those who have had a moment, IT IS ONLY THAT..1 moment. Try untill you get it I say...I had several attempts. Blessing to you all.
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07-04-2013, 10:08 PM
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gotta be one of my favs....
Ahhh the number 17......one of my favs for it is the day of the month I was born! So I have always been partial to 17! What a great accomplishment LP.....looking forward to many more for you!
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07-04-2013, 11:45 PM
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Also thank you for such kind words. I truely appriciate all the support and friendship. .
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Believe what people show you the first time. It will keep you in balance, and will show you truth! ~*~ Author unknown ~*~ When negative thoughts come to mind, Let them die stillborn. Speak and do posotive in any situation, And watch your dreams grow and flurish. If you can't say anything posotive, Zip it up. Do not give birth to that which you do not want to see grow. See it, Believe it, Own it, Have it! ~*~ Lady Pamela ~*~ |
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07-08-2013, 01:34 PM
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Go Lady Pamela!
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07-15-2013, 09:55 AM
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How is everyone?
This weekend I went camping with my family reunion and wow was it stressful at first...lol Then everyone decided to calm a bit. I decided to chill in a boat on the lake and was much better then. I must say though..Even though I am not smoking, sometimes that urge creeps in to smoke and I have to talk myself out of it even still. But guess all that matters is I didn't smoke. Stress/sadness/anger etc seem to be the worst triggers. Anyways, How the hell is everyone elses journey?
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07-15-2013, 10:13 AM
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My journey? It's going well so far. I did have some stuff come up over the weekend, but I didn't smoke, that's pretty darned good for me.
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07-15-2013, 10:36 AM
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Thats awesome you didn't give in! I have found that most people do not see it as worthy to celebrate or voice struggles..Some have even said I am milking it...but I say, IT WORKS FOR ME AND WHO CARES..Like I said..It is a personal jopurney..smiles I am so happy you are staying strong. And thank you so very much for continued support and friendship. .
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Believe what people show you the first time. It will keep you in balance, and will show you truth! ~*~ Author unknown ~*~ When negative thoughts come to mind, Let them die stillborn. Speak and do posotive in any situation, And watch your dreams grow and flurish. If you can't say anything posotive, Zip it up. Do not give birth to that which you do not want to see grow. See it, Believe it, Own it, Have it! ~*~ Lady Pamela ~*~ |
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07-16-2013, 10:15 PM
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desire......
Please recognize those moments where you struggle and don't light one up is your strength! However you build that to help you.....is so individual and personal. Do not forget, that others read these posts and are inspired. So what may seem unimportant to you could help someone not fire one up. I guess what I am trying to say is success here is not trivial, it is significant to life and the longevity of it! I say when it enters your mind that you are a non smoker, or that you have decreased smoking, or smoked less, or how ever you are approaching this, then give yourself the credit that is due! This not smoking is not easy for most people......and 4 years later I still celebrate not smoking and reinforcing that it is a habit I don't want to do. So kudos to ALL OF YOU, even if it is still a want and no action.
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07-17-2013, 03:26 PM
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I'm doing it this time!! Going on two weeks smoke free....getting by with regular gum and an occasionally some Nicorette. It's WORKING!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm feeling better already! The cravings are calming down a lot....and after 33 years of smoking, I can finally say I AM DONE.
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