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Being away from the exit is a concern....
Mistly i feel like the air is being sucked out of the building Today i have to go to a bug building and deal with US Customs.... Of course i hardly slept a wink |
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I've been working on making sure my home and work environments stew not stressing me put. I've been very anxious this spring. Burning. But I'm taking steps to make it better.
I don't always take care of myself. With a lot of help and encouragement I'm trying to do that. Glad you are doing Nat! Dee, that sounds way stressful! I hope all goes smoothly.
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I have always suffered from anxiety but haven't tried to medicate it yet. I always have the "feeling of impending doom" and have visuals of my house burning up with my dogs inside because I left something on, or other things in that genre. Ugh, I hate it.
I also have social anxiety, which is weird because I am a professional communicator and it doesn't affect me at work at all, in fact people know me as super friendly and social and I am always the get-together planner, event coordinator, speaker at events, etc. I feel most comfortable when I have a role or a duty to fulfill. If I don't, and have to go into a new situation or around people I am not comfortable around, ugh it sucks. But I hold it all inside and I don't let it show, which might manifest it more, who knows. I need a psychiatrist. Haha.
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I use to have awful social anxiety. It was so fucking painful! But over the years I grew out of it. I think what really helped was me moving to london and starting new in a new place with my then soon to be husband. Funny thing is, now I will talk to anyone. I just dont give a crap any longer.
I have anxiety when it comes to the bloody phone tho. Its not with talking to the person on the other end. It's dialing the number. It's like a mental block that makes me unable to punch the numbers into the fucking phone! It is starting to really bug the crap out of me! |
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I think that identifying your stressors is probably the most helpful thing you can do (at least that has worked for me!). While I don't have terrible anxiety, I do get really stressed out when I feel like I'm losing daylight on projects or my never-ending to-do list.
Knowing this, I will do very simple things like prioritize things with these kinds of categories: things that MUST be done, things I'd like to get done, things that I probably think are important but that really aren't in the grand scheme of things, and things that I can do to help me accomplish the bigger items on my lists. It's a simple strategy but it works for me. ![]()
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I've started listening to meditations on audio dharma when I am anxious. Seems to help.
After a recent move, home situation is better than it has been in years. Work, a work in progress. Lol.
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Mediation helps my anxiety a lot. I have had since I was a kid.
I made a thread here if anyone wants to check it out or give feedback. http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...ead.php?t=6875 |
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I’ve been researching online and talked to my doctor, and I started taking 600mg of L-Theanine daily. It has helped my anxiety so much! I really feel a lot calmer with day to day things and I don’t panic as much over little things. I take 2 pills in the morning as soon as I get up, 2 mid-afternoon, and 2 at bedtime.
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