Describe Mr/Mrs Wonderful

SoberBoi · 05-09-2011, 08:43 PM

For all the singles out there....

Something fun on a Monday night....

No holds barred.... describe your perfect partner....

bigbutchmistie · 05-09-2011, 09:00 PM

Hmmm. That's hard I guess the basics for me would be someone who is on my level that I can connect physically spiritually and emotionally. Someone. I trust without reservation.

bigbutchmistie · 05-09-2011, 09:10 PM

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Originally Posted by bigbutchmistie

Hmmm. That's hard I guess the basics for me would be someone who is on my level that I can connect physically spiritually and emotionally. Someone. I trust without reservation.

Also I love aggressive women who are extremely girly looking

jules5041 · 05-12-2011, 04:45 PM

Lets see... describe my perfect partner...

Ummm...definitely has to be butch.

2. SHORT hair.
3. A good sense of humor.
4. Must be able to type a complete sentence including knowledge of the use of nouns, verbs, adjectives and adverbs.
5. Has a job in the medical field or is a chef or cop.
6. Will give me my space when I need it.
7. Affectionate.

Rockinonahigh · 05-12-2011, 06:48 PM

A good sence of humor is a must.
Can cook.
Dosent mind some of the stupid stuff I do and can laugh at it right along with me cause being dyislex can be doawn right crazy at times.
Me mindfull if the rest of my idiocys..think absent minded proffessor.
Like fur kids.
Be adventurious.
Good kisser dosent hurt.
Understan I have a fetish for hawiian shirts.

Tcountry · 11-19-2011, 06:40 AM

The perfect (for me) femme...

-Is true to her sense of self, faithful & honest
-Appreciates my cheeziness, but doesn't fall for it
-Is sweet & silly & loving.......& passionate
-She has a huge heart, loves affection, is understanding, & giving
-Loves sweet kisses, "us" time, & life's simple pleasures....& fits perfectly in my arms
-She is independent, stubborn, & fiesty...but can come home to being taken care of & loved up on
-She is smart, sexy, & beautiful(inside & out) & has the ability to just say "thank u" when I tell her
-She loves her family.....& tolerates my friends
-She knows my story, faults, dreams, & fears...& loves me anyway
-She can reach the depths of my soul with just one look
-& she actually has an answer every time I ask what she is thinking

Sachita · 11-19-2011, 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by Tcountry

The perfect (for me) femme...

-& she actually has an answer every time I ask what she is thinking

I love that! I'm always asking that "What are you thinking about?" and I hate hearing "nothing". Even if its an array of random silly thoughts I love to hear about it.

wow seems like there are so many threads listing and describing the person of our dreams. Maybe we need a matchmaking service exclusive to our community here? lol just saying

My perfect person is intelligent, stable, secure and strong enough to relinquish control to me. They don't view a female lead relationship, me being in charge, as a sign of weakness but they enjoy the woman I am. My perfect person is health conscious and spiritual without being a fanatic. We eat organic most of the time but every now and then pull into Buffalo Wild Wings to snag a shitload of hot wings, pick up a quart of ice cream at Cold Stones, go home, watch movies and pig out. They love animals, especially dogs and animals need to be part of their life. My perfect person loves gardening with me and we have a fabulous garden that includes flowers, fruits and veggies. My person loves country living and could not live in the city. its just not an option. My ideal mate is outgoing, spontaneous and playful but also respects my space. They dont get offended or passive aggressive because I enjoy lots of alone time. My perfect person might have a bit of baggage but they wake up each day with a clear mission to bring happiness into our lives. yes, its work but my perfect person isn't afraid of hard work!

Julien · 11-19-2011, 08:25 AM

My perfect Ms. Wonderful is intelligent, witty/sense of humor, loving, the same morals and ethics that I have, compassionate, not afraid to speak her mind, a woman who listens to what I have to say, not just hear my words, wants to learn new things and explore the vastness of the world around her and at the same time is content to share time together with just us, confident, comfortable with herself and me, and with all that comes a woman who is sexy and beautiful. This is just the beginning of a rich partnership built on love and respect. Those of us who have found the perfect partner are truly blessed.

deb_U_taunt · 07-17-2013, 12:39 PM

Describe Mr/Mrs Wonderful

Mr/Mrs Wonderful needs to be a friend and PARTNER. We will have each other's backs.

(and front

)

imperfect_cupcake · 07-17-2013, 07:02 PM

sarcastic
Playful
ironic
kinky
high sex drive
dominant in bed, does top and bottom. Likes a bit of pain.
Bit of a fabulous dapper
adventurous
nonmaterialistic - doesn't care about having "stuff" (house, things, matching plates, "nice" furniture)
Likes new food, new cultures, new places
isn't afraid of telling me off
loves talking with me and trading stories

physically? really not fussed but if I got pick the whole thing??
lots of tattoos - full sleeves, legs and some up neck
little bit taller than me
I love small boobs

I don't care what gender (woman, genderqueer, butch-as-gender) as long as they are fine with being female/happy with it/or at least made peace with it. Someone who ok with any pronoun, even if they have a preference for one or the other (I don't want the evening ruined just because we got called "ladies" at the restaurant or some clueless femme called her "him" without asking. Making a joke and dropping it and moving on is what I do when people make mistakes about me, I'd like the same in others).

I've had a relationships with people who were ok with who they were, accepted themselves who who they were, had the odd blip with gender/body, but generally had no issues with who they were anymore. I found the relationship became about us and less about how small their cock would become if she/they/per held my bag for five minutes while I picked something up.

Although I don't particularly care for being seen as "butch" by straight people (and they do call me that on a semi regular basis when they find out I'm gay, cause they are clueless), it's not an insult, it's not embarrassing and it doesn't wreck my day. I don't care for partners that see being mistaken as feminine in some way as insulting/embarrassing/cause for a long sulk.

I'd also like someone that although enjoyed my cooking, a lot, liked to make me meals too on occasion, even if it's mushroom soup from a tin and some toast. Someone that understands that if we are going to move in together to save some money - some of that money is going on a house cleaner cause I ain't no haus frau and I'd rather spend that time cleaning or arguing about house work having sex or laying in the park looking at men's fashion magazines with them.

please and thanks

Kätzchen · 07-17-2013, 07:34 PM

The person who becomes the 'Special Someone' in my life will care deeply not only for me, but for themselves as well and equally, as much as humanly possible, we'll think of and put each other first (above all else).

That's a rather tall expectation:
but I stand tall in most, if not all, aspects of my life.

Girl_On_Fire · 07-17-2013, 10:36 PM

Character traits I want in my Mr. Wonderful:

Patient
Self-Sufficient
Goal-Oriented
Laid-Back
Good Sense of Humor
Gentleman in the Streets
Freak in the Sheets
Politically Aware
Spiritually Awake
Protective

Katniss · 07-17-2013, 10:39 PM

Someone with a 6 inch tongue that can breath through their ears.

Debb · 07-18-2013, 07:13 AM

Someone who has traits that turn me on/that get my attention........

-Understand that I'm being me
-Likes me to cook ANYTHING; doesn't have any hang-ups about food
-Understands I have "down" time
-will help me get back in school
-understands that I enjoy GROCERY SHOPPING, time at resale stores, books, spending money on my daughters
-just loves me for me.

JAGG · 07-18-2013, 09:01 AM

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Originally Posted by Katniss

Someone with a 6 inch tongue that can breath through their ears.

Great !! Now I can't get rid of this visual . It's not pretty.lol

barnes · 07-18-2013, 09:16 AM

a femme that is sweet and kind to a fault.
a femme that will accept my back pain and the problems it causes me.
a femme that is honest and open and loves to talk .
a femme that is ready for true love in her life and gets excited as I do about love.
a femme that is self sufficient.
a femme that has passion for the fine arts.

Sweet Bliss · 07-23-2013, 05:26 PM

Funny, sweet, adventurous, willing to try new things, strong hands, big heart, loves Mom/Dad/family ...... and totally gets me.

The butterscotch topping for my French vanilla.

thedivahrrrself · 07-23-2013, 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweet Bliss

Funny, sweet, adventurous, willing to try new things, strong hands, big heart, loves Mom/Dad/family ...... and totally gets me.

The butterscotch topping for my French vanilla.

Totally gets me. That one is a big deal, and really, really hard to find. There are people who know a lot about you, but they never understand the choices you make or why you do things the way you do, because they don't really know or understand you.

There are some friends I've had who just got me, right from the start. Oddly enough, I've never expected that from a partner, maybe because I assume I'm just too weird for most folks to "get". LOL But it is very important, I think!

Corkey · 07-23-2013, 06:43 PM

~~My wife.~~

Metro · 07-23-2013, 06:50 PM

Smart, sexy, sweet, and sure of herself!

05-09-2011, 08:43 PM	#1
SoberBoi Junior Member How Do You Identify?: FTM, Robert Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Sharing my journey with God... ;) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Hackettstown,NJ Posts: 30 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 68 Thanked 52 Times in 14 Posts Rep Power: 219327	Describe Mr/Mrs Wonderful For all the singles out there.... Something fun on a Monday night.... No holds barred.... describe your perfect partner....

11-19-2011, 06:40 AM	#6
Tcountry Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Country Boi Preferred Pronoun?: call it as u see it Relationship Status: Completely...complete ;) Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Either at the beach or in the pool Posts: 1,665 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,929 Thanked 4,287 Times in 1,181 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	wrote this earlier...seems like a good spot to put it... The perfect (for me) femme... -Is true to her sense of self, faithful & honest -Appreciates my cheeziness, but doesn't fall for it -Is sweet & silly & loving.......& passionate -She has a huge heart, loves affection, is understanding, & giving -Loves sweet kisses, "us" time, & life's simple pleasures....& fits perfectly in my arms -She is independent, stubborn, & fiesty...but can come home to being taken care of & loved up on -She is smart, sexy, & beautiful(inside & out) & has the ability to just say "thank u" when I tell her -She loves her family.....& tolerates my friends -She knows my story, faults, dreams, & fears...& loves me anyway -She can reach the depths of my soul with just one look -& she actually has an answer every time I ask what she is thinking __________________ "You don't Find life worth living; You MAKE IT that way"

11-19-2011, 08:25 AM	#8
Julien Member How Do You Identify?: TG/GenderQueer Preferred Pronoun?: I'm flexible, but only up to a point. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Alabama, Gulf Coast area Posts: 1,007 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,247 Thanked 2,702 Times in 737 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	My perfect Ms. Wonderful is intelligent, witty/sense of humor, loving, the same morals and ethics that I have, compassionate, not afraid to speak her mind, a woman who listens to what I have to say, not just hear my words, wants to learn new things and explore the vastness of the world around her and at the same time is content to share time together with just us, confident, comfortable with herself and me, and with all that comes a woman who is sexy and beautiful. This is just the beginning of a rich partnership built on love and respect. Those of us who have found the perfect partner are truly blessed. __________________ Julien “Self-plagiarism is style.” Alfred Hitchcock Formerly known as Graphiteta2s Last edited by Julien; 11-19-2011 at 08:27 AM. Reason: add

07-17-2013, 07:02 PM	#10
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	sarcastic Playful ironic kinky high sex drive dominant in bed, does top and bottom. Likes a bit of pain. Bit of a fabulous dapper adventurous nonmaterialistic - doesn't care about having "stuff" (house, things, matching plates, "nice" furniture) Likes new food, new cultures, new places isn't afraid of telling me off loves talking with me and trading stories physically? really not fussed but if I got pick the whole thing?? lots of tattoos - full sleeves, legs and some up neck little bit taller than me I love small boobs I don't care what gender (woman, genderqueer, butch-as-gender) as long as they are fine with being female/happy with it/or at least made peace with it. Someone who ok with any pronoun, even if they have a preference for one or the other (I don't want the evening ruined just because we got called "ladies" at the restaurant or some clueless femme called her "him" without asking. Making a joke and dropping it and moving on is what I do when people make mistakes about me, I'd like the same in others). I've had a relationships with people who were ok with who they were, accepted themselves who who they were, had the odd blip with gender/body, but generally had no issues with who they were anymore. I found the relationship became about us and less about how small their cock would become if she/they/per held my bag for five minutes while I picked something up. Although I don't particularly care for being seen as "butch" by straight people (and they do call me that on a semi regular basis when they find out I'm gay, cause they are clueless), it's not an insult, it's not embarrassing and it doesn't wreck my day. I don't care for partners that see being mistaken as feminine in some way as insulting/embarrassing/cause for a long sulk. I'd also like someone that although enjoyed my cooking, a lot, liked to make me meals too on occasion, even if it's mushroom soup from a tin and some toast. Someone that understands that if we are going to move in together to save some money - some of that money is going on a house cleaner cause I ain't no haus frau and I'd rather spend that time cleaning or arguing about house work having sex or laying in the park looking at men's fashion magazines with them. please and thanks Last edited by imperfect_cupcake; 07-17-2013 at 07:14 PM.

07-17-2013, 10:36 PM	#12
Girl_On_Fire Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her Relationship Status: On Hiatus Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Connecticut Posts: 690 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,020 Thanked 2,683 Times in 562 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	Character traits I want in my Mr. Wonderful: Patient Self-Sufficient Goal-Oriented Laid-Back Good Sense of Humor Gentleman in the Streets Freak in the Sheets Politically Aware Spiritually Awake Protective __________________ "Quit trying to reason with unreasonable people. It's like trying to have a meaningful conversation with an end table." ~ Girl_On_Fire

05-09-2011, 09:00 PM	#2
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Hmmm. That's hard I guess the basics for me would be someone who is on my level that I can connect physically spiritually and emotionally. Someone. I trust without reservation.

05-12-2011, 04:45 PM	#4
jules5041 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: do not disturb... Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: little rock, arkansas Posts: 226 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 280 Thanked 596 Times in 163 Posts Rep Power: 5414485	Lets see... describe my perfect partner... Ummm...definitely has to be butch. 2. SHORT hair. 3. A good sense of humor. 4. Must be able to type a complete sentence including knowledge of the use of nouns, verbs, adjectives and adverbs. 5. Has a job in the medical field or is a chef or cop. 6. Will give me my space when I need it. 7. Affectionate.

05-12-2011, 06:48 PM	#5
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,936 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	A good sence of humor is a must. Can cook. Dosent mind some of the stupid stuff I do and can laugh at it right along with me cause being dyislex can be doawn right crazy at times. Me mindfull if the rest of my idiocys..think absent minded proffessor. Like fur kids. Be adventurious. Good kisser dosent hurt. Understan I have a fetish for hawiian shirts.

07-17-2013, 12:39 PM	#9
deb_U_taunt Senior Member How Do You Identify?: ........ Join Date: May 2011 Location: ....... Posts: 1,748 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,324 Thanked 5,257 Times in 1,361 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Describe Mr/Mrs Wonderful Mr/Mrs Wonderful needs to be a friend and PARTNER. We will have each other's backs. (and front )

07-17-2013, 07:34 PM	#11
Kätzchen Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: May 2010 Location: . Posts: 15,839 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,630 Thanked 33,387 Times in 10,548 Posts Rep Power: 21474866	The person who becomes the 'Special Someone' in my life will care deeply not only for me, but for themselves as well and equally, as much as humanly possible, we'll think of and put each other first (above all else). That's a rather tall expectation: but I stand tall in most, if not all, aspects of my life.

07-17-2013, 10:39 PM	#13
Katniss Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dame, doll, twist, dish Preferred Pronoun?: Ladylike ones Relationship Status: ***** Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: We drink sweet tea here Posts: 2,903 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,654 Thanked 10,377 Times in 2,095 Posts Rep Power**: 21474851	Someone with a 6 inch tongue that can breath through their ears.

07-18-2013, 07:13 AM	#14
Debb Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Michigan Posts: 1 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2 Thanked 3 Times in 1 Post Rep Power: 0	Someone who has traits that turn me on/that get my attention........ -Understand that I'm being me -Likes me to cook ANYTHING; doesn't have any hang-ups about food -Understands I have "down" time -will help me get back in school -understands that I enjoy GROCERY SHOPPING, time at resale stores, books, spending money on my daughters -just loves me for me.

07-18-2013, 09:16 AM	#16
barnes Member How Do You Identify?: butch tg Preferred Pronoun?: he Relationship Status: single Join Date: May 2011 Location: kentucky Posts: 752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,704 Thanked 559 Times in 188 Posts Rep Power: 6001834	a femme that is sweet and kind to a fault. a femme that will accept my back pain and the problems it causes me. a femme that is honest and open and loves to talk . a femme that is ready for true love in her life and gets excited as I do about love. a femme that is self sufficient. a femme that has passion for the fine arts.

07-23-2013, 05:26 PM	#17
Sweet Bliss Senior Member How Do You Identify?: I Am Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: solo Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: the Beach, Pacific side Posts: 4,160 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,354 Thanked 7,267 Times in 2,158 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Funny, sweet, adventurous, willing to try new things, strong hands, big heart, loves Mom/Dad/family ...... and totally gets me. The butterscotch topping for my French vanilla.

07-23-2013, 06:43 PM	#19
Corkey Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Human Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Very Married Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Where I want to be Posts: 8,155 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 47,491 Thanked 29,274 Times in 6,637 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	~~My wife.~~ __________________ "Many proposals have been made to us to adopt your laws, your religion, your manners and your customs. We would be better pleased with beholding the good effects of these doctrines in your own practices, than with hearing you talk about them". ~Old Tassel, Chief of the Tsalagi (Cherokee)

07-23-2013, 06:50 PM	#20
Metro Senior Member How Do You Identify?: • Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: • Posts: 1,606 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,476 Thanked 2,915 Times in 733 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	Smart, sexy, sweet, and sure of herself!