What are your three non-negotiables (in a relationship)?

Koffeelvr · 08-10-2013, 07:07 PM

Must haves:

Integrity

Kindness

Wisdom

Followed close by a healthy sense of adventure

NorCalStud · 08-10-2013, 07:09 PM

emotional honesty
Likes to have a clean home
Communicates

Asari · 08-11-2013, 07:19 AM

1. A (nearly) similar view on spirituality, philosophy and ethics.
Indispensable attribute. Prevents major conflicts.

2. Healthy self-discipline.
There are no Problems, just challenges. Fear? Conquer it. Bored? Open your eyes for the miracles around you.

(If it's going to be a sexual relationship)
3. Attractiveness.
Female masculinity and a dominant aura is a good start. Or s/he is an anthropomorphic alien. *cough*

SleepyButch · 08-11-2013, 08:09 AM

Hmmmm....

Honesty

Affectionate

Must love dogs

Sweet Bliss · 08-11-2013, 08:51 AM

I don't share nicely, so NO open policy

I am not looking for pain = love, if you are keep walking away

I am the Domestic Goddess you always dreamed of having by your side ...
Not your slave, step up or get lost.

Okie dokie, there, some honest to gawd honesty.

It's Sunday morning, and yes, I'm putting it out there. Scorpio rising today. Feels fabulous.

08-10-2013, 07:09 PM	#2
NorCalStud Member How Do You Identify?: gaea's Daddy and Fiance Preferred Pronoun?: Ours Relationship Status: Engaged with gaea:-) Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Island Mountain Posts: 440 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,630 Thanked 1,465 Times in 359 Posts Rep Power: 18918589	must have emotional honesty Likes to have a clean home Communicates __________________ "Love the questions" ...Rainier Marie Rilke...Letters to a young poet Che

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Asari Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: female ones Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: Germany Posts: 146 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 563 Thanked 274 Times in 90 Posts Rep Power: 4780808	1. A (nearly) similar view on spirituality, philosophy and ethics. Indispensable attribute. Prevents major conflicts. 2. Healthy self-discipline. There are no Problems, just challenges. Fear? Conquer it. Bored? Open your eyes for the miracles around you. (If it's going to be a sexual relationship) 3. Attractiveness. Female masculinity and a dominant aura is a good start. Or s/he is an anthropomorphic alien. cough __________________ “Earth provides enough to satisfy every man's needs, but not every man's greed.” Mahatma Gandhi

08-11-2013, 08:09 AM	#4
SleepyButch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dude Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Hidden Valley Ranch Posts: 3,511 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,220 Thanked 11,248 Times in 2,754 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Hmmmm.... Honesty Affectionate Must love dogs __________________ . You cannot embrace those things that will not embrace you back.

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Koffeelvr Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Soft Butch Join Date: Jun 2013 Location: Washington DC Posts: 16 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14 Thanked 54 Times in 13 Posts Rep Power: 429510	Must haves: Integrity Kindness Wisdom Followed close by a healthy sense of adventure

08-11-2013, 08:51 AM	#5
Sweet Bliss Senior Member How Do You Identify?: I Am Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: solo Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: the Beach, Pacific side Posts: 4,160 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,354 Thanked 7,268 Times in 2,159 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	I don't share nicely, so NO open policy I am not looking for pain = love, if you are keep walking away I am the Domestic Goddess you always dreamed of having by your side ... Not your slave, step up or get lost. Okie dokie, there, some honest to gawd honesty. It's Sunday morning, and yes, I'm putting it out there. Scorpio rising today. Feels fabulous.