YSK: You Should Know.....

Bèsame* · 08-15-2013, 07:51 AM

GraffitiBoi · 08-15-2013, 08:03 AM

There are a few things in life I take very seriously: family, friendship and love being the top three. Along with those are the words 'I love you'. I rarely believe someone when they say them because too often I have been told those three little words and then been let down terribly. I almost never say them and, until now, I have only ever loved one woman.

I do love another one now and it's taken me by surprise and scares the hell out of me. I can't explain why I love her but I know when I first felt it. Feeling a connection to someone that you barely know seems crazy and stupid. I guess I am crazy and stupid.

I will tell a friend I love her/him and mean it... but it's different and I still rarely say it. I have said it to one friend recently and meant it, and I believe I may have said it to the woman I love, but I honestly can't remember if I said it to her or only thought about saying it. LOL

So if I ever say those three words to you (and not just 'love ya') know that it is the truth and try not to hurt me by saying it back if you don't mean it. Nothing hurts me worse than hearing those words and finding out they aren't true.

o'queery · 08-15-2013, 08:10 AM

You Should Know

my cheeks HURT from smiling.

LoyalWolfsBlade · 08-15-2013, 09:49 AM

YSK I think I am going back to bed for awhile would you like to join me and hibe me a reason not to sleep

LoyalWolfsBlade · 08-18-2013, 06:40 AM

YSK consequences and rewards for every decision has always been my mantra think wisely before choosing has always been my advice. So my question is why in the he** didn't I recall that an hour or so ago. Why wasn't I prepared for the outcome of the last decision I just made or the possible way I would feel. Oh well pick up your foot place it back down repeat as often as needed and you will move forward eventually. At least that is what I am currently telling myself. Lets hope no more sharp turns appear when I am not looking

agape · 08-19-2013, 02:32 AM

YSK...
that trust is earned... through consistent trustworthy behavior...
YSK...
that second chance is called second for a reason... you are not supposed to need a third, fourth, fifth etc...

JAGG · 08-21-2013, 09:36 AM

YSK Last night I was cutting the grass and there was a rabbit in my back yard, and out of nowhere this big hawk swooped down and took off with it. Holy crap! I wasn't expecting that.

08-15-2013, 07:51 AM	#1
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,382 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,118 Thanked 40,948 Times in 10,733 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	__________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

08-15-2013, 08:10 AM	#3
o'queery Member How Do You Identify?: serviceboy Preferred Pronoun?: him, hey boy Relationship Status: boyfriend of my joey. <3 Imma lucky bitchboy! Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Off the Grid Posts: 864 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,770 Thanked 1,892 Times in 521 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	You Should Know my cheeks HURT from smiling. __________________ I'm not an artist i'm a fucking work of art

08-15-2013, 09:49 AM	#4
LoyalWolfsBlade Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pre-Op FtM, Preferred Pronoun?: Masculine ones plz Relationship Status: Single but haven't given up on finding the One Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: I gaze upon the same moon as you do Posts: 3,827 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,214 Thanked 9,646 Times in 3,123 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	YSK I think I am going back to bed for awhile would you like to join me and hibe me a reason not to sleep __________________ Life should never be stagnant hence my quest for new knowledge will continue until my last breath. Wolf

08-18-2013, 06:40 AM	#5
LoyalWolfsBlade Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Pre-Op FtM, Preferred Pronoun?: Masculine ones plz Relationship Status: Single but haven't given up on finding the One Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: I gaze upon the same moon as you do Posts: 3,827 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,214 Thanked 9,646 Times in 3,123 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	YSK consequences and rewards for every decision has always been my mantra think wisely before choosing has always been my advice. So my question is why in the he didn't I recall that an hour or so ago. Why wasn't I prepared for the outcome of the last decision I just made or the possible way I would feel. Oh well pick up your foot place it back down repeat as often as needed and you will move forward eventually. At least that is what I am currently telling myself. Lets hope no more sharp turns appear when I am not looking __________________ Life should never be stagnant hence my quest for new knowledge will continue until my last breath. Wolf**

08-19-2013, 02:32 AM	#6
agape Member How Do You Identify?: queer Preferred Pronoun?: don't care Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: earth Posts: 375 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,537 Thanked 671 Times in 203 Posts Rep Power: 9378959	YSK... that trust is earned... through consistent trustworthy behavior... YSK... that second chance is called second for a reason... you are not supposed to need a third, fourth, fifth etc... __________________ "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear." Martin Luther King, Jr.

08-15-2013, 08:03 AM	#2
GraffitiBoi Member How Do You Identify?: Transmasculine Preferred Pronoun?: Male ones Relationship Status: Playing around and having fun Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Minnetonka, MN Posts: 903 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 990 Thanked 3,663 Times in 824 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	There are a few things in life I take very seriously: family, friendship and love being the top three. Along with those are the words 'I love you'. I rarely believe someone when they say them because too often I have been told those three little words and then been let down terribly. I almost never say them and, until now, I have only ever loved one woman. I do love another one now and it's taken me by surprise and scares the hell out of me. I can't explain why I love her but I know when I first felt it. Feeling a connection to someone that you barely know seems crazy and stupid. I guess I am crazy and stupid. I will tell a friend I love her/him and mean it... but it's different and I still rarely say it. I have said it to one friend recently and meant it, and I believe I may have said it to the woman I love, but I honestly can't remember if I said it to her or only thought about saying it. LOL So if I ever say those three words to you (and not just 'love ya') know that it is the truth and try not to hurt me by saying it back if you don't mean it. Nothing hurts me worse than hearing those words and finding out they aren't true.

08-21-2013, 09:36 AM	#7
JAGG Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: JAGG Relationship Status: =) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tulsa (cat free zone) Posts: 6,093 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18,651 Thanked 17,531 Times in 4,137 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	YSK Last night I was cutting the grass and there was a rabbit in my back yard, and out of nowhere this big hawk swooped down and took off with it. Holy crap! I wasn't expecting that. __________________ I don't want to spend my life with someone I can live with, I want to spend my life with someone I can't live without.