Lesbian Femmes & Lesbian Butch Pussy - WOMEN ONLY

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I am still laughing over the idea that we are rare, like unicorns.

I don't think we are that rare. Are we?

[TruTexan]

Thank you all for your responses.
I, personally, have found it difficult to find a femme willing to participate in this type of pleasuring of me sexually. I don't know how rare it is, I just know that those particular women just weren't interested. Needless to say, I stopped seeing them. So, me, I sorta feel like I'm a dying breed of butch, lmao. I've been out a long long time and it's taken much tenderness and love from good women to help me come out of my shell over the years and actually enjoy this part of myself. After a long hard look back, I no longer want to give up this part of my sexual likings. It's ok for others to do what they do, but I don't want to ever partner up again with a femme that isn't into butch pussy. Call me stingy, a pervert, whatever, but I Like what I like. LOL
I am enjoying everyone's responses and thank you for keeping the thread going, I was quite afraid to talk about this in an open forum for fear of being chastized about it. I thought that by now someone else would have brought this up in a discussion, but I"m glad I did now. It's all good. No longer afraidy cat. lol

[ArkansasPiscesGrrl]

I am a greedy girl Very very greedy. I am addicted to more.

That being said, along with the fact that I came out very late in life, I love the fact that I am a lesbian. To ME, that means being able to love, and have sexual fun, with a woman. I want to make love to their face, their lips, their necks, their breasts, their belly, their pussy, their thighs, their ankles, their toes. Every square inch of them, I want, I demand, I enjoy.

I also am a Femme who has been deeply attracted to Butch women for most of my life. I love my wife's masculine energy, that part of her that makes her the butch she has always been inside. I am super turned on by the fact that my wife has a butch cock that she wears always. I love that when we are together I can reach over and feel her hardness. I love to lean down and take that cock into my mouth and make love to her like that. The fact that I can reach under that cock and feel her clit and sink my fingers into her pussy, with that glorious cock in my mouth, is a HUGE turn on to me. Or if, after a blow job or hand job (or both!), I move that harness up and climb between her legs to lick that clit and pussy, or even fuck her myself, it is all part of our dance. It is all on the table, you know? I get the best of both worlds, IMO.

Yep, I am a greedy girl Whether I am like a unicorn as well, don't know and don't care. It works for her and I.

But then again, she is addicted to more too, I think. the fact that I am a kinky-assed old lady helps a lot too!! HA!!

APG

[thedivahrrrself]

Considering that the clit is sort of a vestigial cock, a lot of butches look at that as their cock or small cock (see Butch Cock thread for reference, and for general fun reading) So, I don't think it's too rare to find a femme willing to suck either or both of your cocks

I've never heard a butch call it a pussy. But whatever you want to call it, make sure it gets all the love it deserves.

<~Former "stone" femme

However, I don't consider myself a lesbian (I'm queer), because I date those outside the traditional gender dichotomy, but that's semantics really. Everyone kind of has their own definitions around these words.

[*Anya*]

Originally Posted by TruTexan

Thank you all for your responses.
I, personally, have found it difficult to find a femme willing to participate in this type of pleasuring of me sexually. I don't know how rare it is, I just know that those particular women just weren't interested. Needless to say, I stopped seeing them. So, me, I sorta feel like I'm a dying breed of butch, lmao. I've been out a long long time and it's taken much tenderness and love from good women to help me come out of my shell over the years and actually enjoy this part of myself. After a long hard look back, I no longer want to give up this part of my sexual likings. It's ok for others to do what they do, but I don't want to ever partner up again with a femme that isn't into butch pussy. Call me stingy, a pervert, whatever, but I Like what I like. LOL
I am enjoying everyone's responses and thank you for keeping the thread going, I was quite afraid to talk about this in an open forum for fear of being chastized about it. I thought that by now someone else would have brought this up in a discussion, but I"m glad I did now. It's all good. No longer afraidy cat. lol

*curtsies*

Not rare at all here.

Into it?

Yes, lots.

[imperfect_cupcake]

Oh it's been chatted about before Texan. but the threads are probably burried and even though the majority of butches I meet actually *have* vaginas/cunts (I hate the word pussy, sorry, like some people hate the word cunt) along with having cocks, and are into their cunts being fucked, and their clit-cocks being sucked off, on line the word cock seems to appear more. I have been with quite a few who although don't enjoy being penetrated, they sure as hell enjoy me sucking their "flesh" cock off.

Lots of them enjoy me using a dildo, frottage, sucking, fisting and genital massage, all of which I love doing. I'm service orientated so I'm happy to give whatever it is they want.

I've been happy with certain types of stones (if I couldn't suck someone's clit-cock or flesh cock off for the rest of my life I would be devastated, that's my line). and I've been happy with TGButches who aren't stone but enjoy the inside pathway of their cocks stroked off.

If you have a root around in the past threads, you might find a few of these. Or I could be thinking of the old site, of course. But I do recall having this convo quite a few times on the forums. I think because the default setting on line is "cock" (which could mean inner cock [that ridge that swells up on the ventral/stomach side of the vagina], clit or dildo) it gets confusing.

I'm sorry you are haing trouble finding a girl who likes to be active (in the traditional meaning of that word active/passive/versatile nomers at web dating sites like gaydar girls).

It might be something you could bring up in a way during flirting rather than having to find out the hard way. It's not easy and it can scare the horses but I find it saves me a LOT of grief in the bedroom if I find out before hand if they are going to find me "too submissve" at times. cause if I have to have the "what do you want me to do"/"do what you want, I'm here for you"/"no really, what do you want me to do."/"I want you to do what *you* want to do"/"I'm serious, what would you -"

conversation one more time I'll pull my own hair out. two people orientated the same way doesn't work. even if one is a top and one is a bottom.

but yes, there are oodles of girls out there very willing to slide a bullet vibe up your ass and suck you off while fisting you into next week *coy feminine eyelash flutter*

and be girly about it.

It's just finding them. Join a local group through here? try OKCupid? there are some great sex questions asked on that site that can help orientate you to the right gals.

My profile is up there, if you want some help on setting it up take a look - lezbosushi. I'm not sure how you feel about internet dating but I'm finding it's the only way to meet my community here.

[TruTexan]

I"m a giver and receiver myself. I'm wanting to connect with others that are like myself. It kinda feels taboo to talk about and discuss openly and it seems for almost 50 yrs of living as a lesbian butch woman, that it never is talked about this way. I don't care for calling my own pussy a cock or a cunt, but to each their own. I have no issue with anyone that does. I just want to keep the discussion going in a comfortable direction for everyone that wishes to keep it going. Thanks for all your replies and reps. I appreciate them very much.
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[Bad_boi]

In most any way hy or she would like me to. I don't have any problems doing what makes them and myself happy. It's rare for a butch to be into and FTM however when it happens, its magical.

And yes, I am posting we don't need a bajillon threads all separated by ID.

[TruTexan]

Originally Posted by Bad_boi

In most any way hy or she would like me to. I don't have any problems doing what makes them and myself happy. It's rare for a butch to be into and FTM however when it happens, its magical.

And yes, I am posting we don't need a bajillon threads all separated by ID.

Welcome to the discussion badboi. No one is excluded here at all. I started this thread to find like minded femmes and am welcoming anyone to join in !! Thanks for your openness.

[imperfect_cupcake]

Originally Posted by TruTexan

I"m a giver and receiver myself. I'm wanting to connect with others that are like myself. It kinda feels taboo to talk about and discuss openly and it seems for almost 50 yrs of living as a lesbian butch woman, that it never is talked about this way. I don't care for calling my own pussy a cock or a cunt, but to each their own. I have no issue with anyone that does. I just want to keep the discussion going in a comfortable direction for everyone that wishes to keep it going. Thanks for all your replies and reps. I appreciate them very much.
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Darlin, that's awful to hear. I know that different places have different sub cultures and that makes communication around those things very very different than other areas on the planet. I'm sorry where you've been has been that way

I do send you good news that it's not like that all over the world though. In many places it's perfectly normal for a butch to talk about their female genitalia (inset word of preference here) in terms of sex with friends rather openly. At least they do in my subsets of friends

I promise you there are lots of butches out there who talk about it too.

Unless, you know, you just started this to meet femmes...

[TruTexan]

NO, it wasn't started just to meet femmes. Its the name in the title but it was intended to be able to connect with femmes and others to discuss the topic and make connections in that way . I welcome anyone of any ID to come talk about it here in whatever name they wanna call it. Just for me it was a connection to see what other lesbians felt about butch pussy/cunt/cock/however you choose to call it, and to talk freely with others that possibly have been where I've been. Anywho, thanks for posting.