The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

[Nic]

Originally Posted by callmejay

I'm 51 new to this sight and don't know how to get started any help??? I'm single and looking for someone to have a cup of coffee with. Live in NJ. Anybody out there???

Hi Jay,

I'm pretty new myself. I think I saw a forum for people from each of the individual states (as well as other places). Not sure where but if you keep asking someone will point you in the right direction. In the meantime, just keep posting. I found people were pretty quick to say hello and point me in the right direction. I found a couple who are pretty good at making me laugh from time to time too.

Nic