Things you should never say on a date.

Sweet Bliss · 09-19-2013, 08:25 PM

Give me your leftovers, I'll eat them for lunch tomorrow.

SleepyButch · 09-19-2013, 08:45 PM

"I'm sorry. I did not have time to shower. How badly do I smell right now?"

SleepyButch · 09-19-2013, 08:51 PM

“Well, I wouldn’t say that I was wrongfully imprisoned. But the imprisoned part, sure. That sounds accurate.”

Heavenleahangel · 09-20-2013, 06:50 AM

I guess I'm not a good date, then. I have a son who is sick and it doesn't matter to me where I am or who I am with. If my son's caregiver calls or texts, I am answering as I know it will be important. And as for leftovers, I do take them home, too. Waste not want not. Maybe I need to go back and read the B-F dating handbook.
And I'm sure it is a major no-no to use coupons, but I do!!!!

Katniss · 09-20-2013, 07:38 AM

First date, a few years back, and upon learning the organization I work for has offices in every state including two (at the time) that recognized gay marriage;

"So if we get married I can get on your health insurance, right?'

Katniss~~(check, please....)

p.s. I have no problem with someone checking their phone if they have minor children who are with a caregiver for the evening. That's just being a good parent.

always2late · 09-20-2013, 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Heavenleahangel

I guess I'm not a good date, then. I have a son who is sick and it doesn't matter to me where I am or who I am with. If my son's caregiver calls or texts, I am answering as I know it will be important. And as for leftovers, I do take them home, too. Waste not want not. Maybe I need to go back and read the B-F dating handbook.
And I'm sure it is a major no-no to use coupons, but I do!!!!

There is nothing wrong with this (or with you as far as your being a good date)! I have a disabled son, and my phone is always with me and always on. Anyone with a child, disabled or not, should be able to understand this. In fact, I would have a big problem with a date who insisted I turn my phone off, or who complained about me keeping it on for my son. Huge red flag there! I also see no problem with taking home leftovers. Why waste food? As for coupons...I don't see the problem there either. Last time I checked, I'm not a millionaire, I don't even have any "spare" cash...so why would I hold it against someone if they have a coupon to save a few bucks?

As for my entry for things you should never say on a date: "You look just like/remind me so much of my ex!" (and yes, that was said to me on a first date.)

Nic · 09-20-2013, 12:35 PM

What's that smell?

Violette · 09-20-2013, 09:00 PM

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Originally Posted by SleepyButch

"I'm sorry. I did not have time to shower. How badly do I smell right now?"

Well, the person never mentioned that she didn't have a shower...

I went on a date with a very nice and very good looking butch....

Now, about that shower thing...uh, well, she smelled so bad I couldn't muster up any romantic feelings whatsoever.

Cole · 05-21-2014, 11:38 PM

Any sorts of deep emotional truth/baggage telling upon first meeting. I once went on a FIRST date with a girl who proceed to read me her poetry she had written on being sexually abused by a family member.

Also...'I hope you're into bondage. I LOVE rough sex.'

Feasting Panther · 04-29-2015, 07:25 PM

I'm going on a date this Sunday, I don't drink Alcohol, she loves to drink and we are going to a Venue..
I also find her Irish Accent so strong i cant understand her at times, so then i feel embarrassed, but she is cuddly and lovely , inked all over (so i believe).
She also doesn't give a s##t that i'm M-T-F, had no idea till i told her, as i felt it was best to be honest.
So as long as can try really hard to understand her, which will be harder after shes had about 10 pints of ale, all should be good.
Trying to be aware and accepting of peoples cultural and linguistic differences can be hard sometimes.
Thick IRISH BROGUE, Is another language !!!

-Red-Flag- · 04-29-2015, 08:12 PM

I forgot my wallet. Can you cover the tab?

MsTinkerbelly · 04-29-2015, 09:22 PM

A butch said to me...

I don't know why i asked you out, i usually only date other butches.

MysticOceansFL · 04-30-2015, 04:49 AM

Never ask any classy Femme her age!

Gemme · 04-30-2015, 06:07 AM

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Originally Posted by MysticOceansFL

Never ask any classy Femme her age!

Only the classless ones?

MysticOceansFL · 04-30-2015, 08:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Gemme

Only the classless ones?

I consider A/all Femmes classy!

Yanz · 09-27-2015, 06:30 PM

Talk about what her ex like o dislikes...example..."hey...u don't eat broccoli?..my ex also don't like brocoli n etc......"....i dun like such comparison....its annoyed me....uhuhu

homoe · 09-27-2015, 06:43 PM

"Wow, you have a good appetite

C0LLETTE · 09-27-2015, 07:23 PM

"Could you please eat a little faster. I'm meeting my ex for drinks at 8 ."

C0LLETTE · 09-27-2015, 07:29 PM

"I don't wish to be rude but in the ad you said you were good looking"

homoe · 09-27-2015, 07:33 PM

Just how OLD is that photo on your profile

09-19-2013, 08:45 PM	#2
SleepyButch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dude Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Hidden Valley Ranch Posts: 3,511 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,220 Thanked 11,248 Times in 2,754 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	"I'm sorry. I did not have time to shower. How badly do I smell right now?" __________________ . You cannot embrace those things that will not embrace you back.

09-19-2013, 08:51 PM	#3
SleepyButch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dude Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Hidden Valley Ranch Posts: 3,511 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,220 Thanked 11,248 Times in 2,754 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	“Well, I wouldn’t say that I was wrongfully imprisoned. But the imprisoned part, sure. That sounds accurate.” __________________ . You cannot embrace those things that will not embrace you back.

09-20-2013, 06:50 AM	#4
Heavenleahangel Member How Do You Identify?: OFOS Femme; Earth bound Angel and Babygirl; Preferred Pronoun?: She, Angel, as long as it's respectful Relationship Status: Waiting for the One who can complete me Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Albany, NY~but originally from Georgia Posts: 562 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,257 Thanked 2,069 Times in 468 Posts Rep Power: 18675554	I guess I'm not a good date, then. I have a son who is sick and it doesn't matter to me where I am or who I am with. If my son's caregiver calls or texts, I am answering as I know it will be important. And as for leftovers, I do take them home, too. Waste not want not. Maybe I need to go back and read the B-F dating handbook. And I'm sure it is a major no-no to use coupons, but I do!!!! __________________ Sweet Georgia Peach

09-20-2013, 12:35 PM	#7
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09-19-2013, 08:25 PM	#1
Sweet Bliss Senior Member How Do You Identify?: I Am Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: solo Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: the Beach, Pacific side Posts: 4,160 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,354 Thanked 7,268 Times in 2,159 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Give me your leftovers, I'll eat them for lunch tomorrow.

09-20-2013, 07:38 AM	#5
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05-21-2014, 11:38 PM	#9
Cole Member How Do You Identify?: Me Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: May 2014 Location: Over The Rainbow Posts: 130 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 74 Thanked 311 Times in 100 Posts Rep Power: 3607765	Any sorts of deep emotional truth/baggage telling upon first meeting. I once went on a FIRST date with a girl who proceed to read me her poetry she had written on being sexually abused by a family member. Also...'I hope you're into bondage. I LOVE rough sex.'

04-29-2015, 07:25 PM	#10
Feasting Panther Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Trans Butch Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Apr 2015 Location: Perth Australia Posts: 6 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4 Thanked 35 Times in 6 Posts Rep Power: 0	I'm going on a date this Sunday, I don't drink Alcohol, she loves to drink and we are going to a Venue.. I also find her Irish Accent so strong i cant understand her at times, so then i feel embarrassed, but she is cuddly and lovely , inked all over (so i believe). She also doesn't give a s##t that i'm M-T-F, had no idea till i told her, as i felt it was best to be honest. So as long as can try really hard to understand her, which will be harder after shes had about 10 pints of ale, all should be good. Trying to be aware and accepting of peoples cultural and linguistic differences can be hard sometimes. Thick IRISH BROGUE, Is another language !!!

04-29-2015, 09:22 PM	#12
MsTinkerbelly Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: ... Preferred Pronoun?: ... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ... Posts: 6,573 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,737 Thanked 22,907 Times in 5,017 Posts Rep Power: 0	A butch said to me... I don't know why i asked you out, i usually only date other butches.

04-30-2015, 04:49 AM	#13
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09-27-2015, 06:30 PM	#16
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C0LLETTE Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Depends on the day. Preferred Pronoun?: "I" and "we" Relationship Status: Very good. Thank you for asking. Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: Canada Posts: 11,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,676 Thanked 15,174 Times in 4,340 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	"I don't wish to be rude but in the ad you said you were good looking"

09-27-2015, 07:33 PM	#20
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