What Disappointed You Today?

Gemme · 04-13-2010, 07:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ~Bo

I'm no pepper pooper.

Well, I would hope NOT. That would burn a little bit.

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Originally Posted by puregrrl

Hey!
I am not mean.
That disappoints me.

You are beautiful and kind, which is not disappointing to me at all.

If you'd like, I'll add your name to the list of meanies.

bigbutchmistie · 04-13-2010, 07:47 PM

I got an email from the pastor where I go to church and she was asking me if there was something the church or she could help with in regards to why I havent been to church. Im not one to start drama. So, I kindly replied to her and told her no thank you. Just things I need to work out for me. I feel disappointed in myself for not going when I should. And making the church feel they are responsible for my lack of attendance when its not them at all...

Gemme · 04-13-2010, 07:54 PM

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Originally Posted by bigbutchmistie

I got an email from the pastor where I go to church and she was asking me if there was something the church or she could help with in regards to why I havent been to church. Im not one to start drama. So, I kindly replied to her and told her no thank you. Just things I need to work out for me. I feel disappointed in myself for not going when I should. And making the church feel they are responsible for my lack of attendance when its not them at all...

BBM, honey, I remember reading about why you didn't feel comfortable going back to your church. Don't you think, of all the people that might be able to help you, your pastor is THE one? I don't think it's "starting drama" to reply and say "Actually, I do want to return but I have a problem and I am hesitant to discuss this with just anyone but I think that perhaps you might be able to give me some suggestions on how to deal with this matter" and then TELL HIM/HER!

No offense, but this is only hurting you. You are moping around, wanting to go back, but letting someone else control your actions. Not fun or cool. Buck up. I'm sure your pastor will support you 100%!

Sybelle · 04-13-2010, 08:11 PM

Running into my ex-husband of 12 years, we've been divorced 5 years. Having him ask "So... are you still into that gay thing?"

I replied "Why, yes, I am.. thank you for asking!"

bigbutchmistie · 04-14-2010, 07:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Gemme

BBM, honey, I remember reading about why you didn't feel comfortable going back to your church. Don't you think, of all the people that might be able to help you, your pastor is THE one? I don't think it's "starting drama" to reply and say "Actually, I do want to return but I have a problem and I am hesitant to discuss this with just anyone but I think that perhaps you might be able to give me some suggestions on how to deal with this matter" and then TELL HIM/HER!

No offense, but this is only hurting you. You are moping around, wanting to go back, but letting someone else control your actions. Not fun or cool. Buck up. I'm sure your pastor will support you 100%!

You are right Gemme

Thanks

JustBeingMe · 04-14-2010, 02:09 PM

That it is still not the 22nd yet and I have to WAIT TO GET THE ANSWERS I NEED..ARRRGHHHH!!

Ldyluck88 · 04-14-2010, 02:15 PM

Humm, not to aire my dirty laundry, but I'm disappointed that my roommate does not appreciate what I do in this household, rather, she expects more! Disheartening that one can break their back to help someone as a friend, and it goes unoticed. I will not let it get me down, because, I know, I am a good person with good intentions, and I will never stop trying to be the best person I can be. Life is good!!

JakeTulane · 04-14-2010, 02:24 PM

My new mattress has not arrived yet.. *the clock is ticking*

(imagines Me getting it set up much like I do when I go camping and I am the one putting tents up in the dead of night holding two flashlights)

(mutters about delivery drivers and how they tell time)

adorable · 04-14-2010, 02:24 PM

People...never fails.

04-13-2010, 08:11 PM	#4
Sybelle Member How Do You Identify?: see Scota_Parisi Preferred Pronoun?: see Scota_Parisi Relationship Status: see Scota_Parisi Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: see Scota_Parisi Posts: 264 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 384 Thanked 290 Times in 140 Posts Rep Power: 56	Running into my ex-husband of 12 years, we've been divorced 5 years. Having him ask "So... are you still into that gay thing?" I replied "Why, yes, I am.. thank you for asking!" __________________ "Any intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It takes a touch of genius -- and a lot of courage -- to move in the opposite direction." - Albert Einstein

04-14-2010, 02:09 PM	#6
JustBeingMe Senior Member How Do You Identify?: as ME Relationship Status: I don't need no stinking status. Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: somewhere you're not..... Posts: 1,808 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,961 Thanked 1,690 Times in 694 Posts Rep Power: 12813869	That it is still not the 22nd yet and I have to WAIT TO GET THE ANSWERS I NEED..ARRRGHHHH!! __________________ Nothing more, Nothing less, I'm Just Being Me

04-13-2010, 07:47 PM	#2
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	I got an email from the pastor where I go to church and she was asking me if there was something the church or she could help with in regards to why I havent been to church. Im not one to start drama. So, I kindly replied to her and told her no thank you. Just things I need to work out for me. I feel disappointed in myself for not going when I should. And making the church feel they are responsible for my lack of attendance when its not them at all...

04-14-2010, 02:15 PM	#7
Ldyluck88 Member How Do You Identify?: Me Relationship Status: not here Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: somewhere Posts: 175 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 161 Thanked 117 Times in 67 Posts Rep Power: 23	Humm, not to aire my dirty laundry, but I'm disappointed that my roommate does not appreciate what I do in this household, rather, she expects more! Disheartening that one can break their back to help someone as a friend, and it goes unoticed. I will not let it get me down, because, I know, I am a good person with good intentions, and I will never stop trying to be the best person I can be. Life is good!!

04-14-2010, 02:24 PM	#8
JakeTulane Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Mr. Prickly Porcupine Preferred Pronoun?: Butch - Hy, Hym, Hys Relationship Status: She has softened My quills Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Permanently Banned 8/8/2011 Posts: 4,880 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,221 Thanked 5,264 Times in 2,732 Posts Rep Power: 0	My new mattress has not arrived yet.. the clock is ticking (imagines Me getting it set up much like I do when I go camping and I am the one putting tents up in the dead of night holding two flashlights) (mutters about delivery drivers and how they tell time)

04-14-2010, 02:24 PM	#9
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