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Timed Out
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Its the start of my wonderful new life.
the best is yet to be. |
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i do what i want :) Relationship Status:
well, i'm not banging my ex anymore, so that's good ;) Join Date: Nov 2009
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once upon a time i was Kyssme. that happened because "Kissme" was already taken on that particular site which was my first.
then one day i realized i had outgrown Kyssme. that realization came around the same time i discovered that "femme" didn't work for me anymore, either. i'm sure they're connected- the name Kyssme was a HUGE part of my socialization as a femme. had to shed it all at once. went with Papa Donna for a bit- a nickname given to me by some RT friends ... but the online B/F community seemed confused by that moniker on me. it felt awkward to me, too. so ... now i'm D-Money, another RT nickname. my friend, Omar, dubbed me "D-Money" one night after i kicked his ass at Trivial Pursuit. i dig it ... simple, ballin', a little sentimental ... holla! ![]() |
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I love reading where people came up with their usernames. Interesting...
Well, mine is pretty simple. Ever since I was a little girl, Grease has been one of my favorite movies. I've probably seen it over a 1000 times. Of course, I had a crush on Rizzo (just sayin'). The one scene, where Rizzo & Kanicki are fighting in the diner, she throws the strawberry milkshake in his face and says "from me to you, PinkieLee". |
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Queer... that is all you get Preferred Pronoun?:
um... she.. I think... *shrug* call me anything that pleases ya Relationship Status:
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my username...
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My screen name was originally a joke... I had HAD it up to THERE with people ignoring me because I was Femme and therefore couldn't know anything--no matter the subject, they talked to the Butch--even when she said, "gosh I dunno; let's ask Cath" they would ignore me and pretend that she had answered the question!!
![]() I was really steamed so I drew a cartoon and labeled it "NO MORE MS NICE GUY! Baby Butch In Training--B-BIT!" Big joke, the best one I ever told on myself, since I haven't got a Butch bone in my body. ![]() Then we got online, and I found a queer website, but I didn't have a clue what to name myself. My Butch said, "why not b-bit?" So I did. Then I got caught up in chat and discovered how fast people had to type, and how frustrating hyphens were, so eventually I just went went with bit. THEN a couple years later I discovered a bigger website where it actually had a completely different meaning that my name wasn't capitalized--oy!! People got the wrong impression all the time; someone even said they assumed I was into pony play because of my name! ![]() I still prefer my real name, Cath, but it's been twelve years now, so I think I'm stuck with Bit. ![]() |
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Joy Seeker
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I thought "bit" because you were just a bit of a girl. Not as in only a bit girl but a little bit of a girl like small and delicate. It's why I call you Bitty Bit. LOL However, if you prefer Cath, I will change to that. One of my "things" is to call people what they want to be called. It's important to me on a magical level. |
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The TX Self can call me anything she wants
![]() I was uncomfortable with "bit" as a sn for a long time because I knew most people were assuming it meant I was small and delicate, and I felt deceitful... hadn't expected anyone to think that, yanno? But once we could put pics online that feeling eased off. Today it's just my name, and you are most welcome to call me Bitty Bit if you like. ![]() |
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Mine is me. Literal, direct and to the point. I came up with it last year when I finally found out about the butch/femme dynamic and said "That's ME"!!!!! Julie is a femme!!!!!! Thank you God for helping me figure that one out at the ripe age of 42!!! It makes me happy every time I type it.
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Infamous Member
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Lol Bit, Butch in Training. You sure fooled us all these years! I thought the same thing as Arwen.
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Isadora came from Isadora Duncan, the dancer, as I love to dance. It also fits my Goddess self because it means "Gift of Isis" or "Gift of the Sun".
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This is a fascinating read, thank you for coming up with this unique idea Waldo. Let's see: Itty Bitty Fem It kinda feels like Four Score and Seven Years Ago, however, since I'm only a mere youngster . . . Part 1: Long before the internet, I had a relatively large group of lesbian friends, several others shared my given name, Donna. The confusion led to nicknames - Officer, Esquire, Doc, Big (Donna), and Little (Donna). (Big & Little were actually a couple) That left me, who was shorter and more petite in frame than Little, hence Itty Bitty, which eventually became Itty. From there, it went down hill for a short period of time when they began to refer to me as "Its" or "The Its" (Pretty please, do NOT use that phrase, made me feel like Cousin It from the Adams Family) Once I discovered the internet, Itty Bitty had already become a comfortable fit so I went for that. Part 2: Sitting in front of a brand new computer, anxious to begin, I did not realize AOL dictated the name you select will forever remain the user owner name. "Itty Bitty" had already been assigned so I had to add something else. I had yet to embrace the B-F Dynamics therefore, "Fem" did not identify me as "Femme", it actually was a gender identification, Female = "Fem" Wha-lah, I had a screen name, IttyBittyFem. Gorilla Glue must have been present at the time my friends began using the name Itty. To this day, when around my friends, my own two sisters will refer to me as Itty during a conversation. The name has truly stuck! By the way, Little and I still play Golf together, (when I have no broken bones that is) a great twosome since we're both Lefties and short in stature. Little LOVES using my Driver on par 5's. ! |
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Oh yeah, Puplove: when signing up for b-f long ago, I wanted something that was vaguely descriptive and not too dumb or sweet. Hmmm... I love my dogs and, well, whatever. I like being called Pup, better than my given name Denise (sorry Mom, I know you think it's beautiful. Although, if my mom is reading this, I have some things to discuss with her).
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Joy Seeker
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I thought they were twins separated at birth. Both have an innate sense of who needs biting and who needs love at just the right moment. Both have really cute tails. Both usually come when called unless they are busy doing something else or just don't give a particular good gosh-darn at that moment. Both know how special they are. Both will allow you to admire them and pet them until they say you are done. Of course, one does look better in extensions than the other. ![]() |
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Although, at first glance some have misinterpreted my profile name as meaning 'Calypso-The-Nympho' true - it has happened (on several occasions as matter of fact), but in reality I enjoy Greek Mythology. Calypso is a sea nymph, and I love the sea, plus the name seems to fit.
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![]() years ago on aol ,
I used the name lethelflamezzz...kinda suited me in the way of hurt me and i can be and was lethal but of course my ever changing "me" and the realization that I am indeed a Lady even if i am lethal at times, lady seemed to squirm it's way in there . ![]()
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When I first started hanging out online I was working as a journalist and freelance editor. So, when it came to picking a name, well, words just sprang to mind.
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Well I have loved red tailed foxes for years and have always thought of myself as a vixen. I love shamanism. So foxyshaman seemed to be good fit.
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After years of using the online name "EnDive" (yes after a type of lettuce) LOL
It just didnt suit me anymore and I also wanted to move from the past. I always tagged myself as bootwrnbutch so its kind of a derivative of that. So Boot or Bootboi suits me now and has for the past 3 years. |
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