Instant Turn-Ons

Glenn · 10-05-2013, 04:28 AM

This happened only a few times to me, and I still don't understand wth happened. They were'nt really looking, doing, or wearing anything attractive or sexy, just sitting at a table as usual talking to me. One I knew a short time, and one a long time.There was no previous physical attraction, and then BAM! Pure unadulterated lust that went on and on for months.. Tennov and others called this limerence, or some kind of chemical bath in our brains.

QUOTE=Gemme;850967][B][SIZE="3"][COLOR="YellowGreen"]I gathered from Girl_On_Fire's orginal post was that she wanted to know what flips the switch and/or what changes the script in an instant. See original post below:

That word 'instant' makes all the difference to me. For me, it is not the 'oh, that's nice' or 'I could feel desire or attraction for this person if they did/said/were/knew this'.

For me, it's the eye-widening, breath catching, tummy tightening moment that says I DESIRE YOU whereas in the previous moment there weren't sexual thoughts or undertones at all.

10-05-2013, 04:28 AM	#11
Glenn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dear ol butch bones. Preferred Pronoun?: Old G Relationship Status: Too old to play. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: :rolleyes: Posts: 1,547 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,602 Thanked 3,729 Times in 1,095 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	This happened only a few times to me, and I still don't understand wth happened. They were'nt really looking, doing, or wearing anything attractive or sexy, just sitting at a table as usual talking to me. One I knew a short time, and one a long time.There was no previous physical attraction, and then BAM! Pure unadulterated lust that went on and on for months.. Tennov and others called this limerence, or some kind of chemical bath in our brains. QUOTE=Gemme;850967][B][SIZE="3"][COLOR="YellowGreen"]I gathered from Girl_On_Fire's orginal post was that she wanted to know what flips the switch and/or what changes the script in an instant. See original post below: That word 'instant' makes all the difference to me. For me, it is not the 'oh, that's nice' or 'I could feel desire or attraction for this person if they did/said/were/knew this'. For me, it's the eye-widening, breath catching, tummy tightening moment that says I DESIRE YOU whereas in the previous moment there weren't sexual thoughts or undertones at all.