The Booty Call.

Kobi · 10-25-2013, 02:13 PM

I have only done the booty call thing once in my life. I didn't care for it.

Recreational/casual sex works for some people. It doesn't work for me. I have never had the desire to be a sex toy or tool for another's gratification. Doing so made me feel cheap, used, and just awful about both me and them.

For me, it is kind of like being hungry and settling for fast food when you really crave a fine dining experience.

peachy · 11-03-2013, 04:25 AM

I have had my eyes peeled for the right booty bud for a while and no luck yet. I used to dream about finding the one, and a while back I really thought I had done, but everything changes, I have discovered. Maybe the One I was looking for isn't in one person, maybe the one is more ethereal, like a melody, and there are many violins taking turns as the lead. I am getting less sentimental as time goes on and I value honesty more than romance these days. An honest booty buddy who likes and respects me and on those days when it suits us both...why not...

Nat · 11-03-2013, 06:35 PM

I don't mind feeling a little cheap sometimes myself, but I think it really depends on the people involved whether either party goes home feeling cheap or used. I've been told by more than one past person (not on this site) that I made them feel used for sex even when my heart *was* engaged (oops) - so I guess feeling cheap isn't reserved just for booty calls either.

Aud · 03-23-2014, 03:35 PM

Booty call: sometimes it's just what the Dr. ordered!
But never without emotion--I'm too mammalian for that.

I could never have sex with someone I basically disliked, or someone I
am just physically attracted to, but think they're as dumb-as-a-box-of-rocks.
Sooo, if there's friendly feelings, mutual consideration & honesty, why not?
It's a lot more fun than an evening spent playing Scrabble.

deedarino · 03-23-2014, 04:38 PM

Used to do the booty call thing in my youth, never worked out for me as I would always "fall in love" and end up broken-hearted or even worse the opposite would happen and I would be stuck cleaning up that mess.

Although I am sure I would handle a booty call better these days, and it sometimes seems attractive, I am probably better off staying home with my vibrator until I can get reservations to the steak house down the street. (Kobi, fine dining doesn't put enough on my plate

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11-03-2013, 04:25 AM	#2
peachy Member How Do You Identify?: Me Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Here Posts: 109 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 492 Thanked 395 Times in 90 Posts Rep Power: 5513870	I have had my eyes peeled for the right booty bud for a while and no luck yet. I used to dream about finding the one, and a while back I really thought I had done, but everything changes, I have discovered. Maybe the One I was looking for isn't in one person, maybe the one is more ethereal, like a melody, and there are many violins taking turns as the lead. I am getting less sentimental as time goes on and I value honesty more than romance these days. An honest booty buddy who likes and respects me and on those days when it suits us both...why not... __________________ life's a peach Caution: contains hard stone

11-03-2013, 06:35 PM	#3
Nat Senior Member How Do You Identify?: bigender (DID System) Preferred Pronoun?: he/him or alter-specific Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Central TX Posts: 3,537 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,047 Thanked 13,963 Times in 2,589 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I don't mind feeling a little cheap sometimes myself, but I think it really depends on the people involved whether either party goes home feeling cheap or used. I've been told by more than one past person (not on this site) that I made them feel used for sex even when my heart was engaged (oops) - so I guess feeling cheap isn't reserved just for booty calls either. __________________ I'm a fountain of blood. In the shape of a girl. - Bjork What is to give light must endure burning. -Viktor Frankl

03-23-2014, 04:38 PM	#5
deedarino Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Woman Relationship Status: In recovery. Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Oregon Posts: 632 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,518 Thanked 1,955 Times in 496 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	Used to do the booty call thing in my youth, never worked out for me as I would always "fall in love" and end up broken-hearted or even worse the opposite would happen and I would be stuck cleaning up that mess. Although I am sure I would handle a booty call better these days, and it sometimes seems attractive, I am probably better off staying home with my vibrator until I can get reservations to the steak house down the street. (Kobi, fine dining doesn't put enough on my plate ) __________________ Squint your eyes and look closer. I'm not between you and your ambitions. I am a poster girl with no poster. I am thirty-two flavors and then some. And I'm beyond your peripheral vision, so you might want to turn your head~Ani I want to think again of dangerous and noble things; I want to be light and frolicsome; I want to be improbable, beautiful and afraid of nothing as if I had wings Mary Oliver

10-25-2013, 02:13 PM	#1
Kobi Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Biological female. Lesbian. Relationship Status: Happy Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Hanging out in the Atlantic. Posts: 9,234 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,840 Thanked 34,611 Times in 7,637 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	I have only done the booty call thing once in my life. I didn't care for it. Recreational/casual sex works for some people. It doesn't work for me. I have never had the desire to be a sex toy or tool for another's gratification. Doing so made me feel cheap, used, and just awful about both me and them. For me, it is kind of like being hungry and settling for fast food when you really crave a fine dining experience.

03-23-2014, 03:35 PM	#4
Aud Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Fabulous Preferred Pronoun?: Her/She Relationship Status: Divorced Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: USA, Midwest Posts: 77 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 158 Thanked 198 Times in 63 Posts Rep Power: 968509	Booty call: sometimes it's just what the Dr. ordered! But never without emotion--I'm too mammalian for that. I could never have sex with someone I basically disliked, or someone I am just physically attracted to, but think they're as dumb-as-a-box-of-rocks. Sooo, if there's friendly feelings, mutual consideration & honesty, why not? It's a lot more fun than an evening spent playing Scrabble.