What TO DO in a relationship.....

ONLY · 11-02-2013, 10:47 AM

Talk things out, don't hold them in. I am getting better at this

I am not sure if there is a "What NOT to do in a relationship" but NEVER, EVER, call her a derogatory name, no matter how angry you get. If I were to come to disrespect my lady like that, then the relationship is not meant to be. In my mind, if it happens once, good chance it will happen again. Thankfully it has never happened

And I do not ever see it happening.

girl_dee · 11-02-2013, 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by ONLY

Talk things out, don't hold them in. I am getting better at this

I am not sure if there is a "What NOT to do in a relationship" but NEVER, EVER, call her a derogatory name, no matter how angry you get. If I were to come to disrespect my lady like that, then the relationship is not meant to be. In my mind, if it happens once, good chance it will happen again. Thankfully it has never happened

And I do not ever see it happening.

Yes there is a what not to do thread- thats what spawned this one!

Nic · 11-02-2013, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by ONLY

Talk things out, don't hold them in. I am getting better at this

I am not sure if there is a "What NOT to do in a relationship" but NEVER, EVER, call her a derogatory name, no matter how angry you get. If I were to come to disrespect my lady like that, then the relationship is not meant to be. In my mind, if it happens once, good chance it will happen again. Thankfully it has never happened

And I do not ever see it happening.

Want to second this. Call a woman a derogatory name and she hears it in her heads for the rest of her lives. No matter how much time has passed or how stupid she knows it was that you did it or how many "reasonable explanations" you offer. (IMO, there isn't one.)

Not fair of me to limit it to women so how about just don't call anyone you "love" a derogatory name.

Ginger · 11-02-2013, 12:56 PM

Accept that sometimes no matter what you do, you have no control over the outcome.

Teddybear · 11-03-2013, 04:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Nic

Want to second this. Call a woman a derogatory name and she hears it in her heads for the rest of her lives. No matter how much time has passed or how stupid she knows it was that you did it or how many "reasonable explanations" you offer. (IMO, there isn't one.)

Not fair of me to limit it to women so how about just don't call anyone you "love" a derogatory name.

I have to agree with this. It isnt just the women who are hurt by hurtful things being said. Seems we all have to pay the price for either what we have said or someone else has said to them.

Remember if you dont want it said to you DONT say it to them.

11-02-2013, 10:47 AM	#1
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11-02-2013, 12:56 PM	#4
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,297 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Accept that sometimes no matter what you do, you have no control over the outcome. __________________ Reach out.