The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

morningstar55 · 11-30-2013, 07:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Jet

Hello Barb. Good to see you again. You're looking well in the galleries and I hope life is treating you well—as you deserve. Please keep in touch and keep on truckin' hon. (And just remember the golden rule in my visitor's pages—no food shots, just thoughts from your heart.)

Hugs,
Jet

ty.. nice to c u bk around these parts .. lol
?? no foods or coffee pics here???

DaddyNik12 · 11-30-2013, 08:55 PM

whos got coffee ??? *sittin my white wolf coffee mug down*

Jet · 11-30-2013, 10:55 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

ty.. nice to c u bk around these parts .. lol
?? no foods or coffee pics here???

Yes, Barb. No food—just feel free to drop by. LOL

Joe Mario · 03-03-2014, 09:28 AM

Any one have any experience with Life Insurance Policies for Trans Men?

Would a beneficiary be denied, if the gender on ones Death Cert. and Ins. Policy gender don't match?

Retirement Plans?

I opened a thread in the FTM forums on these topics, in case any one would care to post there!

Breathless · 03-03-2014, 09:36 AM

Unfortunately yes Joe, the insurance company can and will deny benefits if the documents do not match. They look for any kind of 'fraud' and refuse to fulfill their obligations based on, they feel that a) could be different people, or b) the documents were not filled out accurately.. it is in the fine print and their escape clause.

Joe Mario · 03-03-2014, 09:52 AM

Aah, Thanks, Breathless. Am just getting some papers in order and seeing my work benefits portal leaves out particulars, including copies of the Ins. policies we signed up for during enrollment last fall and even the name of the Ins. Co. they are using!

Off I go then, I suppose, to tweeze out what I chose with a 'click', checking for consistency, making changes and then getting copies of documents, etc...that's if one can get ahold of ones HR guy. Full-time job just protecting yourself, eh...

anaisninja · 04-05-2014, 12:18 AM

Anybody here in the Pacific Northwest?

mythy · 04-06-2014, 05:55 AM

Well wot a nice spot to come in an have a cuppa, hello all, very nice to meet you.

11-30-2013, 08:55 PM	#2
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Joe Mario Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Just a guy Preferred Pronoun?: 'He' will be fine. Relationship Status: happily involved Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NJ Posts: 57 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 55 Thanked 67 Times in 24 Posts Rep Power: 41800	50's and better concerns Any one have any experience with Life Insurance Policies for Trans Men? Would a beneficiary be denied, if the gender on ones Death Cert. and Ins. Policy gender don't match? Retirement Plans? I opened a thread in the FTM forums on these topics, in case any one would care to post there! __________________ Ciao, ~Joe Mario

03-03-2014, 09:36 AM	#5
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03-03-2014, 09:52 AM	#6
Joe Mario Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Just a guy Preferred Pronoun?: 'He' will be fine. Relationship Status: happily involved Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NJ Posts: 57 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 55 Thanked 67 Times in 24 Posts Rep Power: 41800	Aah, Thanks, Breathless. Am just getting some papers in order and seeing my work benefits portal leaves out particulars, including copies of the Ins. policies we signed up for during enrollment last fall and even the name of the Ins. Co. they are using! Off I go then, I suppose, to tweeze out what I chose with a 'click', checking for consistency, making changes and then getting copies of documents, etc...that's if one can get ahold of ones HR guy. Full-time job just protecting yourself, eh... __________________ Ciao, ~Joe Mario Last edited by Joe Mario; 03-03-2014 at 09:53 AM. Reason: spelling

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mythy Junior Member How Do You Identify?: silly buggar Relationship Status: single Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: cheshire Posts: 80 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 55 Thanked 180 Times in 67 Posts Rep Power: 1503252	Owdo Well wot a nice spot to come in an have a cuppa, hello all, very nice to meet you.

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