Where are all the lesbian femmes that love us lesbian butches ???

TruTexan · 12-13-2013, 09:23 PM

I would say go check out your local hardware store like Home Depot or Lowes, you might find some working there.

I live in Texas in a tiny town and I seem to be the only lesbian butch here and there are no lesbians here for me to interact with. This part of my life sucks, the rest is ok. It would be nice just to even find some lesbian friends to hang out with and do things with around here. There's not much to do here it's a small town, but it would still be nice to have friends like myself.
Just try to think of any place a butch might work or go to, and go there and check it out. You never know until you try. I don't do the bar/club scene either, not into that stuff either. So I understand what you're talking about. If none of those things work, I don't know what else I could come up with, sorry. I hope this helps you.

Jhenay · 12-13-2013, 09:46 PM

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Originally Posted by TruTexan

I would say go check out your local hardware store like Home Depot or Lowes, you might find some working there.

I live in Texas in a tiny town and I seem to be the only lesbian butch here and there are no lesbians here for me to interact with. This part of my life sucks, the rest is ok. It would be nice just to even find some lesbian friends to hang out with and do things with around here. There's not much to do here it's a small town, but it would still be nice to have friends like myself.
Just try to think of any place a butch might work or go to, and go there and check it out. You never know until you try. I don't do the bar/club scene either, not into that stuff either. So I understand what you're talking about. If none of those things work, I don't know what else I could come up with, sorry. I hope this helps you.

Thanks for the suggestion.

Funny too... I was at Home Depot twice last week. Nobody caught my eye. Haven't tried Lowe's yet.

You think if I find her and tell her I need caulk, she'll know I'm asking if she packs?

As far as Texas, it seems 90% of all the ones I connect well with either live there, or have lived there. So maybe I need to just bite the bullet and move closer to that area one of these days. I admit, hearing "Yes ma'am" in a southern accent gives me good shivers all over.

TruTexan · 12-19-2013, 09:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Jhenay

Thanks for the suggestion.

Funny too... I was at Home Depot twice last week. Nobody caught my eye. Haven't tried Lowe's yet.

You think if I find her and tell her I need caulk, she'll know I'm asking if she packs?

As far as Texas, it seems 90% of all the ones I connect well with either live there, or have lived there. So maybe I need to just bite the bullet and move closer to that area one of these days. I admit, hearing "Yes ma'am" in a southern accent gives me good shivers all over.

Well we do have a southern drawl in Texas, some more than others depending on where you live. We do say Ma'am a lot too. And you can for sure find some butches at Home Depot and Lowes here.

Make the move? That be up to you ma'am.

Jhenay · 01-02-2014, 10:52 PM

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Originally Posted by TruTexan

Well we do have a southern drawl in Texas, some more than others depending on where you live. We do say Ma'am a lot too. And you can for sure find some butches at Home Depot and Lowes here.

Make the move? That be up to you ma'am.

Yup...good shivers. Going to have to give it some serious thought.

lamuymuyfem · 01-22-2014, 09:54 AM

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Originally Posted by TruTexan

I would say go check out your local hardware store like Home Depot or Lowes, you might find some working there.

I live in Texas in a tiny town and I seem to be the only lesbian butch here and there are no lesbians here for me to interact with. This part of my life sucks, the rest is ok. It would be nice just to even find some lesbian friends to hang out with and do things with around here. There's not much to do here it's a small town, but it would still be nice to have friends like myself.
Just try to think of any place a butch might work or go to, and go there and check it out. You never know until you try. I don't do the bar/club scene either, not into that stuff either. So I understand what you're talking about. If none of those things work, I don't know what else I could come up with, sorry. I hope this helps you.

i show my true femme colors to butches who make eye contact……..be sure to keep your eyes locked just a little too long to be decent….

TruTexan · 01-22-2014, 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by lamuymuyfem

i show my true femme colors to butches who make eye contact……..be sure to keep your eyes locked just a little too long to be decent….

welcome to the Planet muymuyfem. Hope you have a wonderful time here while you surf the threads, and make new friends. Enjoy yourself here !

imperfect_cupcake · 01-22-2014, 03:46 PM

Most of the butches I've dated have considered themselves lesbians or dykes. And a proportion of those also considered themselves an additional gender along with being a woman. So they were lesbian And queer.
I like that. I consider myself lesbian and queer. Not just queer.
I can't say I'm lesbian only and I can't say I'm queer only.
One of the things I dreaded about coming home was the separation of this. One community lesbian, one community queer. I miss them being mixed together.

12-13-2013, 09:23 PM	#1
TruTexan Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian butch Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: in a one horse town in a large state, in the U.S. Posts: 3,952 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,112 Thanked 5,268 Times in 1,633 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I would say go check out your local hardware store like Home Depot or Lowes, you might find some working there. I live in Texas in a tiny town and I seem to be the only lesbian butch here and there are no lesbians here for me to interact with. This part of my life sucks, the rest is ok. It would be nice just to even find some lesbian friends to hang out with and do things with around here. There's not much to do here it's a small town, but it would still be nice to have friends like myself. Just try to think of any place a butch might work or go to, and go there and check it out. You never know until you try. I don't do the bar/club scene either, not into that stuff either. So I understand what you're talking about. If none of those things work, I don't know what else I could come up with, sorry. I hope this helps you. __________________

01-22-2014, 03:46 PM	#7
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,711 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Most of the butches I've dated have considered themselves lesbians or dykes. And a proportion of those also considered themselves an additional gender along with being a woman. So they were lesbian And queer. I like that. I consider myself lesbian and queer. Not just queer. I can't say I'm lesbian only and I can't say I'm queer only. One of the things I dreaded about coming home was the separation of this. One community lesbian, one community queer. I miss them being mixed together.