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04-17-2010, 12:28 PM
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For my fathers funeral I had the casket spray sent from a florist with card reading. "May we all now rest in peace._ His child. Take tears as the cleansing purging of you own needs, and enrich the earth SpiritDancer. Best regards, Tommi 
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04-18-2010, 09:04 PM
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Yesterday was bittersweet. A good day overall. Just - the little things you miss.
Dad would call me in the morning to sing "Happy Birthday". Started it after I left home and continued up until the year of his passing in 2008.
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04-26-2010, 06:39 PM
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Almost 13.
We adopted Dusty, the gregarious male long hair black kitten 13 years ago on May 15.My Ex is flying home from work tonight, to be with him during his final days. Dusty wants to say goodbye soon. His jaw cancer has taken it's toll and it is time.
We will take him for his final ride this week, and grieve another loss. She will be inconsolable and I know it. We lost his younger brother in Dec. to bowel cancer. I worry about her, and her never ending grief. I watched the movie "You Don't Know Jack" and realized how fortunate pets are. |
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04-28-2010, 06:32 AM
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I grieve, yet death has not yet come. I do not know if I can stand it when it does. The last of my blood, separated in childhood, found in youth, and to be lost once again.
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04-28-2010, 06:55 AM
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my father died last June, 2009 (the best father we could ever have)
my butch died last August, 2009 (the meaning of my life,,, my first & my last) - me and my butch were together for 15years - ,,, am still crying every night ,,, 
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04-28-2010, 11:23 AM
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To all of you that are grieving and have already grieved, may you be blessed.
Me, I still haven't been able to grieve my dad's death in Jan. I just have too much crap going on in life to be able to do that right now. UGH
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04-28-2010, 11:40 AM
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Justbeingme, Grief has no time table. You will grieve when it is time. Tommi, I am lifting you up in prayer. Redrose, I am so very sorry for your losses. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sybelle and Waxnrope, I am so sorry. Thank you for participating in this thread. It is a great comfort to have you here. I lost my younger brother to suicide over 32+ years ago. The anniversary of his death comes and goes. Life goes on. I find it strange some days. I know that there isn't a day that passes when I don't think of him. Suicide is just very different in and of itself. I wish everyone here peace. Andrew |
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