Femmes: what makes you feel sexy?

lamuymuyfem · 01-22-2014, 12:30 AM

Touching a butch's buzz cut

Making my eyes up in a way that would make any drag queen proud

Wearing my lucky leopard print bra

All my tops that show a little cleavage

All my tops that show cleavage and maybe a hint of the leopard print bra

Music with a good beat or heavy duty congas

Having my 'femmeness' appreciated, i.e., complimented on a dress

Getting cruised

Being called 'mami'

K.D. Lang's voice
(OK, anything about K.D. Lang….)

FLIRTING!

When a butch stares at your lips for a second before kissing you

Gemme · 01-22-2014, 11:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lamuymuyfem

When a butch stares at your lips for a second before kissing you

This doesn't necessarily make me feel sexy directly but I do feel powerful and strong when it happens with the right person and those feelings tend to lend toward my sexiness.

Good answer.

lamuymuyfem · 01-22-2014, 12:26 PM

She was trying to change a tire at the time so the pre-kiss look was definitely the sexiest thing going on…….lol

Sweet Bliss · 01-22-2014, 12:45 PM

oh yah ... drums beating... sexy outfit ... in my super happy place

EmJay · 01-22-2014, 12:48 PM

My butch <3 Makes me feel so many amazing things. Sexy is definitely near the top of the list.

It's important for me to be with someone who makes me feel sexy. I never would have thought this, but after being with someone who didn't make me feel that way, I am highly appreciative of someone who does.

Thank you xo

nicegirl88 · 01-22-2014, 12:55 PM

That look. You know the look. It can be a stranger that watches from afar, or a lover that gazes at you during dinner. You can see the lust in their eyes, that need to lay their hands on you. This is what makes me feel sexy.

Kenna · 02-07-2014, 03:07 PM

Wearing my corset, with thigh high black hose, my (almost knee high) black leather boots, lace undies under my long dark purple silk robe... and the mental space this puts me in.

Mostly this "space" is very rare for me to feel or show...so when I do, I like to make it a very special treat and I relish in the experience of how silk and corset makes me FEEL ...

Licious · 02-07-2014, 03:21 PM

What makes me feel sexy? Lots of things... but for this post I will say:

Extra eye makeup, not my usual light routine but when I take time to do pussycat eyeliner, etc. for an evening look.

My best perfume.

A push up bra, not just the look of it but the feeling of it snugly holding my breasts....

Mastering a new skill, probably because it instills confidence and confidence seems to make my sense of sexy rise.

Great topic!

01-22-2014, 12:30 AM	#1
lamuymuyfem Junior Member How Do You Identify?: old school femme, date butches and FtMs who like girls Preferred Pronoun?: she, la fabulosa Relationship Status: recalculating, recalculating Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: Westconsin Posts: 62 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 402 Thanked 165 Times in 37 Posts Rep Power: 1123656	What Makes Me Feel Sexy Touching a butch's buzz cut Making my eyes up in a way that would make any drag queen proud Wearing my lucky leopard print bra All my tops that show a little cleavage All my tops that show cleavage and maybe a hint of the leopard print bra Music with a good beat or heavy duty congas Having my 'femmeness' appreciated, i.e., complimented on a dress Getting cruised Being called 'mami' K.D. Lang's voice (OK, anything about K.D. Lang….) FLIRTING! When a butch stares at your lips for a second before kissing you Last edited by lamuymuyfem; 01-22-2014 at 12:34 AM. Reason: spacing

02-07-2014, 03:07 PM	#7
Kenna Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Fiery, Sassy, Tough As Nails, Femme Tomboy Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: I am your favorite hello and hardest goodbye. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NC & CO Posts: 4,806 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,624 Thanked 12,192 Times in 3,779 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Wearing my corset, with thigh high black hose, my (almost knee high) black leather boots, lace undies under my long dark purple silk robe... and the mental space this puts me in. Mostly this "space" is very rare for me to feel or show...so when I do, I like to make it a very special treat and I relish in the experience of how silk and corset makes me FEEL ... __________________ **************************** She has been through hell, so believe me when I say, fear her when she looks into a fire and smiles. ~E.Corona~

02-07-2014, 03:21 PM	#8
Licious Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: California Posts: 686 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,502 Thanked 1,971 Times in 546 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	What makes me feel sexy? Lots of things... but for this post I will say: Extra eye makeup, not my usual light routine but when I take time to do pussycat eyeliner, etc. for an evening look. My best perfume. A push up bra, not just the look of it but the feeling of it snugly holding my breasts.... Mastering a new skill, probably because it instills confidence and confidence seems to make my sense of sexy rise. Great topic! __________________ Don’t be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth. ~Rumi

01-22-2014, 12:26 PM	#3
lamuymuyfem Junior Member How Do You Identify?: old school femme, date butches and FtMs who like girls Preferred Pronoun?: she, la fabulosa Relationship Status: recalculating, recalculating Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: Westconsin Posts: 62 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 402 Thanked 165 Times in 37 Posts Rep Power: 1123656	She was trying to change a tire at the time so the pre-kiss look was definitely the sexiest thing going on…….lol

01-22-2014, 12:45 PM	#4
Sweet Bliss Senior Member How Do You Identify?: I Am Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: solo Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: the Beach, Pacific side Posts: 4,160 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,354 Thanked 7,268 Times in 2,159 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	oh yah ... drums beating... sexy outfit ... in my super happy place

01-22-2014, 12:48 PM	#5
EmJay Member How Do You Identify?: femme Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: Canada Posts: 124 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 338 Thanked 447 Times in 96 Posts Rep Power: 3970856	My butch <3 Makes me feel so many amazing things. Sexy is definitely near the top of the list. It's important for me to be with someone who makes me feel sexy. I never would have thought this, but after being with someone who didn't make me feel that way, I am highly appreciative of someone who does. Thank you xo

01-22-2014, 12:55 PM	#6
nicegirl88 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: MO Posts: 13 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10 Thanked 10 Times in 4 Posts Rep Power: 16	That look. You know the look. It can be a stranger that watches from afar, or a lover that gazes at you during dinner. You can see the lust in their eyes, that need to lay their hands on you. This is what makes me feel sexy.