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View Poll Results: Femme cock poll - I'm a femme and I:
Love to strap and find it vital to my sex life. 16 10.88%
Enjoy strapping and am happy when/if I get to. 30 20.41%
Tried strapping and hated it and/or didn't like it. 18 12.24%
Have never tried it, but would like to. 21 14.29%
Never ever ever want to strap. 62 42.18%
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Old 01-31-2014, 05:06 PM   #1
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I love my cock. I no longer think of it as butch or femme. It is just my cock. I hope others enjoy it as much as I do
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I find I am missing my cock lately. I feel a tad bit like something is missing from sexuality. My partner finds it very sexy when I strap, and we have a cock that is specific to him/us. I'm not sure why I am having a difficult time getting over that hurdle lately, even though we've talked about both wanting it!

I think there are some things I need to explore within myself about how I feel in my body and headspace when I strap. I definitely still feel Femme, but there's also this genderqueer, boi-ish side in there that wants to come out. I feel both at the same time--fully powerful in my Femme identity but also feeling a little bit like a boi.

Does anyone else feel like this about their Femme cock?
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My boy side and my strapping have converged on occasion though they haven't always. I've really relished when they have.
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I definitely still feel Femme, but there's also this genderqueer, boi-ish side in there that wants to come out. I feel both at the same time--fully powerful in my Femme identity but also feeling a little bit like a boi.
This is an AMAZING thread!

I am totally in awe of femmes who pack and/or strap. I am SO envious of that power you must feel, but I just can't imagine ever doing it, myself..... even if a partner asked me to.
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Oh yeah! I thought I was the only one who's strapped on as a femme. It's been a while since I have had the pleasure of using the strap on my Butch as the last 2 people that I dated were tops exclusively.... I am still open to using one if it is pleasurable to my lover.
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