Lesbian Femmes & Lesbian Butch Pussy - WOMEN ONLY

ForeverMe · 03-22-2014, 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by TruTexan

Well dip me in honey and throw me to the femmes then by gosh !! Woohooo, thought this thread was dead as a door nail. LOL

Feel free to discuss anything that comes to mind about the topic, preferences, etc. I don't necessarily have a direction to go with the thread, so please feel free.

And thanks HB, for your post, very informative and a learning curve for me. I appreciate the input.

Thanks to all whom are posting here. Enjoy :P

I love honey!!!

TruTexan · 03-22-2014, 06:30 PM

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Originally Posted by ForeverMe

I love honey!!!

Dare I ask what other flavors you like? hahahha

bokster · 03-22-2014, 09:25 PM

I like receiving AS MUCH as I like giving - it's 2-way or the highway for me, baby!

ConCrtAnge1 · 03-23-2014, 06:39 AM

I must say I have loved reading this thread.. Having only ever dated Butch women I truly never knew there were as many labels for Butches.. However since being single after many years I have discovered all these new labels.. Makes for one hell of a confused femme! I personally must say I love to be with a butch who loves to be made love to. I wanna touch every inch of your body as I want you to touch mine! I love the whole act of foreplay into love making I love the taste of my butch on my lips. :-) I can and will respect my partners wishes and needs but it is a me thing that I need to beable to fully take in my butch as well.. :-) thanks for this thread!!!

TruTexan · 03-23-2014, 07:02 AM

Welcome to the thread ConcrtAnge1. Glad you enjoyed reading the posts here.
As for labels , yes, there are many ID's for butch for many. It is whom they have grown into being in their time. I'm still not familiar with all the labels of our community, there always seems to be one more that I 'm not familiar with and it's a learning curve for me.

ConCrtAnge1 · 03-23-2014, 07:48 AM

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Originally Posted by TruTexan

Welcome to the thread ConcrtAnge1. Glad you enjoyed reading the posts here.
As for labels , yes, there are many ID's for butch for many. It is whom they have grown into being in their time. I'm still not familiar with all the labels of our community, there always seems to be one more that I 'm not familiar with and it's a learning curve for me.

Thanks so much for the welcome :-)

imperfect_cupcake · 03-23-2014, 11:48 AM

Hey cca, just a word from a a girl used to using sites and been in many different dyke-genderqueer communities. I have dated/partnered/payed around with many different butch people. And depending on the community, they either use lots of different a labels (like here) or they just use one or two but still have the same variety of types of self concept.

Usually I tend to ignore the label or name, and just talk to them about how they like to be turned on, what they enjoy in bed, what they don't, listen to their stories, make suggestions and see how it floats or not. I find one person's ID mostly doesn't match another person's ID of the same ID. Or, two people of different IDs have very similar ways of having sex, loving and sharing and self concepts. That's also why some of my partners have no ID'd as butch at all, but they still behaved, self conceptualised, related and had sex like my butch partners.

Don't worry too much about the names. Talk to them as individuals instead. Even something like "stone" is very diverse in how they conceptualised their sexuality.

Many of my lesbian partners don't see themselves as having a pussy and many of them do. Many of my genderqueer butch partners see themselves a having one.

Lots of my butch playmates did not wish to use a cock at all, and some of my non-butch IDd partners were utterly dyke dick mad.

I have not found that ID to mean anything but a personal concept. I don't even consider myself a femme when I'm in North America. As it saves on assumptions from *within* the community on this side of the pond.
So, easiest way to figure all of the IDs? Don't. Just get to know people as individuals and let them tell you about themselves and their ideas around what it means to them.

03-23-2014, 07:02 AM	#5
TruTexan Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian butch Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: in a one horse town in a large state, in the U.S. Posts: 3,952 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,112 Thanked 5,266 Times in 1,633 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Welcome to the thread ConcrtAnge1. Glad you enjoyed reading the posts here. As for labels , yes, there are many ID's for butch for many. It is whom they have grown into being in their time. I'm still not familiar with all the labels of our community, there always seems to be one more that I 'm not familiar with and it's a learning curve for me. __________________

03-22-2014, 09:25 PM	#3
bokster Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch. Lesbian. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Mar 2014 Location: Manila and NYC Posts: 73 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 65 Thanked 136 Times in 32 Posts Rep Power: 1010584	I like receiving AS MUCH as I like giving - it's 2-way or the highway for me, baby!

03-23-2014, 06:39 AM	#4
ConCrtAnge1 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: Super single Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: Illinois Posts: 37 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 263 Thanked 131 Times in 30 Posts Rep Power: 1298757	I must say I have loved reading this thread.. Having only ever dated Butch women I truly never knew there were as many labels for Butches.. However since being single after many years I have discovered all these new labels.. Makes for one hell of a confused femme! I personally must say I love to be with a butch who loves to be made love to. I wanna touch every inch of your body as I want you to touch mine! I love the whole act of foreplay into love making I love the taste of my butch on my lips. :-) I can and will respect my partners wishes and needs but it is a me thing that I need to beable to fully take in my butch as well.. :-) thanks for this thread!!!

03-23-2014, 11:48 AM	#7
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Hey cca, just a word from a a girl used to using sites and been in many different dyke-genderqueer communities. I have dated/partnered/payed around with many different butch people. And depending on the community, they either use lots of different a labels (like here) or they just use one or two but still have the same variety of types of self concept. Usually I tend to ignore the label or name, and just talk to them about how they like to be turned on, what they enjoy in bed, what they don't, listen to their stories, make suggestions and see how it floats or not. I find one person's ID mostly doesn't match another person's ID of the same ID. Or, two people of different IDs have very similar ways of having sex, loving and sharing and self concepts. That's also why some of my partners have no ID'd as butch at all, but they still behaved, self conceptualised, related and had sex like my butch partners. Don't worry too much about the names. Talk to them as individuals instead. Even something like "stone" is very diverse in how they conceptualised their sexuality. Many of my lesbian partners don't see themselves as having a pussy and many of them do. Many of my genderqueer butch partners see themselves a having one. Lots of my butch playmates did not wish to use a cock at all, and some of my non-butch IDd partners were utterly dyke dick mad. I have not found that ID to mean anything but a personal concept. I don't even consider myself a femme when I'm in North America. As it saves on assumptions from within the community on this side of the pond. So, easiest way to figure all of the IDs? Don't. Just get to know people as individuals and let them tell you about themselves and their ideas around what it means to them.