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Old 11-19-2009, 11:49 PM   #1
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I'm thankful for the opportunity to see myself through someone elses eyes & to take those realizations and make them into something beautiful for myself and the people I love.
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Im so thankful for being alive. I know alot of times people are wrapped up in their lives and whats going on- the good and the bad- that they forget to be truly greatful for what they have. Ive been sick for a long time, and my heart melts for people who are terminaly ill , because i just dont know how they handle it. Im thankful because what i have, is fixable. Cancer, AIDS, etc... those people amaze me. Their faith and will power to want to live. How thankful they are to truly wake up the next day, because they know that tomorrow is not guaranteed, where most take it for granted. Im thankful for today, thr day before, and if god willing, tomorrow too.
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Im thankful that I'm learning to be patient and think things thru. I'm quite proud of myself of how I handled some irate customers last night. Normally, I would listen, and then come back with something that sounded smart ass like. Got me in trouble every time, I was then labeled rude. I took it personally and would be upset for a few hours.

Last night, I didn't let it get to me and I stood my ground. I was not the bad guy. Actually, I'm quite proud of myself. Thank you, lesson learned, it does work. Keep practicing it !
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I'm thankful for the beauty of nature, and the positive energy and good feeling that it provides me...(and many others)
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Syr, who always takes care of me and my crazyness. How/why She keeps me around i will never know, but i am so thankful.
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I am thankful when online, I do not have hidden agendas. That way, I am not ever hurt or disappointed for being unable to pull/pry a particular response I desired from someone ... no matter how much I tried, tried, tried ....and no matter how kind, kind kind I was for so so so long, long, long ... and then in some kind of sickness, go off on someone who had not a clue of my hidden agenda.

just sayin ... because things finally became (across the board) crystal clear

It is online, for geez sake!
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for me I'm thankful that I still have my mom in my life,
and that I can be there for her , as she lives with me...
And she will never ever see a rest home....

I'm also thankful that I'm clean and sober.
And the friends that I have that truly love me for who I am..
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I'm thankful for all the fireman that have come from all over the country to help fight our wildfires. At last count, 40 states were represented. Asheville is showing them all the love they deserve. I just wish I could hug them all...
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I am thankful that my mom will be with me this Thanksgiving. I am thankful for my loved ones.
I am thankful for my baby kitty she is such a comfort to me everyday.
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I am thankful for my health.
I am thankful for my tribe of friends. Seriously- the most fierce circle of love a girl could dream of.
I am thankful for my family. We're not perfect but we're solid.
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I'm most thankful that about 3+ years ago I walked out one door and through another.

But mostly the second one. You know, I'm saying if the universe demanded a proper hierarchy of gratefulness, that's how it would be arranged. Unless I had to add in all the other unrelated things for which I'm grateful. Then the structure may need to be examined and reconfigured. Except not now; because for this one, brief, shining moment the second part of the first sentence would still be at the very top.

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This has been a really tough year on some levels but amazing and magical on others. I am SO grateful for the people in my life who show up, without question or expectation, when I truly need them (and especially when I don't know how to ask for help).

I am grateful that Bella is a happy, healthy pup and has adjusted so well to being an apartment-dwelling couch potato.

I am grateful for the folks I work with who are much more chosen family than coworkers. I've worked with a few of them for more than 8 years and they've been sparkly and consistent.

I am grateful for love, both for my ability to give it to myself and to receive it from others. <3
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its been awhile since I have been on BFP except to play the arcade but...

I am thankful I am celebrating 5 years with my husband, 3 which we are married

I am ever so grateful for my grand daughter Violet, and my soon to be grand daughter to be named Evangaline

I am grateful I have been able to work PT even tho I am disabled and sometimes struggle

I am grateful that even tho I struggle physically and financially I have my horse, which is my best therapy for the mind and body

I am grateful that I can see the pain I have had, all resulted in the happiness I have now.

I am grateful for my lovely Rose Cottage, my tiny house, which brings me comfort and joy and shelters me and my loved ones
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I'm thankful for the beauty found in the natural world around me, for the sound of the ocean, for a safe place to live, heat in my house, a car which gets me from A to B, friendships I am growing in my new community, air in my lungs,.....my strength of will to get up each day putting one foot in front of the other as I complete a seeming never ending mountain of "to dos" and that I can feel even when the feelings are hard, unpleasant and at times desired to cease....

My life has taken turns I did not ask for and yet it is my life and still contains beauty and grace....I get to direct my path and maybe, just maybe now that I'm older (sigh yikes small smile) I'll use my wisdom to make choices which will lead me right where I am supposed to be.....

....thankful for opportunities in an unwritten future
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I have a lot to be grateful for this Thanksgiving. I am at the tail end of a two week road trip, reconnecting with East of the Mississippi friends. It could not have gone better. And still one visit to go - I arrive tomorrow.

All my friends are happy and doing well, which am grateful for. And I reconnected with them like we had just seen each other yesterday - except it was a little more intense because it has been a long time and life has happened to us all. A couple of them I saw two years ago, a couple within the last five years, but two very close friends I hadn't seen for ten years. I am not going to let that happen again. The friend on whose doorstep I arrive tomorrow I saw last month, but before that I think it had been three years. I am not going to do that anymore, meaning let so much time pass without seeing those I love. I am still super sad because this is the first big holiday without my mom. But I feel warmed by the love of friends and a little more grounded in this world again.
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Thankful for my Butch who has saved my butt, and rescued from bad situations many times.

Thankful for my chosen family. I love my SO and 2 wonderful kit-cats.
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