Butches and bindings and breasts, oh my

Medusa · 04-14-2014, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by vagina

JUDGEMENT

the ability to make considered decisions or come to sensible conclusions.

If I am judgmental and have the ability to make considered decision or to come to a sensible conclusion, I'll take it.

If foot binding in China was mutilation because of expected beauty standards for women to have small feet....

Then cutting off one's breasts is mutilation because of expected beauty standards to appear as a male and to have a flat chest....

Let's not bring up Angelina Jolie and the cancer scare- that's a whole other ball game.

I will not apologize for loving BUTCH bodies instead of Butchered bodies. I mean, people have the right to make their own decisions and do whatever they want with their own bodies. And at the same time People are allowed to have a judgement and a dissenting opinion. If someone says I am not attracted to breasts, then I can say, well, I am attracted to breasts. If someone says I love how FTMs look with flattened breasts, then I can say that I do not enjoy people cutting off their breasts.

Sigh.

vagina - You are now on a 30-day time-out from the site. During that time you are not to access our resources in any way.

Thanks,
Angie

Nadeest · 04-14-2014, 09:15 PM

I would love to play with my partner's breasts. However, I will respect her/hys/his boundries, just as I would want them to respect my own.

That being said, I love playing with breasts. I also love pleasing my partner, all to hell and back.

Redsunflower · 04-15-2014, 02:51 AM

*speechless*

Thanks so much to everyone who managed to reply in such a calm way and to Medusa for doing what needed to be done.

Ginger · 04-15-2014, 05:20 AM

I've been with someone who had top surgery, someone who had a mastectomy and someone who had a big butch chest.

I loved each of them and have memories of how tender and hot our sex was, but the second person was the love of my life, so to speak, and ours was the most mind-blowing sex.

It was because of her energy and our emotional connection, not her body necessarily, though I adored her body type.

04-15-2014, 05:20 AM	#4
Ginger Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: East coast Posts: 2,416 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,829 Thanked 12,296 Times in 2,057 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I've been with someone who had top surgery, someone who had a mastectomy and someone who had a big butch chest. I loved each of them and have memories of how tender and hot our sex was, but the second person was the love of my life, so to speak, and ours was the most mind-blowing sex. It was because of her energy and our emotional connection, not her body necessarily, though I adored her body type. __________________ Reach out.

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Nadeest Member How Do You Identify?: as myself Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Leesburg, FL Posts: 595 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,876 Thanked 2,118 Times in 501 Posts Rep Power: 17077997	I would love to play with my partner's breasts. However, I will respect her/hys/his boundries, just as I would want them to respect my own. That being said, I love playing with breasts. I also love pleasing my partner, all to hell and back.

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Redsunflower Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: UK Posts: 459 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 548 Thanked 564 Times in 138 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	speechless Thanks so much to everyone who managed to reply in such a calm way and to Medusa for doing what needed to be done.