Big Butch Love

05-16-2014, 06:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Mel C.

I think there is gonna be a line for the butch bitch seat

Really? Bitch seat? Really?

Kobi · 05-16-2014, 07:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Daktari

Really? Bitch seat? Really?

Thanks for pointing this out Daktari.

Good example of how something becomes so much a part of life and language that we dont see it for what it is......disrespectful towards and derogatory to women.

Funny dat.

Morice Diesel · 05-16-2014, 09:56 AM

thank you to all the beautiful femmes who appreciate and love us big ol cuddly butch

*Anya* · 05-16-2014, 11:35 AM

I am, ahem, less petite than I was when my girlfriend and I got together (she is a great cook).

I love to lay on top of her and have her wrap her arms around me- whether we are in a non-sexual or a sexual place.

It kind of helps to shut the world out for me and I feel safe and loved.

I probably would not do that if she did not have the kind of body that envelopes (and outweighs) me.

*sigh*

I love her.

05-16-2014, 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by T-Rex

Just a reminder, you can report or respond, not both. Use your words to talk about why you think it's problematic, not just exclamations of disbelief.

Thanks everyone! Keep it positive!

Yeah, sorry, it was me 'wot did it' (sic)

I find the phrase 'bitch seat' really problematic in that, for me, it presents as linguistic misogyny.

Referring to any female or female bodied person as a bitch and something they use as a bitch something-or-other is, as Kobi points out, disrespectful.

05-16-2014, 09:56 AM	#3
Morice Diesel Junior Member How Do You Identify?: transman Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: London, Ontario Posts: 12 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4 Thanked 28 Times in 6 Posts Rep Power: 475116	feeling the love thank you to all the beautiful femmes who appreciate and love us big ol cuddly butch

05-16-2014, 11:35 AM	#4
Anya Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: West Coast Posts: 8,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,306 Thanked 40,449 Times in 7,285 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I am, ahem, less petite than I was when my girlfriend and I got together (she is a great cook). I love to lay on top of her and have her wrap her arms around me- whether we are in a non-sexual or a sexual place. It kind of helps to shut the world out for me and I feel safe and loved. I probably would not do that if she did not have the kind of body that envelopes (and outweighs) me. sigh I love her. __________________ ~Anya~ Democracy Dies in Darkness ~Washington Post "...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable." UN Human Rights commissioner Last edited by Anya; 05-16-2014 at 11:37 AM. Reason: Clarity