Something horrible just happened

imperfect_cupcake · 05-21-2014, 07:02 AM

It happened to me. I had someone come to stay the weekend and the next morning after her sleeping over, I had a bath and she drove off while I was in the tub LOL.

Perspective. Its about her, not you. All that says is she's a rude and socially incapable twat. It says nothing about you.

I called my best mate immediately and laughed and said "guess what just happened!!! Someone did a runner while I was in the tub!!! Hahahahahahahahahaha"

Seriously, when you understand its not about you, but utterly and only about them, the cowardice and absurdity will have you seeing it very differently. People are hilariously rude bastards.

Teddybear · 05-21-2014, 07:14 AM

First off let me say that if I step on any toes with my response I'm sorry.

Anaisninja I think she did a WONDERFUL thing. I know it hurts but she opened the door for the love you want and deserve.

Know that she realized that you ARE better then she deserves or will ever be able to have. I hope you realize that she has a self esteem issue about herself and NOT you.

Thank your lucky stars she left before taking your money, your heart or your LIFE !!

Grab your boot straps and dust yourself off knowing that the ONE that is right for you is looking for you just as you are looking for her. Know that love grows so prepare the soil for the seed.

Good luck

05-21-2014, 07:14 AM	#2
Teddybear Senior Member How Do You Identify?: by my name Preferred Pronoun?: He, him Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Here there everywhere. Posts: 2,097 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,620 Thanked 6,233 Times in 1,687 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	First off let me say that if I step on any toes with my response I'm sorry. Anaisninja I think she did a WONDERFUL thing. I know it hurts but she opened the door for the love you want and deserve. Know that she realized that you ARE better then she deserves or will ever be able to have. I hope you realize that she has a self esteem issue about herself and NOT you. Thank your lucky stars she left before taking your money, your heart or your LIFE !! Grab your boot straps and dust yourself off knowing that the ONE that is right for you is looking for you just as you are looking for her. Know that love grows so prepare the soil for the seed. Good luck __________________ I am ME take me as I am or leave me be..

05-21-2014, 07:02 AM	#1
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,713 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	It happened to me. I had someone come to stay the weekend and the next morning after her sleeping over, I had a bath and she drove off while I was in the tub LOL. Perspective. Its about her, not you. All that says is she's a rude and socially incapable twat. It says nothing about you. I called my best mate immediately and laughed and said "guess what just happened!!! Someone did a runner while I was in the tub!!! Hahahahahahahahahaha" Seriously, when you understand its not about you, but utterly and only about them, the cowardice and absurdity will have you seeing it very differently. People are hilariously rude bastards.