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Old 05-21-2014, 01:09 PM   #1
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Overly negative...we all have bad days but if there are only bad days buh bye.
Overly needy...
Poor personal hygiene...
Insensitive to others...
Dislikes animals...
Overly harsh about exes...
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I agree that turn offs are easier to define than turn-ons. There is a lot that doesn't work for me, but the stuff that does work is only a turn on when some people do it.
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Old 05-21-2014, 01:27 PM   #2
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"I'm entitled to my opinion" will not only end all attraction for me, but also point out exactly where their jugular is.
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slovenliness....

laziness....

not getting along with my family....especially my kids

dishonesty

a know it all attitude
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This if you're out in public and not at a sporting event. Just... No.



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elusiveness - I value someone who is direct about their intentions at all times

being occupied - If they cant give me their undivided attention, I immediately want to walk away
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Hygiene, especially not washing your hands after you go to the bathroom, ewww
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Yes , hygiene & smokers are a huge turn off for me.
Among a few others.
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Old 11-23-2015, 03:48 PM   #11
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lack of manners,my Dad always said manners are free use them,and this includes how you speak and relate to others around you,if you think a homeless person is less than you,we just won't get on.
being secretive,someone who getting information out of is like pulling teeth,I don't want to know your bank details but I think communicating is very important,and I mean a dialogue.
This sounds judgemental,but believing Fox news is actually news,I just know I will drive you nuts.
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Bad teeth for sure but cocky Spoiled rotten Butches who think nothing but thereself like get over yourself grow the F up
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its a sad situation when you are out on a date and the person you are dating wont get off the damn phone.....
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its a sad situation when you are out on a date and the person you are dating wont get off the damn phone.....
BIG pet peeve of mine..

i love to check in when i go somewhere, but why i like to dine out is because that is the one place where you can have one on one convo... and i want that one on one!
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Selfishness in bed or in general, poor hygiene, rudeness to anyone at all, endless name dropping, no awareness of social justice issues and why they matter, entitlement, humor that relies on mocking people to be funny, and probably several others, but those are the things I notice right off the bat.
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Bad table manners. One of the quickest and fastest way to turn me off.
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Narcissists. Sometimes you can peg them instantly. Sometimes they take a while.
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