Femmes: what makes you feel sexy?

Martina · 05-26-2014, 08:40 PM

Sexy not as in ready to fuck but sexy as in still sorta bad-ass for an old lady --

Figuring out a thorny problem at work and seeing the positive outcome
Taking off and driving somewhere just because I've never been there before
Seeing my not insubstantial check show up in my bank account every month
Applying for some jobs just to gauge the market and having every single one call me for an interview.
Righteous acts of rebellion -- like supporting my union
Hard work outside
Getting whatever done without a lot of striving and fretting because I am old and have done it before -- many times.
Catching myself doing something that reminds me of my great aunts and the long line of strong women who came before me.

nekohl · 05-26-2014, 08:59 PM

I've found getting my legs waxed gives me that so sexy feeling. The warm wax, the snap and sting, and then the smoothness. Makes me walk around with a sexy inner smile for awhile.

clodie · 12-30-2014, 09:28 AM

Looking good in general gives me confidence, but there's nothing like a red lipstick. My lips are small and being able to slightly enlarge them with make up just makes me look so much more feminine, looking feminine is confidence for me... because that's who I am inside.

MsTinkerbelly · 12-30-2014, 11:38 AM

It's interesting that since i became so ill, i have a really hard time feeling sexy. My fighting with social security, the lack of energy, loss of focus toward a goal, my rapidly decreasing memory and just life in general are working together to make me feel worthless.

So for ME, sexy seems to be tied into how i feel, and how i feel about myself. My wife still thinks I'm sexy and shows it in many ways (thank God), but I'm hoping that i can get my "sexy" back soon.

gotoseagrl · 12-30-2014, 02:27 PM

A private request to read aloud.

bicentennialjenn · 12-31-2014, 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by clodie

Looking good in general gives me confidence, but there's nothing like a red lipstick. My lips are small and being able to slightly enlarge them with make up just makes me look so much more feminine, looking feminine is confidence for me... because that's who I am inside.

i adore red lipstick. don't see others wearing it much. i'm always on a quest for the best brand and shade of red. i feel instantly better once i'm wearing it.

Shystonefem · 12-31-2014, 02:09 PM

Those mornings when my hair is just the right kind of messy and it looks like a hot mess.

Right after a workout at the gym

My little black dress with my highest heels.

When I get that "look"

05-26-2014, 08:40 PM	#1
Martina Senior Member How Do You Identify?: * Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: * Posts: 4,999 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,409 Thanked 18,286 Times in 4,167 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Sexy not as in ready to fuck but sexy as in still sorta bad-ass for an old lady -- Figuring out a thorny problem at work and seeing the positive outcome Taking off and driving somewhere just because I've never been there before Seeing my not insubstantial check show up in my bank account every month Applying for some jobs just to gauge the market and having every single one call me for an interview. Righteous acts of rebellion -- like supporting my union Hard work outside Getting whatever done without a lot of striving and fretting because I am old and have done it before -- many times. Catching myself doing something that reminds me of my great aunts and the long line of strong women who came before me.

05-26-2014, 08:59 PM	#2
nekohl Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: . Relationship Status: . Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Gone Posts: 446 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 632 Thanked 2,162 Times in 382 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I've found getting my legs waxed gives me that so sexy feeling. The warm wax, the snap and sting, and then the smoothness. Makes me walk around with a sexy inner smile for awhile. __________________

12-30-2014, 02:27 PM	#5
gotoseagrl Senior Member How Do You Identify?: old-fashioned queer stone submissive girl Preferred Pronoun?: mermaid, very lucky babygirl Relationship Status: Saltwater mermaid ♡ Join Date: May 2010 Location: CA Posts: 2,209 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,192 Thanked 6,103 Times in 1,727 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	A private request to read aloud. __________________ Be still when you have nothing to say; when genuine passion moves you, say what you've got to say, and say it hot. D. H. Lawrence

12-31-2014, 02:09 PM	#7
Shystonefem Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Shy for President Join Date: May 2014 Location: NH Posts: 1,105 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,475 Thanked 3,673 Times in 897 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	mornings Those mornings when my hair is just the right kind of messy and it looks like a hot mess. Right after a workout at the gym My little black dress with my highest heels. When I get that "look"

12-30-2014, 09:28 AM	#3
clodie Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Always she Join Date: Dec 2014 Location: Europe Posts: 6 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7 Thanked 19 Times in 6 Posts Rep Power: 0	Looking good in general gives me confidence, but there's nothing like a red lipstick. My lips are small and being able to slightly enlarge them with make up just makes me look so much more feminine, looking feminine is confidence for me... because that's who I am inside.

12-30-2014, 11:38 AM	#4
MsTinkerbelly Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: ... Preferred Pronoun?: ... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ... Posts: 6,573 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,737 Thanked 22,909 Times in 5,019 Posts Rep Power: 0	It's interesting that since i became so ill, i have a really hard time feeling sexy. My fighting with social security, the lack of energy, loss of focus toward a goal, my rapidly decreasing memory and just life in general are working together to make me feel worthless. So for ME, sexy seems to be tied into how i feel, and how i feel about myself. My wife still thinks I'm sexy and shows it in many ways (thank God), but I'm hoping that i can get my "sexy" back soon.