Your Ideal Relationship Format

imperfect_cupcake · 10-02-2014, 01:45 AM

Ideal?

we'd both live in the same building, different floors. I have no idea about her place, that's her biz. her space is not my fantasy lol.

Mostly Monogamous. I don't mind passing ships. I don't actually trust anyone to be totally monogamous, I think it's an unrealistic expectation for a life long partner, so, she can fool around as she sees fit as long as I'm always first, and her extra curriculars don't get dramatic or complicated.

I seriously doubt I'd bother with others but if someone fell in my lap and the environment was right I'd consider it - if there was no issue with drama, then sure.

I'd like to have three apartments. mine and two travel ones I share with her. One in the UK and one in South East Asia.

My career is my career, her is hers. I like mine. She loves hers.

I work 3 days a week, she works 3-4 or can work from home part time, so we can do long weekend get aways. she travels on her own sometimes, as do I.

She's the boss. I'm the happy first mate. With a lot of independence.

Kinky. But not old gaurd or too many rigid rules. I'm a Papa's dolly but I'm also informal and playful and feisty. I'd rather have what comes naturally to us than follow other people's guidelines.

It's life long.

I have cats. I dunno what she's got in her apt.

As for what we build together? I have no idea. With my exwife, we wanted to do doctors without borders. I never had that idea before I met her. I'll have to meet her first before I decide what it is - as a team - we do or don't do.

I hope she inspires me. I hope I inspire her.

JDeere · 10-02-2014, 02:22 AM

I will respond when I can answer these with lots of thought! Good thread title, too.

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imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,710 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Ideal? we'd both live in the same building, different floors. I have no idea about her place, that's her biz. her space is not my fantasy lol. Mostly Monogamous. I don't mind passing ships. I don't actually trust anyone to be totally monogamous, I think it's an unrealistic expectation for a life long partner, so, she can fool around as she sees fit as long as I'm always first, and her extra curriculars don't get dramatic or complicated. I seriously doubt I'd bother with others but if someone fell in my lap and the environment was right I'd consider it - if there was no issue with drama, then sure. I'd like to have three apartments. mine and two travel ones I share with her. One in the UK and one in South East Asia. My career is my career, her is hers. I like mine. She loves hers. I work 3 days a week, she works 3-4 or can work from home part time, so we can do long weekend get aways. she travels on her own sometimes, as do I. She's the boss. I'm the happy first mate. With a lot of independence. Kinky. But not old gaurd or too many rigid rules. I'm a Papa's dolly but I'm also informal and playful and feisty. I'd rather have what comes naturally to us than follow other people's guidelines. It's life long. I have cats. I dunno what she's got in her apt. As for what we build together? I have no idea. With my exwife, we wanted to do doctors without borders. I never had that idea before I met her. I'll have to meet her first before I decide what it is - as a team - we do or don't do. I hope she inspires me. I hope I inspire her.