What Is A Crush?

imperfect_cupcake · 10-04-2014, 07:13 PM

Absolutely. That's why people's communication skills are something I deeply value. The ability to not make assumptions and to ask questions. Some people find the questions I ask too invasive or offensive. But, we all have out own dictionaries. What Butch means to me is very different than what someone else thinks. What I mean when I say "I love you" is very different to what someone else may mean. What I think is kinky is vastly different to what someone else thinks is. And what I consider independance, won't be what you think.

That's why the ability to talk to me. Openly, freely and without trying to hide stuff out of nerves or fear is probably the thing I admire most in someone.

firegal · 10-04-2014, 07:23 PM

Some times life is so simple.... Someone who I excitingly look forward to ..... All the simple things... Talking... Joking.... Sharing....any kind of contact where you have that lil anticipation...

Isn't a crush such.... A gift

~ocean · 10-04-2014, 07:56 PM

~ it's when u say to yourself ohhhhh baby baby ~~ and u get butterflys ~

Contessa · 10-04-2014, 08:11 PM

I would say that I mostly agree with the stages MasterfulButch posted. However, I would like to add a final one.

The final stage of a crush for me:

Passionate Love: You love this person physically, mentally and have a spiritual connection. You really can't see yourself without this person. The passion is roaring in the bedroom because EVERYTHING is there between the two of you.

flapdoodle · 10-05-2014, 12:52 AM

I love the word "crush".

excitement in my tummy, flushed cheeks, heart races, you know it when you feel it. I had a crush on the butch I married within seconds after I saw him, still do.

For me, the "crush" is how I feel, intrigue or that certain something gets the initial spark.

Hot for...Come here Big Boy

Love......The love of family and friends and the love for someone I am dating, very different.

In love..scary good

I do...I did

10-04-2014, 07:23 PM	#2
firegal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: Don't let the gal part of my screen name fool ya I,m ALL butch! Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Tacoma,Washington Posts: 2,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15,853 Thanked 11,703 Times in 2,469 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	.. Some times life is so simple.... Someone who I excitingly look forward to ..... All the simple things... Talking... Joking.... Sharing....any kind of contact where you have that lil anticipation... Isn't a crush such.... A gift

10-04-2014, 07:56 PM	#3
~ocean Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme blows a kiss off my finger tips * Preferred Pronoun?: ~ hey girl ~ Relationship Status: ~ single & content ~ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Massachusetts ~coastal Posts: 7,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,958 Thanked 16,017 Times in 4,724 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	~ it's when u say to yourself ohhhhh baby baby ~~ and u get butterflys ~ __________________ ~ Always, ocean

10-04-2014, 08:11 PM	#4
Contessa Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/Her Relationship Status: Happy Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: US Posts: 220 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,134 Thanked 673 Times in 182 Posts Rep Power: 6048530	Passionate Love Develops I would say that I mostly agree with the stages MasterfulButch posted. However, I would like to add a final one. The final stage of a crush for me: Passionate Love: You love this person physically, mentally and have a spiritual connection. You really can't see yourself without this person. The passion is roaring in the bedroom because EVERYTHING is there between the two of you.

10-05-2014, 12:52 AM	#5
flapdoodle Junior Member How Do You Identify?: I'm the Mrs. Preferred Pronoun?: reflexive Relationship Status: Married in 2013 Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: sing it Frankie baby Posts: 81 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8 Thanked 245 Times in 59 Posts Rep Power: 1073757	crush I love the word "crush". excitement in my tummy, flushed cheeks, heart races, you know it when you feel it. I had a crush on the butch I married within seconds after I saw him, still do. For me, the "crush" is how I feel, intrigue or that certain something gets the initial spark. Hot for...Come here Big Boy Love......The love of family and friends and the love for someone I am dating, very different. In love..scary good I do...I did

10-04-2014, 07:13 PM	#1
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Absolutely. That's why people's communication skills are something I deeply value. The ability to not make assumptions and to ask questions. Some people find the questions I ask too invasive or offensive. But, we all have out own dictionaries. What Butch means to me is very different than what someone else thinks. What I mean when I say "I love you" is very different to what someone else may mean. What I think is kinky is vastly different to what someone else thinks is. And what I consider independance, won't be what you think. That's why the ability to talk to me. Openly, freely and without trying to hide stuff out of nerves or fear is probably the thing I admire most in someone.