Demographics of how we date/partner/be single

imperfect_cupcake · 10-12-2014, 08:58 PM

Ok when you *do* date do you usually date casually and more than one until you find yourself drawn more to one more than the rest? Or do you only date one person at a time, for many weeks than if it doesn't work, break things off and try again with someone else?

Mel C. · 10-12-2014, 09:05 PM

Too bad I can't change my answer on polls. I answered for Sunday but might want to change my answer tomorrow.

Orema · 10-13-2014, 06:31 AM

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Originally Posted by honeybarbara

Ok when you *do* date do you usually date casually and more than one until you find yourself drawn more to one more than the rest? Or do you only date one person at a time, for many weeks than if it doesn't work, break things off and try again with someone else?

Single, not dating, not having casual sex.

When I date it's one butch at a time and if it doesn't work out I move on.

I have a crush on someone

it's pretty strong and I'm not going to date anyone until we work this out.

Gemme · 10-13-2014, 06:42 AM

Single, not dating, not having casual sex.

Nadeest · 11-13-2014, 10:28 AM

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Originally Posted by honeybarbara

Ok when you *do* date do you usually date casually and more than one until you find yourself drawn more to one more than the rest? Or do you only date one person at a time, for many weeks than if it doesn't work, break things off and try again with someone else?

I don't really have enough information yet, to be able to answer your question. In the past, when I lived as a male, I tended to date one person at a time; however, everything changed for me, after transition. I don't know how I will do things, now. I AM open to dating multiple people at one time, just as I would also consider a poly relationship. The first person that I dated, after I transitioned was poly, and that opened my thoughts to the possibility.

View Poll Results: How do we date/partner/be single?
Single, not dating, not having casual sex	28	29.17%
Single, casual dating/casual sex	8	8.33%
Single, dating one person, no commitments	12	12.50%
Seeing someone/partnered/married - closed relationship - monogamy or polyfidelity	36	37.50%
Seeing people/someone, partnered or married - open relationships- nonmonogamy/polyamory ect	12	12.50%
Voters: 96. You may not vote on this poll

10-13-2014, 06:42 AM	#4
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10-12-2014, 08:58 PM	#1
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,710 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Ok when you do date do you usually date casually and more than one until you find yourself drawn more to one more than the rest? Or do you only date one person at a time, for many weeks than if it doesn't work, break things off and try again with someone else?

10-12-2014, 09:05 PM	#2
Mel C. Long-time Member How Do You Identify?: WIB - woman identified butch Preferred Pronoun?: Your choice...not really a button for me Relationship Status: ♡ married 1/1/2019♡ Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: San Diego Posts: 2,149 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,772 Thanked 6,828 Times in 1,621 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Too bad I can't change my answer on polls. I answered for Sunday but might want to change my answer tomorrow.