Is Living Alone Making You Weird?

A. Spectre · 11-30-2014, 12:06 PM

after being with someone for many years, residing alone these last few years has been a learning and growing experience.

in the beginning, i was terrified. my partner, my best friend, confidant, sleep mate was.......*whoosh! gone.

after the initial year or so, the idea of not relying on her for my happiness, my breath began sinking in. each morning, i had to wake up and face myself, my loneliness, my struggles.

now, after several years, my confidence, my comfort levels are sustained and i have not not only acclimated, my confidence level has soared.

don't get me wrong, one day i would enjoy having a special someone but more importantly, i have learned to enjoy myself. with this, perhaps i can be a better and improved partner to someone in the future.

11-30-2014, 12:06 PM	#38
A. Spectre Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch dominant lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She, Baby Boi Relationship Status: She is my sunrise and sunset. Join Date: Nov 2014 Location: North Shore Chicago Posts: 1,570 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,036 Thanked 11,079 Times in 1,497 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	after being with someone for many years, residing alone these last few years has been a learning and growing experience. in the beginning, i was terrified. my partner, my best friend, confidant, sleep mate was.......*whoosh! gone. after the initial year or so, the idea of not relying on her for my happiness, my breath began sinking in. each morning, i had to wake up and face myself, my loneliness, my struggles. now, after several years, my confidence, my comfort levels are sustained and i have not not only acclimated, my confidence level has soared. don't get me wrong, one day i would enjoy having a special someone but more importantly, i have learned to enjoy myself. with this, perhaps i can be a better and improved partner to someone in the future.