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My mom texted me today all worried because she hadn't heard from me...awww
My phone has been glitchy, but we did some catching up.. :
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because I lend people money.
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Because my children tell me so!
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I feel the protective caring ways, thank you. 💋💋💋
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You go out of your way to hand deliver flowers to me, while I'm at work.
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I am loved because she always lets me change the channel when I come to bed.
I am loved because she loves to play "blind man's bluff" with me. I am loved because she runs rescue missions for me when I am sick. I am loved because when I become a mad scientist in the kitchen she still eats my food. I am loved because she respects my views. I am loved because she puts my needs before hers. I am loved because she plays dodge ball with me naked. I am loved because she never wants to break the trust between us. I am loved because she gives me the freedom to grow. |
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I know I am loved because of the amazing hug I got when my friends son came home... it was accompanied by him telling me...
"I love you so much, I missed you for days"
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I know I'm loved because two of my friends went totally out of their way (over two days) to see to it that I made it to a special doctor appointment. Neither one of them were expected to help, but they both are deeply appreciated for making sacrifices and standing by me.
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i know i am loved because we tell each other, my love, my friends and my family.
i tell my loved ones that i love them constantly. |
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I know I am loved because-he thinks i'm perfect for him
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I know I am loved. No because. I just am.
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I'm going through one of the most difficult times of my entire life. I just finished three years of law school, during which time I also completed a second graduate degree. While I did that, fifteen people in my life died, ten of whom were close relatives, friends, or ex-lovers that I was still close to. I didn't take time to grieve because I couldn't stop school to do it. Now I'm done, and the weight of all that grief is crashing down. At the same time, I was in two romantic partnerships, a relatively new one, and a long term one of seventeen years. (We're poly and yes they knew about each other.) The new one ended unexpectedly on Saturday and the other is ending slowly, but still headed there because he's been cheating. (Cheating in poly happens when agreements are broken and/or lies are told about a new relationship.) I'm also studying for the state bar exam, which is next week.
In the midst of all this grief, stress, loss, and pain, I have been held up in love by my friends, who have given me places to stay, keys to their houses, meals, hugs, and shoulders to cry on. I belong to a community of femmes who have bent over backwards to be there and give me love and support. There are a few lovely people here on the planet who have texted me or called me regularly to check in and see how I'm doing. My parents have been amazing, kind, and present. This is one of the darkest times of my life. I keep thinking it can't possibly get any worse, and then it does. The silver lining is knowing how deeply loved I am, and my gratitude for that love. I knew I was loved before this, but it's when real trouble comes that I see how much. |
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I could make lists about how he shows me he loves me......I do them mentally
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...cuz He puts up with me with nary a complaint.
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Because my nieces tell me and mean it.
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He says it, He shows it and I feel it.
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I know I'm loved because we've got eachother's backs and we don't face hardships alone...I can rest knowing they are there for me, and I for them.
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because hy doesn't hesitate to show me
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I know I am loved because they have stuck beside me through the biggest hardship of my life. And they talk about my homemade meatloaf and pick-eye-purple-hull peas like it's the best meal ever.
I know I'm loved by my dog when he patiently and quietly allows me to sleep in and he lays his head on my chest when I ask for a puppy hug. I know I'm loved by dear friends (living in the next county over) who have made time for me during their busy day to call at their lunch almost every day to ask how I'm doing and truly be interested and listen. I know I'm loved when old friends from Shenandoah beg me to come visit when I plan my next trip. I know I'm loved when I hear my grown son say "but you're my momma". I know I'm loved when my friend's husband says "we'll take care of that for ya" after I had been stressing out about going to the dealership alone. I know I'm loved when I find the rare cotton candy ice cream for a certain friend who would think the world had ended if Hershey ever stopped making it. I know I'm loved by a wonderful young man that's been in my life since he was a baby and has always given me the best bear hugs ever. I can't wait to reunite with him soon in Shenandoah.
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