The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

morningstar55 · 04-24-2015, 02:02 PM

afternooners strangers ..

its been a long long time.
its nice to see all of you here.
and wow a 2015 get together ?? i wish i could make it to that

im in the process of saving $$ for a trip to Dallas texas next april.... working on getting booked into the deep alum art fest.

for next april.
........
in other news guess i have a lot of catching up to do

heh

Chad · 04-24-2015, 05:56 PM

Hi Lofters!

I hope everyone is doing well. It is Friday night my favorite night of the week.
I hope that we have a good group of Lofter's at the Vegas PARTY!

See you there,
Chad

Daisy Chain · 05-30-2015, 08:09 AM

Helllooooo,,,,,,,??

Anyone still drop by here these days ?

I have chocolate !

TruTexan · 05-30-2015, 09:43 AM

Hi Daisy Chain. I rarely ever come post here, and haven't seen much activity here either. Try the singles thread, they seem to post more actively there.

MsTinkerbelly · 05-30-2015, 12:11 PM

Hi Daisy Chain!

A threads only dead if no one posts...and here we are.

TruTexan, this is for all folks getting up there in age..lol...not a singles thread!

Soooo, anyone have a topic they want to throw out? Hot flashes, retirement here/near?

Daisy Chain · 05-30-2015, 03:19 PM

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Originally Posted by MsTinkerbelly

Hi Daisy Chain!

A threads only dead if no one posts...and here we are.

TruTexan, this is for all folks getting up there in age..lol...not a singles thread!

Soooo, anyone have a topic they want to throw out? Hot flashes, retirement here/near?

Hello !! I notice a lot of the threads seem quiet other then the fun ones.

MMmmm hot flashes ! Here we call them flushes but either way they are hot and take some getting used to !

On the topic of getting older I have noticed of late I`m starting to question my choices in things, I`m a traditional classic kind of woman anyway but I keep hearing this little voice in my head asking, am I too old for this nail polish colour or is this necklace more for a younger woman. I know a lot of women older than me that dress far younger, mostly successful at pulling it off so I dont know why I should worry over it. I guess I have a new number in my head now and somehow feel the world views me differently !

DC

MsTinkerbelly · 05-30-2015, 08:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Daisy Chain

Hello !! I notice a lot of the threads seem quiet other then the fun ones.

MMmmm hot flashes ! Here we call them flushes but either way they are hot and take some getting used to !

On the topic of getting older I have noticed of late I`m starting to question my choices in things, I`m a traditional classic kind of woman anyway but I keep hearing this little voice in my head asking, am I too old for this nail polish colour or is this necklace more for a younger woman. I know a lot of women older than me that dress far younger, mostly successful at pulling it off so I dont know why I should worry over it. I guess I have a new number in my head now and somehow feel the world views me differently !

DC

It seems the threads eb and flow...we have some really thought provoking threads here, but it seems people get busy and just want to have fun most days.

I haven't been able to carry off a "hip" or "younger" look for most of my life...i was born an old soul, and that comes across in my fashion and other choices. I always wished i could carry off the trendy looks, but i only wound up feeling like a clown.

I have found one thing to be true through the years...if i don't feel fabulous in it, i don't buy it or wear it.

GeorgiaMa'am · 05-30-2015, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Daisy Chain

On the topic of getting older I have noticed of late I`m starting to question my choices in things, I`m a traditional classic kind of woman anyway but I keep hearing this little voice in my head asking, am I too old for this nail polish colour or is this necklace more for a younger woman. I know a lot of women older than me that dress far younger, mostly successful at pulling it off so I dont know why I should worry over it. I guess I have a new number in my head now and somehow feel the world views me differently !

I recently turned 50 and am questioning my fashion choices once again. I seem to do that pretty regularly with each decade.
20th birthday - decided clothing was about more than jeans and t-shirts
30th birthday - dyed my hair red and started wearing makeup
40th birthday - changed my makeup and started a strict skincare routine, also got my first tattoo
50th birthday - I'm not sure yet

People have been telling me for years, "Oh, when you're such-and-such an age, you won't care what people think about you any more." I have found this to be true in some ways and not in others. I still care what people think about how I look; maybe it's superficial, but it's how I feel. On the other hand, I don't care if people think I'm superficial.

Daisy Chain · 05-30-2015, 03:00 PM

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Originally Posted by TruTexan

Hi Daisy Chain. I rarely ever come post here, and haven't seen much activity here either. Try the singles thread, they seem to post more actively there.

Thank you for the reply, hadnt thought of going there as I`m not on the market as it were !

04-24-2015, 02:02 PM	#1
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	afternooners strangers .. its been a long long time. its nice to see all of you here. and wow a 2015 get together ?? i wish i could make it to that im in the process of saving $$ for a trip to Dallas texas next april.... working on getting booked into the deep alum art fest. for next april. ........ in other news guess i have a lot of catching up to do heh __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

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MsTinkerbelly Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: ... Preferred Pronoun?: ... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ... Posts: 6,573 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,737 Thanked 22,902 Times in 5,017 Posts Rep Power: 0	Hi Daisy Chain! A threads only dead if no one posts...and here we are. TruTexan, this is for all folks getting up there in age..lol...not a singles thread! Soooo, anyone have a topic they want to throw out? Hot flashes, retirement here/near?