Be still my swooning femme heart...

[Orema]

Originally Posted by Rockinonahigh

I guess that leaves me out, ageism sucks, there aught to be a law.

Of course I'm not speaking for fever, but it doesn't sound like it's leaving you out at all.

I take this as a preference, not a requirement.

My preference is for a dark and chubby butch, but that hasn't stopped me from falling head over heels for a fair and smallish butch. Neither does it mean I'll fall for every dark and chubby butch.

It's just a preference, Rock. That's all.

O

[randrum]

Whenever I see a list like this I always think I should go get a couple more suits.

Then I shake my head and am like nah. It might not be the most "stylish", but I'm partial to a comfortable pair of jeans and a t-shirt. And luckily I don't have one of those jobs where I have to dress up. I can get away with khakis and a polo.

[Rockinonahigh]

Originally Posted by Orema

Of course I'm not speaking for fever, but it doesn't sound like it's leaving you out at all.

I take this as a preference, not a requirement.

My preference is for a dark and chubby butch, but that hasn't stopped me from falling head over heels for a fair and smallish butch. Neither does it mean I'll fall for every dark and chubby butch.

It's just a preference, Rock. That's all.

O

I'm pretty dry witted folks, just kidding around.

[JDeere]

I saw the other links but still too suit and tiesh for my liking, I think my whole point is to base attraction not on how someone dresses but their heart and personality!

[imperfect_cupcake]

Of course.

But some butches love the look of femmes in lingerie and would *love* 100 photos of REAL
FEMMES - and not just celebs - in beautiful dresses, long gowns, lingerie and swimwear.

This is the same things, for us. Because many many femmes doesn't get to see maculine females or transmasculines in their daily life.

And I LOVE that it's not just North Americans. I love that there are eurostylistas and the UK. DapperQ is not just 'Murica Butch.

I can see down home casual on the street where I live. This is my candy for missing living in London... And I love love love seeing it. Just as much as a butch loves seeing a femme dolled up.

It's been decades of waiting for things like this, for us. To even see it in some form of media.

Now that's it's here, I am so so happy I can see what turns me on when I have to go weeks without seeing masculine females and genderqueers.

[ProfPacker]

[QUOTE=imperfect_cupcake;995755]Of course.

But some butches love the look of femmes in lingerie and would *love* 100 photos of REAL
FEMMES - and not just celebs - in beautiful dresses, long gowns, lingerie and swimwear.

imperfect, I would love to see this list of 100 Real Femmes in all shapes, sizes, styles, etc. we butches would be swooning ourselves, sigh

[flapdoodle]

Let's do a photo shoot, I'm game, tell me where and when....I need some notice, to pack, of course

all ages, I am in my 50'z, and, I rock whatever I feel like...age..pfft

I don't even know what age appropriate really means.
and who wants to really be all that appropriate, not me!


Cuppa, let's organize a femme photo shoot all shapes sizes, ages, and outfits

any camera holders???

[imperfect_cupcake]

I found a couple of lists of femme lesbians/femme queers when I searched for five minutes. Google is your friend

[Vivacious1]

Mercy mercy mercy

[JDeere]

Originally Posted by imperfect_cupcake

Of course.

But some butches love the look of femmes in lingerie and would *love* 100 photos of REAL
FEMMES - and not just celebs - in beautiful dresses, long gowns, lingerie and swimwear.

This is the same things, for us. Because many many femmes doesn't get to see maculine females or transmasculines in their daily life.

And I LOVE that it's not just North Americans. I love that there are eurostylistas and the UK. DapperQ is not just 'Murica Butch.

I can see down home casual on the street where I live. This is my candy for missing living in London... And I love love love seeing it. Just as much as a butch loves seeing a femme dolled up.

It's been decades of waiting for things like this, for us. To even see it in some form of media.

Now that's it's here, I am so so happy I can see what turns me on when I have to go weeks without seeing masculine females and genderqueers.

I have to disagree on this, I am not one for seeing a femme dressed up in swimwear, lingerie or dresses, etc. It looks like the Miss Universe competition to me, which I do not watch, I find it degrading.

I would much rather see a femme in jeans,a nice shirt and flip flops, where you know she is comfortable!

But carry on!

[Daisy Chain]

Originally Posted by JDeere

I have to disagree on this, I am not one for seeing a femme dressed up in swimwear, lingerie or dresses, etc. It looks like the Miss Universe competition to me, which I do not watch, I find it degrading.

I would much rather see a femme in jeans,a nice shirt and flip flops, where you know she is comfortable!

But carry on!

You know I am uncomfortable in jeans...I am comfortable more in dresses and skirts, I feel they compliment my personality and underline my femininity ....clothes are such a useful tool for self expression. As for swimwear and lingerie I am a private viewings only kinda girl !

DC

[Ascot]

I think it's marvelous when a woman I'm crazy about gets dolled up. I even dig "dolled up" for it's retro, 40's gangster's girlfriend vibe.

Of course I am wholeheartedly for everyone being comfortable. But...but, when the effort is put in, when the thought is put in, when, by her choices she shows me how well she knows me, that she might actually be somewhat uncomfortable and she knows that appeals to both of us...yeah, I like that. I like experiencing her when she knows she looks fantastic and that she dressed for her own pleasure as well.

I love that she will toss on jeans and a t-shirt to hit the farmers' market with me on a weekend morning, hair however messy she wants it, not a jot of makeup. That's easily as breathtaking as her being dressed to the nines. It's just very different.

Regarding the "it's what's on the inside that matters" thing...that is definitely so. It's what will bring you to my heart. So...what? We can't have it all? I think it's possible. A wonderful, bright, funny, creative, kinky, intellectually hungry human being who can make me hard with just a glance; and who knows she can, yes, thanks. My preference is one, I suppose, of duality in many forms. Get dolled up for me, but be understated. I'd much rather you be a surreptitious provocateur, just the two of us knowing what lies beneath.

Darn it, I think I'm derailing myself.

I'll end by saying I love a good tie.

[imperfect_cupcake]

Originally Posted by JDeere

I have to disagree on this, I am not one for seeing a femme dressed up in swimwear, lingerie or dresses, etc. It looks like the Miss Universe competition to me, which I do not watch, I find it degrading.

I would much rather see a femme in jeans,a nice shirt and flip flops, where you know she is comfortable!

But carry on!

That's great. I *like* fancier clothes and urban wear. I'm an urban girl. There are plenty of people who like flip flops and plenty of people who like brogues.
This is a fabulous visual extravaganza for those who love to see smart casual, fashionable, and casual formal urban fare.

And I much prefer to be in a dress than jeans and flips flops. I'm not comfortable wearing that. I LOVE wearing what I do. My Butch parters loved their urban fashion.

Not everyone wants to dress they way you feel most comfortable. I'm just showing a link to what I really do love seeing butches in. I love that these are community orientated folk and there is all ages and shapes and ethnicities.

It's not a policy about what butches world wide should wear. It's one list. From a queering men's fashion blog.