Be still my swooning femme heart...

[imperfect_cupcake]

Originally Posted by JDeere

Actually my point has nothing to do with anything about competition or rank. It has to do with feeling appreciated when you do NOT fit into the dapper mold.

JD, there is enough femme love and appreciation for every single kind of masculinity. Being on this site should have shown you that by now. Dapper is NOT the most popular in the US as far as I can tell by what US femmes regularly say on threads at this site and on Facebook groups.

This list is not about you and I can see that upsets you.

You must feel very ignored in being appreciated in general.

But this is not about appreciating the cowboy look. Thats another list and another thread.

If there was a thread appreciating girls who have dark hair, that wouldn't include me. And that's OK. It's OK that this list is about appreciating dapper fashion on tomboys, butches, genderqueer and transmasculine.