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07-27-2012, 08:01 PM
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Practically Lives Here
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Hitched up 
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Goals, yes Goals, have a future!
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07-27-2012, 09:08 PM
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Senior Member
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Queer Sapiosexual Femme Relationship Status:
Mrs. Grumpy Cat 
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LISTEN... I can be terrible at this one sometimes because I have the attention span of a 3 year old, but it is so nice to actually be listened to! Makes me feel very lucky.
Look in the eyes often. Watch your friends sometimes. You'd be amazed how many couples can go a whole day talking without looking in each other's eyes. Be appreciative and never take the other person for granted. Be supportive of their endeavors. Like Greco said, TOUCH. You cannot underestimate the importance of it. For those of us not yet to the point of being together all the time, it's the thing you miss the most. Even better than sex (if there's any such thing  )
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07-27-2012, 09:13 PM
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Timed Out - Permanent
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butch stone Preferred Pronoun?:
masculine ones work best... Relationship Status:
♥ engaged to spritz ♥ 
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What TO DO in a relationship...
Be present and in the moment Listen with your heart as well as with your head Drop the ego and admit you screwed up Apologize with conviction Dream your dreams together |
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07-27-2012, 09:37 PM
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Senior Member
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Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012
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Don't get lost. Rely on your own center, not the relationship as your center. Put your oxygen mask on first, then help her with hers.
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07-27-2012, 10:03 PM
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Infamous Member
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I usually just poke it with a stick. Preferred Pronoun?:
Bitch Relationship Status:
Intertwined deeply 
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Laugh...often...
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07-27-2012, 11:11 PM
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Senior Member
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a round peg in a square hole Preferred Pronoun?:
Guess... Relationship Status:
Seat taken 
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Hold hands, look into each others eyes, be grateful for each moment and just be happy! Don't sweat the small silly stuff because it jut takes away from the fun stuff.
One thing that my partner does that no one has ever done for me before is to make me feel whole. I don't know how to explain feeling "whole", but I can describe it as feeling 100% loved, protected, cared for, adored, cherished, honored and worthy. I think anyone in any relationship would want that, and I hope I make her feel the same.
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"It's ok to make mistakes. It's ok to fall down. Get up! Look sickening....and make them eat it!" - Latrice Royale  Starry
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07-28-2012, 07:38 AM
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Senior Member
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well my girl calls me honeybear, sugarbear, sexy beast, hot tamale..... Preferred Pronoun?:
female pronouns Relationship Status:
Married to my Rare Beauty with a Beautiful Soul.....SS 
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She knows you love her so don't just tell her , let her know why you love her.....
SS  I love you for the woman that you are.....the way you give of yourself to make others happy ( just remember you have to be happy )....you don't just hear what is being said, you listen..I love that you encourage me to go out and have fun and not be jealous...I love that you are into the mysteries of the world, the unknown ( and now I get to explore with you )....I love your love of travel....I love the way you smile, how your eyes smile....Okay I could go on and on but I think everyone knows, can see how much I love you You are My Rare Beauty
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"If you talk about it, it's a dream, if you envision it, it's possible, but if you schedule it, it's real. "   
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07-28-2012, 10:08 AM
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Senior Member
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Femme lesbian Join Date: Mar 2012
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Be clear in the difference between "settling" and "accepting."
In one, you compromise on things outside of yourself. In the other, you compromise your self. I know the difference, and that feels good—but it wasn't easy getting there, to that understanding. |
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07-28-2012, 01:07 PM
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Practically Lives Here
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Hitched up
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Wow that is SO true!
i feel we all have our own dealbreakers. Each time i ignored them things went bad. Can't blame someone else because i ignored my own boundaries. Sometimes i feel (especially in the internet world) when people know your boundaries they can hide those behaviors rather well beause they want it to work. i don't mind compromise but the settling i cannot do. |
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07-28-2012, 01:59 PM
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Practically Lives Here
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If you miss them, or you're thinking about them...tell them how much.
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07-28-2012, 02:11 PM
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Infamous Member
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TG Preferred Pronoun?:
He Relationship Status:
once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! 
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Look both ways before crossing the road. I know this doesn't sound like it goes in this thread, but it does. If you look both ways before you cross the road you won't be blind sided
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Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it. |
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07-28-2012, 03:45 PM
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Timed Out
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Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status:
I don't drive a Uhaul. :) 
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Treat your relationship with the respect you both deserve.
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07-28-2012, 06:54 PM
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Practically Lives Here
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Hitched up
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i got an awesome rep that was dead on.... if starting off online make sure you know what you are getting into because once the honeymoon week is over and the real life starts things and people can change in a heartbeat!
i want to evolve not dissolve! |
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07-28-2012, 07:03 PM
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Infamous Member
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femme ones Join Date: Nov 2009
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Laugh about things together until you both lose your breath.
Don't take things so seriously, there is always something to smile about. Meet in the middle, financially and emotionally.  Remember that sometimes, the deepest conversations happen at night after the lights go out and all there is to focus on is each other's voice.
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~ I've learned that people will forget what you said,
people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou |
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07-28-2012, 07:03 PM
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Senior Member
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stone butch Preferred Pronoun?:
makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status:
single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. 
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07-29-2012, 08:40 AM
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Develop strong stomach muscles so you can hold up to all the laughter 
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Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other. - Rainer Maria Rilke |
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07-29-2012, 09:00 AM
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Senior Member
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Light Butch Preferred Pronoun?:
She Relationship Status:
Hitched to Red 
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Love each other for the now and for the changes that will come in the future.
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07-29-2012, 06:04 PM
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Practically Lives Here
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Hitched up
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Work out in the yard together!
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11-03-2012, 06:21 AM
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Practically Lives Here
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Hitched up
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have your own passions. As much as i miss Syr i am glad she is doing what she loves.
Absence really does make the heart go fonder!  Hurry home Daddi! |
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11-03-2012, 01:39 PM
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Member
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Married to The Woman of My Dreams <3
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* Say please and thank you * Leave your ego at the door * Share household chores * Talk positively about them, even when you're mad * Be their biggest fan * Always have their back, regardless. * Be honest * Be faithful * Communicate * Always remember why you fell in love in the first place |
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