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I am unmarried in my State or Country 103 58.52%
I am married in my State or Country 27 15.34%
I have had an alternate joining which is not legally marriage 18 10.23%
I wouldn't get married if they paid me! 28 15.91%
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Old 04-10-2013, 01:59 PM   #1
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If I met the right girl, I would absoulutly ask her to marry me. I love the idea of it. Are there other issues affecting our community, yes there are. But marriage is an issue of the heart and of love and for me a very important issue. I want to be able to marry the person I love just like any other person on the planet. We are all human, gay, straight and everyone in between. If I want to marry my fellow human no matter what the gender or orientation, I should be able to do it without judgement. So yes marriage is for me. And wherever you are girl of my dreams....look out cause I'm coming for ya and I'm gonna ask you to marry me
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If I met the right girl, I would absoulutly ask her to marry me. I love the idea of it. Are there other issues affecting our community, yes there are. But marriage is an issue of the heart and of love and for me a very important issue. I want to be able to marry the person I love just like any other person on the planet. We are all human, gay, straight and everyone in between. If I want to marry my fellow human no matter what the gender or orientation, I should be able to do it without judgement. So yes marriage is for me. And wherever you are girl of my dreams....look out cause I'm coming for ya and I'm gonna ask you to marry me

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I was married for six years and been single longer than that. But yes marriage is for me I'm just selective of who I marry.
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is just a word some people take seriously and others just pretend to take seriously. If I need a piece of paper to convince me, where I belong who my heart belongs to or I need to feel safe I need therapy not a license.
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is just a word some people take seriously and others just pretend to take seriously. If I need a piece of paper to convince me, where I belong who my heart belongs to or I need to feel safe I need therapy not a license.
With all do respect IMHO it is more then just a piece of paper. It could mean the difference between someone having admittance to their partner in a hospital or being allowed to make decisions for said partner. Then there's tax breaks and I could go on.
As for the question. I've been married twice.The first time I was way to young and not for the right reasons as we were pressured by family.The second one was to my partner of 11 years we are divorced but on good terms. So would I marry again, absolutely I love the commitment and love that surrounds it.
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No, but being in love and monogamous is. I just don't like contracts with the government.
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Seeing as we now have equal marriage in Aotearoa/New Zealand, I'm a hell yeah! I'm never been married, but want to some day.
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I am unconventional about marriage besides the obvious. Marriage is a heart place. I am monogomous about that set of feelings. I have the one place there for her. I love living alone. I dont mind not being in the same town. I would like two houses tho. I dont have to have our lives intertwine. Im not sure I am capable of intertwining. Marriage means you are my priority along with your children and my family. Marriage means sharing.

Marriage is a feeling that doesnt go away. It is something I feel I cannot change and that I cannot control. I have tried. It is like wifefi. It is always there except when service gets interrupted.
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Been married twice for 11 yrs each time.. I hear third times a charm! So Yes. I do & would again.
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I was married to a woman and she cheated and ...never again unless the pre-nup is 100 pages long, my lawyer wrote it, and if anyone cheats they get dropped into the Pacific by helicopter. At night. With sardines in her pockets.
Please, no PC lectures--I am still a bit agitated at the ex wife
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I tried it. Didnt like it. Never.Again.
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