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They're all the same and no one will remember either one of them 50 years from now...unless one of the goes crazy like Howard Hughes I just don't care about celebrity bullshit, and I don't understand why this country cares more about gossip than actual news Oh Wait, I'll Now Try To Fit In..."Gasp, Poor Sandy...I Just Wanna Send Her A Hug In A Basket", Dylan P.S. Thanks for adding the pictures tho...that really helps. I DID like the Wolverine movie. Can't name anything else he's been in tho. And I can't name one movie Hugh Grant was in. |
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03-31-2010, 10:56 AM
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Deliver it in person, she has a house in your hood.
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03-31-2010, 11:01 AM
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Oh trust me...we know. I think it's a rule in Austin that you have to know every celebrity who owns property here.
And she's now part owner of a downtown, yuppie bakery too <eyeroll> Just to tarnish her "America's Sweetheart" reputation for a minute, she also refused to sign autographs for disadvantaged kids one day while downtown at the courthouse That Doesn't Sound Very Sweet, Dylan P.S. Sometimes, I wanna just push Lance Armstrong off his bike |
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03-31-2010, 11:05 AM
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Celebrity opinions about politics, who they have sex with and whether or not they have an addiction of any kind is not my business nor is it interesting.
Politician opinions about politics, who they have sex with and whether or not they have an addiction of any kind is my business and I care about that a lot. There was a discussion on FB about do gay celebrities owe it to the community to come out? I don't think they do unless they want to. Politicians do have a responsibility to be out. If they are lying they should be outed. Quote:
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03-31-2010, 11:12 AM
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I'm too lazy to go find the Tiger Woods thread again, but I certainly got a good chuckle over Tiger's announcement that he will be rejoining the PGA tour to play in the Masters. I should have set my egg timer on that one. That is what his public apology was about, lol.
Whether Sandra Bullock is nice or not nice, what does that have to do with whether or not she deserves to be cheated on or whether anyone should feel badly for her? What does it matter if someone is considered good looking or "plain?" No one deserves to be cheated on.
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03-31-2010, 11:21 AM
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My feelings boil down to this....
If you represent that you are monogamous and enter into a marriage (or relationship) as such..... don't cheat! If you cannot be monogamous, don't make these kinds of promises. Be honest and seek relationsips with people that align with your belief structures. And I don't have a problem with poly relationships if this is what is agreed upon. I don't date poly individuals because it just doesn't fit for me, personally. However, it does for other people. |
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03-31-2010, 11:30 AM
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One can be in a monogamous relationship and things may change, illness or something that may cause one person to not fulfill the other.. I would think that if mah boo came to me said.. "sugar, our sex is just not cutting it for me, and well I was thinking we could open up our relationship to poly........" If I was not able to fulfill my cuddly bear I would want them to be happy yes? No sense in cheating, sometimes monogamy can't be fulfilled, *I* don't think monogamy is structured, for if it was..... We would not have this thread....
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The boy told me he was a douche bag..... What a dick.......
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03-31-2010, 11:43 AM
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03-31-2010, 11:51 AM
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The other thing that I need to say is that there are many ways to deal with illness and disability and sex. They are not mutually exclusive and I find this line of thinking to be part of a pervasive able-bodied privilege that exists. Also, many of us take seriously the in sickness & health part of vows that we take. And there are many ways to be sexually fulfilled.... I would hope that sexual incompatability would have been recognized and dealt with at the beginning of a relationship. Then, again, sex is much more than a physical experience for me. Last edited by AtLast; 03-31-2010 at 11:56 AM. Reason: goofed |
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When I started this thread, I was just curious how people view fidelity and how people have reacted to infidelity in their own lives.
It has been interesting to see the twists and turns that have occured as people insert their own scripts into the flow. There has been a celebrity focus, a sexes focus, a physical attractiveness focus, a sex focus, a violence focus, a few things I havent yet grasped focus, and even some personal feelings and experience focus! This has kind of reinforced for me, how one needs to choose ones words carefully to minimize misinterpretation. Even then, there is no guarantee that what you meant is what will be heard or focused on. It is a fascinating process to watch. And gives insights into how misunderstanding occur. Having said this, I still want to know why Dylan wants to push Lance Armstrong off his bike.
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This thread has been interesting, and I knew EXACTLY what you meant, but then another person posted, and another and another and now here we are. 
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03-31-2010, 12:42 PM
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No one would be sending Jesse a Huggie Basket But I'd bet money on what WOULD happen. Jesse would still be made out to be a dick who had treated Sandy badly, and DROVE her to cheat. Jesse would have driven ApplePieSandy into the arms of another man. When a man cheats on a 'beautiful woman' (and looks are just about all a woman's whole character is based on in this country. If she's pretty, well then "she's got a million [nameless] things going for her and she's brilliant" everyone said the same thing about that Hurley chick when Hughy cheated...oh, and where's her career today?), ohhhhhh my god the whole world crashes down, and people have to ask, "How could he cheat on Sandy/Elizabeth Hurley/whothefuckever" Ahhhhhh, but when a woman cheats on her husband, we either don't hear about it at all, because it's not big news, OR (usually), the man drove her to cheat by being such a big dick. Or there were some (excusable) extenuating circumstances (Christie Brinkley, anyone?) Double Standard, Dylan |
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It's those damned sheeple bracelets that make me wanna push Lance off his bike
Oh, and he dated that whiner, and all of Austin had to hear about the star couple 24/7 Can't Stand Him, And I Don't Care If He's Shooting Steroids, Dylan |
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Dylan, I don't agree with you about the double standard. If anything women are held to a much higher standard, otherwise they are deemed to be a "slut" or worse. Oh and women do pay a very high price when they are thought to be cheating- often with their lives. See Martina's posts.
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Cheating is shitty. Regardless of gender, and I think normally men get more of a pass on it than women do. |
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I do agree there is a huge double standard in perception, but people need to know that women cheat just as much.
Maybe women are sneakier?
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But I couldn't turn on the radio or television without hearing about Sandy and Tiger or Hughy Were there text messages? Were there 'reports' of *hundreds* of men she'd cheated with? Were people suggesting she step out of her career and give up singing? Were people commenting when she put out another record (like, "Pfffft, of course she wouldn't give up her entire career for being a philanderer...told ya' so"...like they are with Tiger?) Were her emails being posted all over the news and selling for big bucks? Dylan |
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