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"Packing" 101....
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I had a up and coming butch email me about Packing and hy is a bit shy about asking questions regarding this subject. What better place to get answers than the Planet. I don't know enough about packing to help hym out.. so if you all could lean your experiences and expertise's.... I hope I didn't miss another thread about this.. I did look and didn't see anything... |
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There is a ton of info on packing in this thread. Links and sites.
http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...read.php?t=608
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Np Strappie you may want to leave it up for newbies ...
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It kind of depends on the type of packing this person wants to do. Do they want to pack hard or soft? Plan on packing and playing?
I, personally, have made my boxer briefs packer friendly because I didn't care for any of the holster type straps that I have bought over the years. There are certain times I like to pack to play, but for the most part I pack soft. I use hem tape to close the front of the pouch opening, and iron a patch of fabric on the back of the pouch (on the inside of the boxer briefs), then I cut a hole in that fabric so that the packer can fit through snugly (so it doesn't fall out). I iron the fabric patch on the back so the stretchy fabric of the briefs doesn't stretch out, causing the packer to work itself loose and possibly fall out when using the restroom. (this may or may not have happened to me once......ONCE ) Happy packing!!
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http://transguys.com/product-reviews...king-underwear
Much like G's innovation these have a soft O ring in the construction. For use with soft or packnpee.
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I have spent a lot of time trying to "perfect" the packing experience. There are so many combinations, variations and products to consider. I try to keep it simple.
Soft pack -- I have yet to find a soft packer that I like. Soft packing, just for the aesthetics, can be done a zillion ways. I simply prefer a manageable (i.e. small) soft packer held nicely in a good snug pair of boxer briefs. Hard pack -- My recent preferred method is the Goodfella cock (again, smallish but bendable) in the Aslan Undercover Harness. This harness is quite comfortable, but not built for vigorous play. I like to strap tight for better control. This harness does not allow that, but it would allow for less vigorous activity, such as blowjobs. The best thing to do is try a few things out to see what works for you. |
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I too have spent years trying to "perfect". Sometimes, for me anyway, its just not comfortable. I mean physically, not emotionally or psychologically. I'm good there. I think it just might be a "thing" with me though. Kinda like, if my socks aren't on the right feet, my feet feel weird all day. If my cock isn't in the right spot and stay there, it feels weird all day.
What I'm trying now is, I got some compression shorts and O rings. I cut a small X (a little smaller than the center of the O ring) put the O ring in place and folded the "tabs" over around it (on the inside, then tacked the tabs down with a few stitches on each. Then cut fabric into a donut shape and stitched it on the inside of the shorts for some extra strength because the shorts stretch so much. I put the hole where it would need to be for a pack and play, so I could stick it through to play. (like Hack said, good for blowjobs) I have not had the pleasure to see how well it works in that aspect. It doesn't seem to matter the hole is there for a soft pack. So far, it's not too bad. The shorts are snug enough to keep things in place for the most part. Hard pack is altogether a different ballgame.
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thanks to you all....and to Strappie for this thread.....:).
Much appreciated as I wasn't "up to snuff" on all the new sites and I am always able to learn from those with much more experience..and appreciate every post and experience you share....Clay
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First of all, I almost feel like an intruder in on this thread again. I do not pack myself, I just personally just appreciate that there are butches that DO! I also am not intending to be disrespectful in any way to anyone. Please forgive this femme who is in a new relationship, flush with lust and giddy with all the hormones that sex with a new partner will bring (oof!). yeah, I spend most of my days with a silly-assed grin on my face! When I re-read G's post detailing how hy "used hem tape to close the front of the pouch opening...etc", I just could NOT get this picture out of my head.....of a long-ago Home Ec class, offering tips ala Hints from Heloise, on how to retro fit boxers to hold a cock, to a roomful of butches! *wild giggling!* However you all do it, PLEASE don't stop! Hard pack, soft pack, I for one love the feel of it, and knowing it is THERE! I love reaping the benefits of your creativity! Woo-Hoo! |
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... totally respect the soft pack & the creativity for sure ..
however, personally, the only time I pack is when I know play is going to be involved & want the freedom to be "ready"... not to mention the responses from the femme "discovering" ........hmmm anyway off track... I pack with a harness.. with the straps I can tighten(not elastic)... with a hard, but bendable cock... that has the feel & appearance of a nice bulge under a pair of boxer briefs.... Holds tight to the body...& is very sturdy for any amount of vigor .. *tip hat*
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I like to soft pack. Heck, I like to hard pack too. Haven't done it in a long time. But I still got it.... I hope. Lol
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At the suggestion of a rather clever femme, I sewed the pouch of my boxer briefs to secure my soft packer. I didn't fully sew it closed, just tacked it in two places on the outside opening and one place on the inside opening. This allows for fairly easy insertion and adjustment but leaves basically no risk of it falling out. It was a simple and effective solution.
Additionally, I can use those same briefs to hold my hard packer in place for some types of activities. For more vigorous sex, I use a harness with adjustable straps. My new hard pack is not as bendy as my old one, so wearing it under clothing is not practical, but I still have my older one if I want to do that. |
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All very exciting stuff! I love when my girl packs...especially when I am not aware until we are out somewhere and she inadvertently rubs against my backside. Growwwwl!!!!
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Hey everyone.
First of all, I would like to say Thank you for all the posts. I have found them to be very helpful. Second of all, I am new to this subject. I am definitely wanting to learn more and start packing. What would be the best "starter" packer? I will be interested in a STP. Thanks in advance for all your help |
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