Is anybody out there????

Phead · 10-07-2010, 01:04 PM

That's what I feel so often.....is there anyone for me?? All my experiences with people lately are so less than fulfilling. Are there any "normal" people that just want to have fun and enjoy a relationship? Frustrated (in oh so many ways)

rlin · 10-07-2010, 03:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Phead

That's what I feel so often.....is there anyone for me?? All my experiences with people lately are so less than fulfilling. Are there any "normal" people that just want to have fun and enjoy a relationship? Frustrated (in oh so many ways)

uhm... yeah....
or so im told...

wolfbittenpoet · 10-07-2010, 04:17 PM

Define normal.

Arwen · 10-07-2010, 05:15 PM

Welcome to the Planet, Phead. I hope you have a grand time and make good friends here.

Cowboi · 10-07-2010, 05:38 PM

Welcome to the Planet!!!

princessbelle · 10-07-2010, 05:44 PM

Welcome and enjoy!!!!

JAGG · 10-07-2010, 06:39 PM

There is lots of folks out here phead. If nothing else I'm sure you will find some new friends.

~Bo · 10-07-2010, 06:45 PM

Normal????? Here??????

FlowerFem · 10-07-2010, 07:02 PM

Hi Phead I'm new here as well. And we live in the same state. Fayetteville is home now for me. I'm from upstate NY. Anyway I know exactly how you feel!!! Are there any butches out there who aren't unemployed, or addicted to something. No offense intended , just really starting to wear me out. Maybe one with a little intelligence, not be lacking in self-esteem, someone who is focused and has a plan in life. Someone who isn't afraid to work , and "being pretty good at drinking beer", is not what they want to be known for. Maybe I'm too superficial, but I'd like one who has their own money, their own car, and perhaps even a home owner maybe.

Someone who can display a little responsibilty and make sounds decisions in life. OKAY I will be quiet now. (stepping down from my soapbox)

Rockinonahigh · 10-07-2010, 07:22 PM

Welcome to the planet,u will like it hear,lots of nice people hear.Now for the question of the ages..I wish could anser it for ya but in many ways I cant define normal,as for one person its one thing and to another its a nother ball of wax.I live in north Louisiana,we have a fair glbt community but so far I havent found my princess cause I am haveing the same prob as u described.Realy the only place to meet anyone is in a gbar,wich I dont go to much any more.Good luck in ur serch,obtw if u find the anser...let me know.

Gayla · 10-07-2010, 09:17 PM

Welcome to the Planet!

There are a lot of people out there and some of them are even normal. As cliched as it sounds, when the time is right, the right one will come along. In the mean time, enjoy life.

Jude · 10-07-2010, 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Phead

That's what I feel so often.....is there anyone for me?? All my experiences with people lately are so less than fulfilling. Are there any "normal" people that just want to have fun and enjoy a relationship? Frustrated (in oh so many ways)

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In the same context that any other people who have been persecuted much of their lives see themselves as less than adequate and live up to their own expectations....

There are plenty of articulate, bright, prosperous lesbians living responsible, meaningful and reasonable lives. They may not be the most outspoken on the block because they're also involved in their professional lives and have varied interests and pursuits. There are certainly some prime examples in this forum.

That's not to say that they're hiding in the closet. Being lesbians is one facet of their lives. I know several admirable people fitting that description.

I own my own home and car and hope to G/d that I'm never called "normal". Yawn.

Tcountry · 10-08-2010, 03:13 AM

Normal is just a setting on the wash machine...
...& the newer ones don't even have it...lol

Welcome *tip hat* Hope you find what you are looking for...

10-07-2010, 01:04 PM	#1
Phead Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: Single and ready for relations Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Arkansas Posts: 2 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts Rep Power: 0	Is anybody out there???? That's what I feel so often.....is there anyone for me?? All my experiences with people lately are so less than fulfilling. Are there any "normal" people that just want to have fun and enjoy a relationship? Frustrated (in oh so many ways)

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wolfbittenpoet Member How Do You Identify?: Typewriter Boy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: FL Posts: 534 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 891 Thanked 1,578 Times in 402 Posts Rep Power: 7303676	Define normal.

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FlowerFem Member How Do You Identify?: femm Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: dating Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Illinois Posts: 107 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 128 Thanked 164 Times in 51 Posts Rep Power: 286409	hello Hi Phead I'm new here as well. And we live in the same state. Fayetteville is home now for me. I'm from upstate NY. Anyway I know exactly how you feel!!! Are there any butches out there who aren't unemployed, or addicted to something. No offense intended , just really starting to wear me out. Maybe one with a little intelligence, not be lacking in self-esteem, someone who is focused and has a plan in life. Someone who isn't afraid to work , and "being pretty good at drinking beer", is not what they want to be known for. Maybe I'm too superficial, but I'd like one who has their own money, their own car, and perhaps even a home owner maybe. Someone who can display a little responsibilty and make sounds decisions in life. OKAY I will be quiet now. (stepping down from my soapbox)

10-07-2010, 07:22 PM	#10
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,937 Times in 3,936 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Welcome to the planet,u will like it hear,lots of nice people hear.Now for the question of the ages..I wish could anser it for ya but in many ways I cant define normal,as for one person its one thing and to another its a nother ball of wax.I live in north Louisiana,we have a fair glbt community but so far I havent found my princess cause I am haveing the same prob as u described.Realy the only place to meet anyone is in a gbar,wich I dont go to much any more.Good luck in ur serch,obtw if u find the anser...let me know.

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Gayla Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kinky Butch Top Preferred Pronoun?: I'm not picky Relationship Status: She makes me dance like a fool and forget how to breathe. Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: SF CA Posts: 3,229 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 877 Thanked 7,078 Times in 1,966 Posts Rep Power: 0	Welcome to the Planet! There are a lot of people out there and some of them are even normal. As cliched as it sounds, when the time is right, the right one will come along. In the mean time, enjoy life.

10-08-2010, 03:13 AM	#13
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