Single FTM's & Femme's

[sylvie]

LMAO! One just never knows when toying with a Sadist, my dear!

so i'm learning.. *smiles*
< --- promises to not threaten bubblegum again!
is soooooooo not wanting more snow..
i've spent more time falling on my tush than i have anything else this year, lol!!

[sylvie]

good evenin' everyone - ♥

[morningstar55]

good morning singles
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im camping just east of Lexington ,KY and on my way toooooooo Durham NC .. making a pit stop at the horsey farm this evening..... yayyy
have a great weekend everyone

[Joe Mario]

Peeking in to say hello ;)

[morningstar55]

Peeking in to say hello ;)

hey there Joe.. :byebye: lol think this thread needs some bumping... but some of us post in the other singles thread.. which is just a general. singles thread.

[morningstar55]

mawning singles
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looks like a cheerio kinda morning here for me.
i know its monday... another week , another weekend to look forward too. :)

hope ya'll have a awsome day

[Dakota]

Good morning, Sylvie, Jesse, Morningstar. Sylvie so you have the day off! I can't wait to get back to work! Snowing here again .....cold...... I spent the day yesterday making plans to go to Aruba next year!!! Hope everyone has a awesome day.

[Dakota]

Morning everyone! Well I should be back to work the beginning of March. I can't wait!! Well I hope you all have a wonderful day!

[DomnNC]

Good morning ya'll. I hope you all have an awesome day!

[morningstar55]

mawning singles
i know its still pretty cold here in the north and i know its spring like in the south.. ( which im soo jealous .. lol )
im sure it will warm up here soon.
its just weather and it happens right....

hope you all have a awsome day

[morningstar55]

bumping up this thread some

kinda quiet in here
afternooners everyone
hope you all are having a awsome day so far.

[alilhoneybee]

Afternoon everyone. just wanted to stop by and say hello.

[Dakota]

Hope everyone has a great evening! Feeling stronger every day!! Okay were are all the women in New England hiding!!! lol...

[raising2alone]

:fastdraq:

Been awhile since I posted, started back to work after being home with the littles one for over a year, trying to help them adjust. Have a wonderful nanny....thank GOD ;). Hope everyone is doing well and trying to stay warm if you are in the midwest..lol.

Peace and blessing all.....

[morningstar55]

mawning singles
im hangin in ol Mayberry NC.... and now a proud owner of
*Aunt Bea's * cook book.. lol
i have a super sucky signal here....... and am surprised i am able to log onto here.
hope everyone has a fine day.

[morningstar55]

**stretching, slowly getting out of bed , but not before i give my hunnies a smooch on the cheek.... while still in dream land, going out to the kitchen getting the coffee to brewing and planning on making a awsome Sunday breakfast brunch just for 2 :) .. hey Coffee is ready, grabin a cup and sitting down to gaze out the window at the birds feeding at the feeders... closing my eyes...... with a smile.**
Hey ........ wow :|:| ........... im in my truck...... geeshh , should of known it was all just a dream :blink: *sigh*

good morning anyways........ single thread dwellers and peekers
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[kannon]

good evenin' everyone - ♥

Good evening :chocolate::chocolate:

[morningstar55]

mawning single thread dwellers and peekers
wish i could get a load to Fla..... lol if i did i will be sure to take a coupel days off and hit the beachs.
welcome to the singles thread.......... Kannon :)

right now im at home..... wooHoo...... have a doc appointment this afternoon.
hope everyone has a awsome friday

[kannon]

thank ya morningstar. I hope you have a couple of days to enjoy florida. sounds like fun.

have a great weekend all you singles.:cigar2:

[morningstar55]

mawning singles..

ha..... Kannon. would be nice.... :)

hope everyone has a awsome weekend
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[QueenofSmirks]

Good morning all!!

[Jesse]

Good morning to you :)

Good morning all!!

[kannon]

Morning beautiful peps. :hangloose: Have an awesome day!

[prettylilgrrl]

*peeking my head in the room* good evening everyone.

[msW8ing]

Stopping to give my salutations and wish everyone a most wonderful weekend:bbq:

[Lost_punk_boi]

Why must they play mind games? I'm so tired of this.... Are there really any beautiful ladies out there that like ftms?

[msW8ing]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Outter beauty fades, Inner beauty is forever. There are many ladies/femmes that like ftms but more importantly there are ladies/femmes that would like you just for you.Why must they play mind games? I'm so tired of this.... Are there really any beautiful ladies out there that like ftms?

[morningstar55]

good morning single thread dwellers and peekers
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this thread i know could use some bumping up... ha...

hello Ms8 and Lost :)
pretty and kannon and everyone..
hope you all have a awsome day

[msW8ing]

you crack me up..your just the threads social butterfly..you just flutter around greeting everyone. Very cool! Hope your having a great day and your job hunt is going in your favor good morning single thread dwellers and peekers
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this thread i know could use some bumping up... ha...

hello Ms8 and Lost :)
pretty and kannon and everyone..
hope you all have a awsome day

[T D]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Outter beauty fades, Inner beauty is forever. There are many ladies/femmes that like ftms but more importantly there are ladies/femmes that would like you just for you.

Which age will teach you is more important than any other beauty... Tis a fact.

[msW8ing]

I oh so totally agree with you TDWhich age will teach you is more important than any other beauty... Tis a fact.

[MaggieBluIze]

Good Morning Singles!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yay!!!!!! It's Wednesday .... WE are halfway there!!!
I hope everyone has a fabulous day!!!!

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[msW8ing]

Happy Friday! Wooo Hooo! I hope everyone has wonderful weather this weekend.:sunglass:

[MaggieBluIze]

Happy Friday E/everyone!!!!!!!!!!

I hope E/everyone has a great weekend!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Dakota]

Hope everyone has a great weekend!

[MaggieBluIze]

I have a friend coming by to hang out and watch movies today ...
May go over to a buddy's house tomorrow ...
Have a wonderful friend taking Mother's Day off to help make it a great day for me even though I'll be missing my daughter and mother ...
I'm feeling very blessed this weekend!!! :)

[T D]

Watched the documentary about Chaz earlier and I keep hearing those words "who will love me? Who's going to love a man without a penis?" I think this is something that a lot of transmen ask themselves. It's certainly a legitimate question too. I was especially relieved to hear Chaz say that being a man isn't about what's between your legs, which I also believe. It's about the person as a whole being, who they are, how they treat others, the whole shebang.

Yet another topic that Chaz brought up was about not getting to be a young man. I can so relate to that, hell I didn't even get to be a middle aged man. One of the things that was very difficult for me when deciding whether or not to proceed with my transition was whether or not it would make it more difficult for me to date or find a partner, and especially at my age. I have pretty much resolved to spend the rest of my life as a single person if it comes to that, but honestly, it's a sad thing when you think about it.... that one even has to consider whether or not they're willing to be unattached for the rest of their life in order to live in the body of and be the person they believe themself to be. Very thought provoking for sure.

I don't know, just seemed like an interesting topic for a single FTMs and Femmes thread.

Anyone else have thoughts about this?

[diamondrose]

Watched the documentary about Chaz earlier and I keep hearing those words "who will love me? Who's going to love a man without a penis?" I think this is something that a lot of transmen ask themselves. It's certainly a legitimate question too. I was especially relieved to hear Chaz say that being a man isn't about what's between your legs, which I also believe. It's about the person as a whole being, who they are, how they treat others, the whole shebang.

Yet another topic that Chaz brought up was about not getting to be a young man. I can so relate to that, hell I didn't even get to be a middle aged man. One of the things that was very difficult for me when deciding whether or not to proceed with my transition was whether or not it would make it more difficult for me to date or find a partner, and especially at my age. I have pretty much resolved to spend the rest of my life as a single person if it comes to that, but honestly, it's a sad thing when you think about it.... that one even has to consider whether or not they're willing to be unattached for the rest of their life in order to live in the body of and be the person they believe themself to be. Very thought provoking for sure.

I don't know, just seemed like an interesting topic for a single FTMs and Femmes thread.

Anyone else have thoughts about this?



I watched the Documentary about Chaz last night as well. I was very taken by the rawness of the material. Everything about it was well put together and well produced. I certainly agree with Chaz when he says that being a man is not about having a penis. I certainly will never know first hand the struggles and challenges a man, such as yourself (T D), goes through. I do know that as a stone femme, gender and my attraction to trans and stone butch doesn't begin with what is in their pants. Its about His personality, the man He IS, the mutual understanding and acceptance of two people, and the understanding of lives we live to feel whole.

[DomnNC]

Watched the documentary about Chaz earlier and I keep hearing those words "who will love me? Who's going to love a man without a penis?" I think this is something that a lot of transmen ask themselves. It's certainly a legitimate question too. I was especially relieved to hear Chaz say that being a man isn't about what's between your legs, which I also believe. It's about the person as a whole being, who they are, how they treat others, the whole shebang.

Yet another topic that Chaz brought up was about not getting to be a young man. I can so relate to that, hell I didn't even get to be a middle aged man. One of the things that was very difficult for me when deciding whether or not to proceed with my transition was whether or not it would make it more difficult for me to date or find a partner, and especially at my age. I have pretty much resolved to spend the rest of my life as a single person if it comes to that, but honestly, it's a sad thing when you think about it.... that one even has to consider whether or not they're willing to be unattached for the rest of their life in order to live in the body of and be the person they believe themself to be. Very thought provoking for sure.

I don't know, just seemed like an interesting topic for a single FTMs and Femmes thread.

Anyone else have thoughts about this?



Hi TD,

I can so totally relate to Chaz's wondering about who would love a man without a penis. I've not transitioned for personal reasons but that doesn't make me less of a man. I've known since I was 5 years old that I was in the wrong body. I know who I am, without a doubt, I know I am a man, trapped within. I've often wondered since my wife died how or if I'd ever find another woman who would totally accept me and not throw it back in my face whenever times got difficult. I was totally horrified when his girlfriend said yes she does throw it in his face when they are arguing at times, how totally callous and cold is that? She's not accepted him for who he is in my opinion, if she has she would have never done that. My wife did it to me once very early in our relationship, she saw how it totally devastated me to hear her say that, it just about killed her inside, how it killed me a little inside and she couldn't/wouldn't stop apologizing for it for a year or better. We got passed it and she never did it again. She died loving me for who I truly was, I often wonder if I'll ever have that again, find someone who can love with that total depth of understanding.

Being a man has nothing to do with what is on your chest, what is between your legs, being a man is what is inside, what is in your head, what is in your your heart, what is in your very soul. Those of us who are transgendered know this fully. It's hard to get someone else to understand that without thinking you've lost your mind. I can't tell you the number of times someone has had an aha moment with me and proclaimed "Omg You're such a man!", well, duh!! lol.

As far as being willing to spend the rest of your life alone with transitioning, I think the same can be said if you don't especially if you're unwilling to be with someone who doesn't acknowledge who you are within and treat you as such.

As you said very thought provoking material TD and I wish you the very best on your journey. I hope you don't have to live the rest of your life unpartnered, that would truly be sad but I have a feeling you won't, again my very best for you and your future.

[morningstar55]

I watched the Documentary about Chaz last night as well. I was very taken by the rawness of the material. Everything about it was well put together and well produced. I certainly agree with Chaz when he says that being a man is not about having a penis. I certainly will never know first hand the struggles and challenges a man, such as yourself (T D), goes through. I do know that as a stone femme, gender and my attraction to trans and stone butch doesn't begin with what is in their pants. Its about His personality, the man He IS, the mutual understanding and acceptance of two people, and the understanding of lives we live to feel whole.

.. I ditto .. Cuddles.. :)

[curlyredhead]

I haven't watched the documentary, but I can certainly see what he means. I will say honestly the last thing I ever thought about prior to transitioning and even when I started hormones, was dating someone and trying to find someone I could marry. Sure there are days I feel lonely, but for the time being I am happy where I am at. Regardless of that though I still am looking to meet someone, but I don't expect to get married tomorrow.

[Jesse]

Hey TD,

Nice post. I watched the Doc as well as the After Doc with Rosie. Considering some of the other stuff out there on Transmen, I have to say this was well done. I can relate to so much of what Chaz is going through, because I have already been there, done that and don't even want the shirt.

I believe that anytime a person chooses for their life that one thing they must have or be...willing to risk losing everything else, they very possibly could be put into a situation where they do indeed live their life without a partner -OR- they could open up their lives in such a way that there is only room for that right person to enter into. That is simply one of those things that we as humans have absolutely no control over regardless of whether we transition or not.

When I transitioned 13 years ago, I knew there was a strong possibility that I would forever remain single. What was more important to me at that time, was that I was choosing to save my own life. Yes, today I am single, but that's okay with me for now and I have zero regrets about transitioning. ;) - Jesse

Watched the documentary about Chaz earlier and I keep hearing those words "who will love me? Who's going to love a man without a penis?" I think this is something that a lot of transmen ask themselves. It's certainly a legitimate question too. I was especially relieved to hear Chaz say that being a man isn't about what's between your legs, which I also believe. It's about the person as a whole being, who they are, how they treat others, the whole shebang.

Yet another topic that Chaz brought up was about not getting to be a young man. I can so relate to that, hell I didn't even get to be a middle aged man. One of the things that was very difficult for me when deciding whether or not to proceed with my transition was whether or not it would make it more difficult for me to date or find a partner, and especially at my age. I have pretty much resolved to spend the rest of my life as a single person if it comes to that, but honestly, it's a sad thing when you think about it.... that one even has to consider whether or not they're willing to be unattached for the rest of their life in order to live in the body of and be the person they believe themself to be. Very thought provoking for sure.

I don't know, just seemed like an interesting topic for a single FTMs and Femmes thread.

Anyone else have thoughts about this?

[violaine]

good afternoon!

i am totally fine with being single. the pigs get me all to themselves ;)

seriously, right now, with a recent move back home to florida, i am busy/romancing the land-ocean-skyscapes at the moment! friendship comes first anyway. :byebye:

[morningstar55]

I watched the Documentary about Chaz last night as well. I was very taken by the rawness of the material. Everything about it was well put together and well produced. I certainly agree with Chaz when he says that being a man is not about having a penis. I certainly will never know first hand the struggles and challenges a man, such as yourself (T D), goes through. I do know that as a stone femme, gender and my attraction to trans and stone butch doesn't begin with what is in their pants. Its about His personality, the man He IS, the mutual understanding and acceptance of two people, and the understanding of lives we live to feel whole.

........... omg.. im sorry .. i think im having brain farts... im in 2 different single threads.... and well cuddlyfemme. use's same fonts.. and well .. sorry for the mixx up.. :( ...

[jules5041]

Hi.

My name is Julie.

I am single.

[Joe Mario]

Agreeing with the others about being OK about being single right now, but still looking. :)
I didn't give a lot of thought about dating after going on T. There were a fair amount of single Femmes out there a half dozen years ago, where dating wasn't an issue as much as, even say, what I was packing in my wallet to afford the social opportunities which seemed to abound. :danceparty:

Generally speaking, I think the Butch-Femme Community has 'setteled down', if you will, as many have found their life-partners and don't circulate as much as in years gone by.
The crying shame of it for me is that I truely feel I am at my most sexually and athletically virile, but at the same time, I'm feeling a kind of aloofness that I attribute to the T.

Although I hate to 'waste' anything, the 'I'd really like to be dating, but it's truely OK not to be for now' feeling others have expressed seems to hit the mark for me.

[Queerasfck]

The crying shame of it for me is that I truely feel I am at my most sexually and athletically virile.....

Although I hate to 'waste' anything....

Me too!!!!

[LotusFlower]

speaking of dating ...

Are there good sites out there?

:cherry:

[morningstar55]

mawning single thread dwellers nd peekers
:tea:

[violaine]

what is everyone up to for the weekend?

i am dog and bird sitting. the macaw can be heard for miles [naturally], and so i have to cover my ears around her and/or use ear plugs! the dogs are sweet- great dane and she sleeps with me; dobie; and rottie-mix.

hope you all enjoy yourselves and get into such much trouble! ;)


belle

[jules5041]

speaking of dating ...

Are there good sites out there?

:cherry:

I would also love to know if anyone knows any good dating sites out there. The only one I have found is Plenty Of Fish, but there do not seem to be many butches in my area. Frown. I hate that.

[jules5041]

Tonight I am hanging with my best girl, Heather.

Saturday I am going to lunch and to the movies with my mom.

Saturday night I am going to see women's football. A good friend of mine is playing.

Sunday I am spending the day at home getting ready for the upcoming week.

Should be a fun weekend!!!

[morningstar55]

mawning singles
hope you all have a awsome day :)
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[MickMan]

Hey everyone

I have been watching the thread a bit and decided to post.

I have been single going on three years now. I have not even gone on a date. I have loved the time I have spent on me (and mom, I care for her) but I have to admit, it gets a little lonely sometimes.

I think it is really hard being FTM and a caregiver, even fewer options out there. I am in Jacksonville FL and I have to say I think I am the only transmale around and all the girls are invisible LOL

[diamondrose]

Mick,

Welcome! I can only imagine how hard it is for you, but its a great thing you are doing for your mom! It shows alot of great things about you! Stay positive and one day that right femme will be there!

[T D]

Hey everyone

I have been watching the thread a bit and decided to post.

I have been single going on three years now. I have not even gone on a date. I have loved the time I have spent on me (and mom, I care for her) but I have to admit, it gets a little lonely sometimes.

I think it is really hard being FTM and a caregiver, even fewer options out there. I am in Jacksonville FL and I have to say I think I am the only transmale around and all the girls are invisible LOL

I totally feel what you're saying, Mick, I'm in a similar situation.

I hope you find the Planet to be of some assistance and fun for you in connecting with others.

Welcome!

[MaggieBluIze]

Good Morning and Happy Friday Singles!!

So ... Any big plans for the weekend?

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[MickMan]

Mick,

Welcome! I can only imagine how hard it is for you, but its a great thing you are doing for your mom! It shows alot of great things about you! Stay positive and one day that right femme will be there!

Thanks Diamond,

I do what I do for mom and I am rewarded everyday for it.

I am sure one day I will meet someone, I would just like it to be before I am on Social Security LOL

[MickMan]

I totally feel what you're saying, Mick, I'm in a similar situation.

I hope you find the Planet to be of some assistance and fun for you in connecting with others.

Welcome!



Hey TD

I am still learning my way around here, but so far everyone has been great.

I hope your situation gets better for you or should I say, I hope that you find solace while in your situation.

Thanks for the welcome!

Mick

[QueenofSmirks]

Good morning all! I'm having a very lazy Saturday!

I'm trying to stay motivated to finish a story I started writing last night - but I'm sort of "eh" about it.

The weather is absolutely gorgeous this morning 74 degrees, but gonna ramp up to 92 later! eeek!

[Heavenleahangel]

Good Afternoon, All; I havn't been around in a while and wandered around the site for a while deciding to start posting again. I hope everyone's spring/early summer is starting off well. Its good to see new (and some of the same) faces on the site!!!

[ruffryder]

Hi singles! Hope everybody is having a great weekend! :wine:

[morningstar55]

morning single thread dwellers and peekers
hope everyone is having a awsome weekend so far :)

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[curlyredhead]

Hey I hope everyone is having a wonderful morning, I have been up since 5:20am, and already did 2 Miles of running. Just finished my mid morning snack, as well as my cup of coffee. Hope everyone has a wonderful day!

[Lost_punk_boi]

Hi ya'll! Lonely ftm here. I am really sick and dunno what to do. My friends went to the lake, but I had to stay because I'm in serious pain. I'm out of pain meds and am just left with antibiotics and a nausa medicine. I am hurting so much I felt like I should stay home and rest. I've slept most of the day and have been home alone the entire time except when my neighbor came over for a visit.

[morningstar55]

mawning single thread dwellers and peekers

figured this thread has been way to quiet .... soo giving it a bump.
Lost punk....... hope your feeling better these days.

im soo happy to be bk down here in ol Texas........ looks like a Taco Cabana morning to me.... yayyyy

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[Starrynightaw]

Good afternoon everyone!

Had a pretty eventful day. Running and starting my diet. I really need a girls day.

Peace!

[ScandalAndy]

I'm very, VERY happy this thread exists!!! I've spent too much time lately lamenting over transmen who love other transmen. I'm glad there are still some guys who like femmes! :)

[atomiczombie]

:nothingtoadd:

[kannon]

Evening guys and gals.:moonstars:

[TexZen]

Just thought I'd drop by and say hey, so, "hey!" :hangloose:

[ScandalAndy]

hooray!!! action on this thread! :)

Anybody got fun plans for this weekend?

[MaggieBluIze]

Good Morning and Happy Saturday!!!!

Let's see ... Went to happy hour with some co-workers last night, going dancing with some friends tonight, helping a friend with making their backyard beautiful tomorrow and not too sure about the 4th, but hope something comes along.

I sure do love a 3 day weekend!!!!!

[kannon]

Working and homework.

No rest for the wicked. Not even on July 4th.

[MaggieBluIze]

Working and homework.

No rest for the wicked. Not even on July 4th.

It really is too bad you're not in Austin area yet sweetie ... Or maybe it's a good thing, cause I would get you out and help you have some fun this weekend!!

I do admire the focus you have going on right now ... It WILL one day have a great payoff!! :)

[*Anya*]

I don't know what your pain is related to but severe pain means a couple of possible things. Either you have gone too long without pain meds & it has gotten out of control or possible infection. Do you have a doctor you can call or anyone to take you to urgent care? Either possibility is concerning. I am sorry you do not have anyone to take care of you. It is very hard to be sick & alone, I have been there. Sending good thoughts your way.

Anya, RN (for real)

[ScandalAndy]

Good Morning and Happy Saturday!!!!

Let's see ... Went to happy hour with some co-workers last night, going dancing with some friends tonight, helping a friend with making their backyard beautiful tomorrow and not too sure about the 4th, but hope something comes along.

I sure do love a 3 day weekend!!!!!

Yesss!!! I wish I was around y'all, I'd be down with dancing! I"m going to a friend's nautical themed birthday party tonight, followed by a burlesque show put on by a friend's troupe. :)



Working and homework.

No rest for the wicked. Not even on July 4th.


Then you must be EXTRA wicked!! ;) Good luck with the homework, here's hoping it goes quickly!

[MaggieBluIze]

Yesss!!! I wish I was around y'all, I'd be down with dancing! I"m going to a friend's nautical themed birthday party tonight, followed by a burlesque show put on by a friend's troupe.

Now that sounds like a Wonderfully fun weekend!!!!
Have a blast!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'll be there with you in spirit!!! ;)

[ScandalAndy]

Now that sounds like a Wonderfully fun weekend!!!!
Have a blast!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'll be there with you in spirit!!! ;)

Any time you're in Philly, look me up so we can go together! By then I might be part of the act. :) I've been considering it for a minute!

[MaggieBluIze]

Any time you're in Philly, look me up so we can go together! By then I might be part of the act. :) I've been considering it for a minute!

And sweetie ANY time you are in the Austin area you let me know!!!!
((((((((((Andy))))))))))

[kannon]

It really is too bad you're not in Austin area yet sweetie ... Or maybe it's a good thing, cause I would get you out and help you have some fun this weekend!!

I do admire the focus you have going on right now ... It WILL one day have a great payoff!! :)


Hanging out with you in Austin...I'd definitely make the time. Too much fun to pass up.

[kannon]

Yesss!!! I wish I was around y'all, I'd be down with dancing! I"m going to a friend's nautical themed birthday party tonight, followed by a burlesque show put on by a friend's troupe. :)






Then you must be EXTRA wicked!! ;) Good luck with the homework, here's hoping it goes quickly!

That does sound like a fun night out.

I'm DOUBLE dipped in wickedness it seems.

[ScandalAndy]

I'm DOUBLE dipped in wickedness it seems.

This sounds exceptionally naughty! I love it!

This weekend was insane, and I loved every minute of it. Aside from a few hecklers during the parade, and my friend getting a migraine last night so I had to drive home and miss all the fireworks :(.

I'm saving the little fountains I have for my birthday. I figure it will be great fun to set them off in the middle of winter.

So when is this Austin/Philly exchange student thing happening? ;)

[kannon]

This sounds exceptionally naughty! I love it!

This weekend was insane, and I loved every minute of it. Aside from a few hecklers during the parade, and my friend getting a migraine last night so I had to drive home and miss all the fireworks :(.

I'm saving the little fountains I have for my birthday. I figure it will be great fun to set them off in the middle of winter.

So when is this Austin/Philly exchange student thing happening? ;)

I actually did get to go to a baseball game, eat hot dogs and watch fireworks last night.

The part 1 - philly/austin exchange student thing needs to happen in August during school break. :)

I think I should make the trek to philly in August then you come down in October for the music festival.

[kannon]

September
http://lineup.aclfestival.com/?sort=day

[ScandalAndy]

September
http://lineup.aclfestival.com/?sort=day

oh. em. gee. I just had a moment. But srsly, that looks amazing!!! I really REALLY want to go, but I'm headed to Seattle in October and probably can't swing both. Dallas is on my list for 2012. The life of a nerdy musician is never dull!

Do you go to ACL every year? What's the crowd like?

[Leigh]

Just wanted to come in and say hi to everyone, hope your all having a great day :-)

[ScandalAndy]

Just wanted to come in and say hi to everyone, hope your all having a great day :-)

We are now that you're here!! :)

[Leigh]

Aww thank you Andy, that put a smile on My face :-)

[EmpressM]

Hello! Just wanted to peek in and introduce myself! I hope everyone had a terrific weekend! :)

[adeeeO]

This site was missing a thread like this. I think we also need a gathering place to meet, flirt and get to know each other.

Yeah, I think so too. :thumbsup:

[QueenofSmirks]

Happy Saturday! :)

[atomiczombie]

Howdy ladies and gents! :)

[ScandalAndy]

Howdy ladies and gents! :)

G'mornin!! What's shakin?

[Joe Mario]

Hi Stephanie; how's it going?
You are out west now, right?
Happy Saturday! :)

[QueenofSmirks]

Hi Stephanie; how's it going?
You are out west now, right?

Hiya! Yep... Phoenix to be exact :) Things are going great! How are you doing?

[Leigh]

Just figured I'd come in and say hi to everyone, see what's happening with everyone on this fine Sunday afternoon :-)

[Teddybear]

Gm or afternoon to everyone

Im newly divorce FtM

Hope everyone has a great day

[ScandalAndy]

Gm or afternoon to everyone

Im newly divorce FtM

Hope everyone has a great day

Afternoon, welcome to the thread! How you enjoying the super rainy weather?

[Teddybear]

Afternoon, welcome to the thread! How you enjoying the super rainy weather?

Not raining here but it is over cast and it rained to beat the band last nite

[ScandalAndy]

Not raining here but it is over cast and it rained to beat the band last nite

It rained all night here too, and we just had another little burst ten minutes ago! The lawn looks like a jungle, sheesh!

[Teddybear]

It rained all night here too, and we just had another little burst ten minutes ago! The lawn looks like a jungle, sheesh!



when it rains hard here my yard looks like a river runs thur it

what part of pa r u in? I live close to the capital

[ScandalAndy]

when it rains hard here my yard looks like a river runs thur it

what part of pa r u in? I live close to the capital


I'm tearin it up in Philly. H-burg is nice, but the sidewalks roll up by 9PM. :)

[Teddybear]

I'm tearin it up in Philly. H-burg is nice, but the sidewalks roll up by 9PM. :)


I dont know about that since I go to work at 1 am or so so at 9 pm 5 nites a week im sleeping

Hope that you dont get flooded out

Have great evening

[ScandalAndy]

I dont know about that since I go to work at 1 am or so so at 9 pm 5 nites a week im sleeping

Hope that you dont get flooded out

Have great evening

Holy cow, that's quite a schedule!!! I hope you're not working yourself too hard! Those night hours wreak havoc on circadian cycles. :)

[Leigh]

Thought I would bump this thread up a little bit, say hi to everyone and wish you all a fantastic Thursday :-)

[MysticOceansFL]

Good Morning to all the Singles:blink:

[ScandalAndy]

Is anyone else caught in the rain?

[Leigh]

Nope no rain here Andy, but I can easily say that I love getting caught in the rain ~ its fun :D

[ScandalAndy]

It's been storming all day! The past two hours have been full of gorgeous sunshine and puffy clouds, though. Maybe nature is saying she's sorry for raining on me earlier?

[Leigh]

Thats very possible :-)

[J. Mason]

Good morning everyone I hope everyone has an awesome day today.

[ScandalAndy]

Good morning everyone I hope everyone has an awesome day today.

G'mornin!!! So far so good, how about you? :)

[Leigh]

Gooooooooooood morning everyone, I love Fridays :D

[J. Mason]

G'mornin!!! So far so good, how about you? :)

My day has been great ty

[ArkansasPiscesGrrl]

Poking my head in this afternoon to say hi to everyone! Hope everybody is having a fabulous Friday. Mine has been pretty good, and I have a great evening planned too. Going to watch some live music with an awesome chick band (who happens to be family), eat Mexican food, and hang with some friends. All good! And then HELLOOOO weekend!

[Leigh]

Poking my head in this afternoon to say hi to everyone! Hope everybody is having a fabulous Friday. Mine has been pretty good, and I have a great evening planned too. Going to watch some live music with an awesome chick band (who happens to be family), eat Mexican food, and hang with some friends. All good! And then HELLOOOO weekend!


Looks like two of us have fun things planned this evening ~ hope you have a blast :D

[J. Mason]

Good Friday evening everyone!!!

[ScandalAndy]

It's Monday already? No, I think the universe must be mistaken. Clearly the weekend was cut short by a few days.

Hope you're all geared up for a good week. :)

[Leigh]

It's Monday already? No, I think the universe must be mistaken. Clearly the weekend was cut short by a few days.

Hope you're all geared up for a good week. :)


I know, it seems like a trick was played on us ~ I know for Me it was a very cruel one, but hopefully today wont be too brutal of a Monday :-)

[J. Mason]

Good morning afternoon evening to everyone depending on which side of the world you live on.

[QueenofSmirks]

I took today off so I'm actually having a really nice Monday for a change! :)

[curlyredhead]

Must be nice to have a day off :) My first day off is actually the Reunion week. I am really looking forward to this. I took today off so I'm actually having a really nice Monday for a change! :)

[VintageFemme]

very nice to see this thread ... subscribing*

[QueenofSmirks]

Must be nice to have a day off :) My first day off is actually the Reunion week. I am really looking forward to this.

Sounds like a blast! Wish I were going!!

[Gentle Tiger]

Hello Everyone. Hope your day is going well. Hope it gets better if the day is presenting itself with curve balls.

[curlyredhead]

Hello Everyone. Hope your day is going well. Hope it gets better if the day is presenting itself with curve balls.

Good morning everyone! I actually didn't mean to quote you I should have hit post reply oh well... Apparently I am not 100% awake yet. I should be though been up since 4:50am this morning, went swimming with my team. Did about oh at least 1200 meters in the pool. Enjoying my cup of coffee and some eggs with bacon and of course a bagel.

[Leigh]

I just wanted to say hi to everyone this morning :-)

[VintageFemme]

I just wanted to say hi to everyone this morning :-)

And I just wanted to say hi to everyone this evening :-)

[curlyredhead]

And I just wanted to say hi to everyone this evening :-)

Hey Vintage where in TX are you?

[ScandalAndy]

And i'm going to say hi to all of you, morning, noon, or night! :)

[Leigh]

And I just wanted to say hi to everyone this evening :-)

Since its morning now, good morning to you hun :rrose:

And i'm going to say hi to all of you, morning, noon, or night! :)

LOL Andy, gotta include all parts of the world eh :D

[Starrynightaw]

Hello everyone,

How are you guys doing today?

[Gentle Tiger]

Doing well. How are you all doing?

[kannon]

I can't sleep. I usually sleep like a baby.

Don't know about any other guys but it really makes me feel weird when an X's dates then marries a cisman. It's happened to me 3 times that I'm aware of. One just had a baby.

[ScandalAndy]

I can't sleep. I usually sleep like a baby.

Don't know about any other guys but it really makes me feel weird when an X's dates then marries a cisman. It's happened to me 3 times that I'm aware of. One just had a baby.



I get weird when that happens to me, too. :P

I haven't slept in days, so here's hoping the sleep fairy comes to visit tonight!

[kannon]

I get weird when that happens to me, too. :P

I haven't slept in days, so here's hoping the sleep fairy comes to visit tonight!

So what do you do when you cant sleep? Get crazy with the cheeze whiz? :)

[ScandalAndy]

So what do you do when you cant sleep? Get crazy with the cheeze whiz? :)


ROFL!!! I read Jane Austen. Works like a charm!!

In all seriousness, I have Rozerem, which I take on occasion but am finding it doesn't do very much for me. I often read, since that seems to help. If you're really desperate, try Foucault, Judith Butler, or the Marquis de Sade. The writing is really dense and re-reading and attempting to grasp the overall message of such verbose sentences is usually good for inspiring the brain to go on vacation for a bit. :)

Sometimes I make the doggies be my snuggle friends. I don't think they don't like it much, but it works, and they can usually sit still for fifteen minutes.

[Leigh]

I had a beyotch of a time sleeping this morning, partly because there was a thunderstorm (and I *HATE* storms) and I tried listening to music but that just kept Me awake even mre however I needed it to distract Me from the thunder. I will hopefully go to bed earlier tonight so I don't have to lose any sleep, so lets hope the sandman has enough for three of us LOL

[kannon]

ROFL!!! I read Jane Austen. Works like a charm!!

In all seriousness, I have Rozerem, which I take on occasion but am finding it doesn't do very much for me. I often read, since that seems to help. If you're really desperate, try Foucault, Judith Butler, or the Marquis de Sade. The writing is really dense and re-reading and attempting to grasp the overall message of such verbose sentences is usually good for inspiring the brain to go on vacation for a bit. :)

Sometimes I make the doggies be my snuggle friends. I don't think they don't like it much, but it works, and they can usually sit still for fifteen minutes.

I also snuggle with my doggies. After about 15 minutes of me flip flopping, Maggies like, "dude what's your problem? I'm outta here."

Yes, reading. I have about 10 chapters that need to be read. I'm sure my textbooks will have the same effect. Nothing too stimulating about the WAIS intelligence assessment.

[sanee66]

I am finally getting around to looking at some more of the threads and i love this one. Looking for the great friend I can flirt and be goofy with, nothing serious yet, just fun, which does not include cyber lol. Send me a message if anyone wants to talk and get to know each other.

[Leigh]

I am finally getting around to looking at some more of the threads and i love this one. Looking for the great friend I can flirt and be goofy with, nothing serious yet, just fun, which does not include cyber lol. Send me a message if anyone wants to talk and get to know each other.


This is definately the place to flirt, have fun, get to know people and just enjoy your time on the Planet :D

[sarahwho]

Stopped in to say, sign the corkboard, errrrrrrrr, or the clipboard, or whatever!


HI!

[J. Mason]

Stopped in to say, sign the corkboard, errrrrrrrr, or the clipboard, or whatever!


HI!

HIYA Sarah welcome to the thread!!!:jester:

[ScandalAndy]

Welcome sanee66 and sarawho! :)


My oh my, it looks like there are a bunch of us femmes here! What lucky guys! :)

[kannon]

I am finally getting around to looking at some more of the threads and i love this one. Looking for the great friend I can flirt and be goofy with, nothing serious yet, just fun, which does not include cyber lol. Send me a message if anyone wants to talk and get to know each other.

Stopped in to say, sign the corkboard, errrrrrrrr, or the clipboard, or whatever!


HI!

Welcome sanee66 and sarawho! :)


My oh my, it looks like there are a bunch of us femmes here! What lucky guys! :)

Yeah, we are lucky guys. Welcome sanee and sara!!! As Matthew said this is a great place to flirt.

[ScandalAndy]

Yeah, we are lucky guys. Welcome sanee and sara!!! As Matthew said this is a great place to flirt.

I wouldn't know anything about that1! ;)

[Leigh]

Stopped in to say, sign the corkboard, errrrrrrrr, or the clipboard, or whatever!

HI!

Hi sarah, good to see you with us again ~ come back soon and have fun with us :rrose:

Welcome sanee66 and sarawho! :)

My oh my, it looks like there are a bunch of us femmes here! What lucky guys! :)

We sure are lucky guys, so many beautiful women here ~ its truly an honor to have all of you gals here with us :bunchflowers:

Yeah, we are lucky guys. Welcome sanee and sara!!! As Matthew said this is a great place to flirt.

This sure is a great place to flirt, and with so many gorgeous women here its so easy to do that ;)

I wouldn't know anything about that1! ;)

**coughBULLSHITcough**

[VintageFemme]

Hey Vintage where in TX are you?

Hi! I'm in the DFW area. I remember you from the 'other' site on the Texas thread. So nice to see you here too!

Since its morning now, good morning to you hun :rrose:


And now.... good afternoon! *smile*

[Leigh]

And now.... good afternoon! *smile*


Yes its a very good afternoon :rrose:

[ScandalAndy]

It's Saturday!!! What are you all doing?

I saw Sugarland and Little Big Town last night. Sugarland's live show is A-FREAKING-MAZING. jus' sayin'

[Leigh]

It's Saturday!!! What are you all doing?

I saw Sugarland and Little Big Town last night. Sugarland's live show is A-FREAKING-MAZING. jus' sayin'


Lucky girl, I'd have loved to have seen that show! I adore Sugarland and have for ages, plus LBT would have been fantastic too ........ glad you enjoyed yourself :-)

[curlyredhead]

Hi! I'm in the DFW area. I remember you from the 'other' site on the Texas thread. So nice to see you here too!



And now.... good afternoon! *smile*

Nice to have another fellow DFWite here! I am in Far NW Dallas and yourself?

[ScandalAndy]

Holiday weekend: Complete.

Talk about adventure-filled! Got the car towed, cleaned out the bank accounts to get it back, played in a nail-biter volleyball game Thursday night, Friday was the fair and the concert, Saturday I competed in the tassel twirling event at the burlesque show, and Sunday & yesterday were "drive around and hang out with people" days.

Your turn!! What amazing, fun, relaxing, frustrating, etc. activities were you all up to?

[asphaltcowboi]

Holiday weekend: Complete.

Talk about adventure-filled! Got the car towed, cleaned out the bank accounts to get it back, played in a nail-biter volleyball game Thursday night, Friday was the fair and the concert, Saturday I competed in the tassel twirling event at the burlesque show, and Sunday & yesterday were "drive around and hang out with people" days.

Your turn!! What amazing, fun, relaxing, frustrating, etc. activities were you all up to?

tassel twirling at the burlesque show?? that wouldnt be when they stick um on the end of your ta ta's? sorry about your car getting towed.. did you park in a red zone?

[ScandalAndy]

tassel twirling at the burlesque show?? that wouldnt be when they stick um on the end of your ta ta's? sorry about your car getting towed.. did you park in a red zone?


You are correct. Believe it or not, double sided carpet tape was the adhesive of choice for the evening. :)

As for the car getting towed, there's a really good reason Philly had a TV show based off of the parking authority. It is INSANE how convoluted the parking rules are. it was two hour parking form 7am to 7pm but the other sign that I didn't see said no parking 7pm to 7am, which is different from EVERYWHERE ELSE IN THE CITY where after 7pm (or whatever the evening cutoff time is) you can park for free.

[Liam]

Good evening! I hope everyone had a great day, and that you fall asleep with smiles on your faces. ;-)

[ScandalAndy]

Good evening! I hope everyone had a great day, and that you fall asleep with smiles on your faces. ;-)

Awwww, thanks, Liam! You too! :)

[sanee66]

Hey there, just thought id drop a note and say hi and see what you all have been up to. Could use a little positive energy so send it on guys and gals, bring it lol!

[Liam]

Hey there, just thought id drop a note and say hi and see what you all have been up to. Could use a little positive energy so send it on guys and gals, bring it lol!

I hope you don't mind sanee, but I sent a lot of positive energy your way!

[Liam]

Good morning, I hope everyone has a fabulous day! :)

[ScandalAndy]

Good morning, I hope everyone has a fabulous day! :)

g'mornin!!! So far, so good as far as the day is concerned. How are you?

[Liam]

g'mornin!!! So far, so good as far as the day is concerned. How are you?


I did not sleep well—less than three hours, but that has been my pattern for a few weeks. Other than that, I'm smiling, and almost ready to head out the door to my volunteer job. The sky is blue, the sun is shining, and more leaves have turned overnight—its a beautiful day in my neighborhood. ;-)

[SweetJane]

Liam,
What a great way to start a day! It's always a beautiful day here in the East Mountains of New Mexico....I, too, need to start cruising.

Have a great day, everyone!

[Liam]

How was everyone's day?

I'm so tired that I don't want to kill anyone in Mafia Wars, nor do I want to harvest my wheat in Cityville, this evening. I'm ready for a soak and reading.

[sanee66]

I hope you don't mind sanee, but I sent a lot of positive energy your way!

hi there, it must have worked cause i feel a lot better today, was just in the mood to kick a.. yesterday and feeling sorry for myself a little. Hope everything is going good with everyone here:glasses:

[Liam]

Good morning singles!

I'm moving slow this morning, but it promises to be a good day. The theory is that it will get up to 70 today which would be great, for my big cleaning project—the carpet dries much more quickly when I can open windows. I have only two rooms left, and the smoke damage will be just an unpleasant memory soon.

I'm glad you feel better sanee, and I hope everyone has a fantastic friday!

[sanee66]

Well, i must say i am much better, i am always having to be strong and the other day too much crap going around my head. Liam,, hope your carpets dried well, what is the story behind the smoke damage? Got a company picnic to go to tomorrow, maybe i will win one of the prizes (crossing fingers for the week vacation lol, but the big screen tv wouldnt be bad either.) And then I think i will work on getting things organized under my carport, then next weekend, start scraping ceilings and paint the living room. I absolutely hate textured ceilings lol. Where is a guy when you need one lol! Have a great night all, i will be on awhile if anyone wants to pm and get to know each other better, just looking for friends lol before you all get scared, or maybe that is what would scare you lol.

[Liam]

Sanee, my Mom tried to burn the house down, last week. She is no longer allowed to play with fire. The carpet is dry and she is tucked in for the night! I hope you have fun at your company picnic, and that you win a great prize.

Goodnight singles!

[sanee66]

I came home one day last week and found a piece of melted plastic on the counter and in the drain was a ladle with a big hole in it! What i didnt understand is why she washed it lol!!

[Leigh]

Just came in to say hello to everyone :-)

[J. Mason]

Hey ya'll, hope everyone is well.

Have a good week.

[AlphaDrug]

Morning morning boys n girls! ^_^ Stopping by to say hi before work! I didn't even know this thread was here! Happy days. <3 How was everyone's weekend?

[Leigh]

Good afternoon all, just popping in to say hello :-)

[Library_girl]

Hi everyone! Just thought I'd drop in and say bonjour, hola, hello. I haven't been here in a while. I hope everyone is having a good week so far! Things are pretty good in my little world. Busy at work, quiet at home, so I can't really complain. Have a lovely Tuesday!!

:glasses:

[ScandalAndy]

Why are we all still single? I've talked to a fair amount of y'all and I can tell you for a fact that you're all wonderful, sweet, caring, attentive individuals. I cannot for the life of me understand why we're all in this singlehood boat, but I'm glad to have y'all with me. :)

[J. Mason]

Why are we all still single? I've talked to a fair amount of y'all and I can tell you for a fact that you're all wonderful, sweet, caring, attentive individuals. I cannot for the life of me understand why we're all in this singlehood boat, but I'm glad to have y'all with me. :)

Ask my ex's they will tell you, no lie!

[Leigh]

Atleast we all have each other for company :-)

[AlphaDrug]

Why are we all still single? I've talked to a fair amount of y'all and I can tell you for a fact that you're all wonderful, sweet, caring, attentive individuals. I cannot for the life of me understand why we're all in this singlehood boat, but I'm glad to have y'all with me. :)

:moonstars: Currently I am choosing to be single. I always jumped from serious relationship to serious relationship, I never got the chance to date around. ^_^ And I'm finally getting to have my fun and enjoy myself. I'm not completely shut off to the idea of finding a serious relationship, it's just not top priority like it used to be, and I'm being very honest with myself and the other person. Am I really attracted to this person, or am I doing this because they looked my way kind of thing. I have a lil bit of Ugly Duckling syndrome. ^_^

[ScandalAndy]

:moonstars: Currently I am choosing to be single. I always jumped from serious relationship to serious relationship, I never got the chance to date around. ^_^ And I'm finally getting to have my fun and enjoy myself. I'm not completely shut off to the idea of finding a serious relationship, it's just not top priority like it used to be, and I'm being very honest with myself and the other person. Am I really attracted to this person, or am I doing this because they looked my way kind of thing. I have a lil bit of Ugly Duckling syndrome. ^_^

Good call!! I'm doing the same over here. After I posted that thought, a friend of mine put up a long blog post about how rude it is to say that since it is implying that there's something wrong with a person who is single.

Well, let me just say that is not at all what i meant. i was trying to say that everyone I talk to here is wonderful and when they are ready for a relationship, whomever they choose as their partner will be lucky indeed. :)

Sorry if that came across wrong the first time.

[J. Mason]

I hope everyone had a good hump day!

[Delish]

Good evening everyone!

I hope everyone has had a great day! :)

[J. Mason]

Good morning everyone, have a good Thursday!

There is a plate full of muffins and pastries on the table for ya'll!

[ScandalAndy]

Good morning everyone, have a good Thursday!

There is a plate full of muffins and pastries on the table for ya'll!

G'mornin!!! :) Thanks for the breakfast!

[J. Mason]

G'mornin!!! :) Thanks for the breakfast!

Good morning and your very welcome!

[Leigh]

Hi Singles, hope you all have an amazing Friday :-)

[Beachcomber]

I thought I would pop in and say hello. Happy Thanks Giving to all the Canadians (and to all the ones upstairs making noise :).

How did everyone spend their weekend or holiday? I was shopping around for a new place to live and have a little sticker shock. I just relocated and discouraged at the moment. I am past my studio apartment days.

[ScandalAndy]

I thought I would pop in and say hello. Happy Thanks Giving to all the Canadians (and to all the ones upstairs making noise :).

How did everyone spend their weekend or holiday? I was shopping around for a new place to live and have a little sticker shock. I just relocated and discouraged at the moment. I am past my studio apartment days.

Awwwww, I miss thanksgiving in Canada. I have a bit of an obsession with those crackers, so thanksgiving and christmas were my two fave days. Not so much a fan of having to wear the crown! lol

Don't be discouraged! That's just the universe's way of telling you that the place that fits you best isn't ready for you yet. :)

I spent all of last night packing for Seattle, and am feeling super accomplished today. How was the rest of your night?

[Indyfem]

Hey, I'm new to the site and like this thread. Thanks!

[ScandalAndy]

Hey, I'm new to the site and like this thread. Thanks!

Welcome! Glad you could join us! :)

[kannon]

Howdy all you single compadres.

[ScandalAndy]

Howdy all you single compadres.

Good MORNING, sunshine!!! Although the thought of calling you sunshine is absolutely cracking me up!

[Liam]

Good morning, singles! Looking at fourteen inches of snow, and feeling like a bear. Hope you have less snow in your world!

[kannon]

Good MORNING, sunshine!!! Although the thought of calling you sunshine is absolutely cracking me up!

I'm just a ray of happy f*cking sunshine. lol. You should really call me lieutenant dan. :)

[ScandalAndy]

Good morning, singles! Looking at fourteen inches of snow, and feeling like a bear. Hope you have less snow in your world!

Holy crap, you guys have already started up there? And here I thought I had it bad with the coldness, at least we don't have the precipitation yet.



I'm just a ray of happy f*cking sunshine. lol. You should really call me lieutenant dan. :)

I can assure you, there are a variety of things I have in mind, and "lieutenant dan" is not on the list!

[kannon]

Holy crap, you guys have already started up there? And here I thought I had it bad with the coldness, at least we don't have the precipitation yet.





I can assure you, there are a variety of things I have in mind, and "lieutenant dan" is not on the list!

hmmmm....."the list." Interesting that you have "a list" of possible names to call me.

[sarahwho]

Good morning, singles! Looking at fourteen inches of snow, and feeling like a bear. Hope you have less snow in your world!

GAG me! I so am NOT looking forward to the four letter word beginning with "s". Ick! We never get enough to snow us in so that we don't have to go to work....just enuf to annoy me while I drive to work! NOT that I have anything to do if I got snowed in, but I'd think of "something", trust me! :whine:

[J. Mason]

Good morning singles!

I put a plate of baked goods and such on the table and the fridge has drinks in it too!

[Beachcomber]

Awwwww, I miss thanksgiving in Canada. I have a bit of an obsession with those crackers, so thanksgiving and christmas were my two fave days. Not so much a fan of having to wear the crown! lol

Don't be discouraged! That's just the universe's way of telling you that the place that fits you best isn't ready for you yet. :)

I spent all of last night packing for Seattle, and am feeling super accomplished today. How was the rest of your night?

I am late to the conversation. Thanks for the support SA.
I know Seattle well. Hope you enjoy your trip!

[sarahwho]

http://l3.yimg.com/bt/api/res/1.2/h.GxYekxwsynDtgmajFC.A--/YXBwaWQ9eW5ld3M7Zmk9ZmlsbDtoPTExMztweG9mZj01MDtweW 9mZj0wO3E9ODU7dz0xNTA-/http://l.yimg.com/a/i/ww/news/2011/10/29/snowstorm2.jpg

Ha, ha, it missed us! I'm still cold though....what the heck! Should be quiet - it'll come back and get me!

[J. Mason]

Evening everyone!

Hope all is well and I have candy if anyone wants any!

[ScandalAndy]

Evening everyone!

Hope all is well and I have candy if anyone wants any!

I WANT SOME!!!!!!! Pretty please? :)

[Leigh]

Just wanted to come in and say hello to everyone :)

[msW8ing]

Just poppping in to say hello and wish everyone a happy humpy day

[J. Mason]

Happy Humpday everyone!

Have a good day!

[GPS]

just wanted to say hello!

[ScandalAndy]

Good morning!!!!! Hump day breakfast club, anyone?

[sarahwho]

Good morning!!!!! Hump day breakfast club, anyone?

What's on the menu?

[Leigh]

Good evening Singles, wishing everyone a wonderful rest of the evening :)

[J. Mason]

Puts candy out on the table!

Evening everyone, hope all is well!

[VintageFemme]

~waving~ hi everyone!

[J. Mason]

Hey everyone!

I hope yall have a good weekend!

[ScandalAndy]

Hey everyone!

I hope yall have a good weekend!


Do good weekends involve knitting?

[J. Mason]

Do good weekends involve knitting?

Only if you want them to!

Mine involve football and drinking!

[ScandalAndy]

Only if you want them to!

Mine involve football and drinking!


i think i prefer your weekend!!

[J. Mason]

i think i prefer your weekend!!

Well come on down, we have tons of room here at my place for more great people! We do however scream at the TV and cuss is that Ok?

[sarahwho]

Well come on down, we have tons of room here at my place for more great people! We do however scream at the TV and cuss is that Ok?

SWEET! I'll pack my bag now! I need to cuss at something....might as well be TV!

[J. Mason]

SWEET! I'll pack my bag now! I need to cuss at something....might as well be TV!


Ok let me know when you are headed my way! We can cuss at the TV together!

[sarahwho]

Ok let me know when you are headed my way! We can cuss at the TV together!

I wish I could come there now for sure! I've always wanted to see TX/OK in a better fashion than speed thru at break neck speeds when I was younger going to CA for a visit. It seemed much nicer than where I ended up...lol.

[J. Mason]

I wish I could come there now for sure! I've always wanted to see TX/OK in a better fashion than speed thru at break neck speeds when I was younger going to CA for a visit. It seemed much nicer than where I ended up...lol.

It just depends on what areas of Oklahoma and Texas you wanna see, not all of either state is pretty!

[Miss July]

*Strolls in, takes a look*

Happy Hump Day!

[J. Mason]

Hey yall! Hope everyone is well and had a great hump day!

[morningstar55]

*Strolls in, takes a look*

Happy Hump Day!

heyyyyyyyyyyyy there miss July...... ltns. lol

i havnt been posting much. been busy wth work and all...

wondering ....... what kind of girls these guys are interested in .. in there here thread.. :)

[Leigh]

Gooooooood evening single guys and beautiful ladies, I hope you all have a fantastic evening :)

[Jarrek]

Hello all you singles! I hardly ever post in threads, however, I saw this one and

felt "at home". Dating is much more challenging, in my experience, as a

transman, so I was wondering if I could have other people's input if they felt

comfortable sharing? Can other guys relate to this?

A question for those who admire us: What types of characteristics in an FTM/Transman attracts you to us? Turns you off?

*I appreciate and respect the honesty and incite anyone would like to share!

[Leigh]

I agree it can be more difficult for us guys to date, but there are women out there who love us so thats always a good thing!

[J. Mason]

Jarrek, good to see you here and good questions for the ladies, I am anxious to hear what they have to say.

[ScandalAndy]

I can only speak for my personal preferences as an admirer, but I am attracted to masculinity and, as such, most of the guys I date exemplify that. I also very much enjoy relationships with transmen who are open about their transition and like to spend hours deconstructing gender and talking about their experiences with gender and privilege. It keeps me mindful of my own privilege and helps me be more compassionate.

I have noticed a bit of a propensity toward short-tempered-ness (that's not even a word) but I really can't say for sure if it is related to the individuals being trans, or just part of their innate personality. Either way, it is frightening to me, and is a big turn-off.


Hello all you singles! I hardly ever post in threads, however, I saw this one and

felt "at home". Dating is much more challenging, in my experience, as a

transman, so I was wondering if I could have other people's input if they felt

comfortable sharing? Can other guys relate to this?

A question for those who admire us: What types of characteristics in an FTM/Transman attracts you to us? Turns you off?

*I appreciate and respect the honesty and incite anyone would like to share!

[sarahwho]

I couldn't have said it better myself! Awesome!

[Dakota]

Just thought I would stop by and say hello......
Dakota

[Miss July]

I have noticed a bit of a propensity toward short-tempered-ness (that's not even a word) but I really can't say for sure if it is related to the individuals being trans, or just part of their innate personality. Either way, it is frightening to me, and is a big turn-off.

I also crave the masculinity from transmen and I could not agree more with this statement.
Thank you for putting it into words.

[Jarrek]

Aggression is definitely a high-ranked concern amongst the side effects of

HRT.

My intent is to help with these concerns and promote further

education/resources about these topics. My hope is to establish a safe,

positive, open-minded space where we can all communicate effectively. :-)

I posted a passage, below, taken from Hudson's FTM Resource Guide. (I

highly recommend this site to anyone who is interested in the facts about the

transition process. Literally, it covers everything from boobs to nuts. LOL

www.ftmguide.org )



MYTHS ABOUT TESTOSTERONE

Myth #1: Taking testosterone ("T") for transition will make trans men uncontrollably angry and volatile, or cause "'roid rage."

This is one of the most common myths about FTM transsexuals who take testosterone, but there is no compelling evidence to support such a sweeping generalization. Indeed, while some trans men anecdotally report feeling shorter tempered or irritable for a period after starting T, many others report that they feel calmer and more even-tempered since taking T. Yet time and again, trans men and their loved ones voice fear that taking testosterone will somehow automatically change an FTM transsexual into a terrible, angry, or violent person.

This myth probably gets some of its fuel from stories about "steroid" use causing anger or volatility (often called "'roid rage") in bodybuilders and other athletes who take performance enhancing drugs. In order to understand the differences between athletic "steroid" use and testosterone therapy as taken by trans men, it pays to explore exactly what "steroids" mean in each context.


Steroids and "'Roid Rage"

The term "steroid" technically refers to a lipid molecule characterized by a carbon structure with four fused rings (three cyclohexanes and one cyclopentane). Hundreds of distinct steroids have been identified in plants, animals, and fungi. In humans and animals, hormones such as testosterone, estrogen, and progesterone-- as well as the cholesterol molecule-- all technically belong to the "steroid" family.

When used in the context of drugs taken to enhance athletic performance, the term "steroids" is a blanket term that refers to anabolic (muscle/tissue-building) substances such as testosterone and other synthetic steroid hormones (nandrolone, oxandrolone, etc.), as well as non-steroid compounds such as estrogen blockers, human growth hormone (HGH), clenbuterol, cytomel, and a myriad of other supplements and substances. These substances are typically used in concert to enhance muscle-growth, strength, and recovery time for athletes, as well as to block estrogenic side-effects, discourage water retention, increase fat-burning, and alter other metabolic processes (depending on the desired results). In other words, when people refer to "steroids" in the context of athletic performance, they are often referring to many substances (some technically steroids and some not) that are being taken in a particular pattern to optimize desired performance results.

The goal of testosterone therapy in a transsexual man is to bring the level of T in his body into what is considered a healthy male range in order to induce and maintain masculine secondary sex characteristics such as lowering of the voice, a masculine pattern of fat and muscle distribution, facial and body hair growth, and so on. A trans man's hormone regimen is also usually aimed at keeping a steady and healthy level of T in his system over his lifetime.

This contrasts the purpose of testosterone use by bodybuilders and athletes, which is to elevate the level of testosterone in the body to an unusually high level in order to quickly produce desired performance results such as bigger muscles, increased strength, increased muscle recovery time, more power, and so on. The amount of testosterone that is used by some performance-driven athletes and bodybuilders is typically much higher per dose and in frequency than the amount used by trans men for transition and lifetime maintenance. Additionally, as mentioned above, "steroid" users are often using an entire battery of drugs in addition to testosterone (or another anabolic steroid), depending on the goals of the athlete. Steroid use is often "cycled" in these cases in varying patterns.

Because of these many differences, comparing the T use of most trans men with that of "steroid" use in bodybuilders and athletes is a bit like comparing apples and oranges. So fears of rampant "roid rage" in a transitioning FTM transsexuals are ill-founded at best.


Hormone levels and moods


It is important to point out that hormone levels in the human body are part of a delicate balance which involves complex feedback systems. (For basic information on this topic, see the section "Hormones and the body: a brief overview"). It is reasonable to assume that changing the levels of hormones in our systems may have an effect on us, both physically and emotionally. Any woman who has suffered with premenstrual syndrome, or any man who has suffered with low testosterone levels can attest to this possibility. However, some physical and emotional effects of changing hormonal balance may be related to the levels of the hormones in question, or with dramatic changes in hormone levels, rather than the simple presence of the hormones themselves. For example, one of the symptoms that is sometimes seen in men with low levels of testosterone is irritability. In such cases, it does not seem to be the testosterone itself that is causing the irritability, but rather the fact that the level of testosterone is considered low. Thus, those who declare a simple relationship between testosterone and negative moods may wish to reconsider how the levels and overall balance of various hormones (as well as other factors such as environment) may come into play; indeed, such relationships are not yet fully understood by medical science.

When a trans guy first begins testosterone therapy, he might experience some mood shifts. This is normal, because beginning T therapy is usually a significant emotional moment in a trans person's life, and also because his body is beginning a major hormonal shift. As mentioned above, some trans men do anecdotally report feeling quicker to anger or a shorter temper; but many others report a calming effect, and/or a lifting of depressive feelings. Others report very few changes in mood, while some only notice mood differences the day or two before their next shot (they may feel more tired or irritable when testosterone levels have reached a low in their shot cycle). Some find their moods even out with time or an adjusted dosing regimen.

Whatever the case, if a trans man or his loved ones notice significant mood changes that don't settle themselves over time, he may wish to discuss adjusting his T dosing pattern with his doctor. He may also wish to consider whether those mood changes are related to the events going on in his life. Transition can be a time of major change in social life, home life, and work life, all of which can have a tremendous effect on one's moods. Talking to a therapist or a peer support group can help ease such changes.


Testosterone and gender stereotypes


Early on in transition, some trans men (but certainly not all) can become consumed with worries about how they believe men should look, speak, act, and/or feel about the world around them. This is understandable to a degree, as transition can be a trying time, and early transition in particular involves a certain amount of adaptation to change. During such a heady time, a trans man and those around him might be quick to assign his every emotion or action (negative or positive) to the testosterone in his system. However, it is important to remember that each individual's own beliefs and stereotypes about men and women-- as well as their own pre-existing personality traits-- may also play into their behavior as they adapt to the changes of transition. Blaming testosterone for every possible negative action or feeling is an easy scapegoat for what might just be bad behavior or poor individual coping strategies.

Testosterone is only one factor in transition, and not everyone responds to it in the same way. This is not to deny that testosterone can and does have significant effects on the moods and feelings of some trans guys, but rather to point out that many factors play into a person's behaviors. You can meet ten different trans people on the exact same dosing schedule of testosterone, and they may have ten different transition experiences!

In short, simply taking testosterone will not create a monster. Changes in our hormones may affect each of us differently, but much of the worry about T and FTM transition is based in fear and misunderstandings, rather than on a large-scale survey of actual trans men on T therapy.

[Jarrek]

Incite = Insight. My bad.


Hello all you singles! I hardly ever post in threads, however, I saw this one and

felt "at home". Dating is much more challenging, in my experience, as a

transman, so I was wondering if I could have other people's input if they felt

comfortable sharing? Can other guys relate to this?

A question for those who admire us: What types of characteristics in an FTM/Transman attracts you to us? Turns you off?

*I appreciate and respect the honesty and incite anyone would like to share!

[kannon]

I can only speak for my personal preferences as an admirer, but I am attracted to masculinity and, as such, most of the guys I date exemplify that. I also very much enjoy relationships with transmen who are open about their transition and like to spend hours deconstructing gender and talking about their experiences with gender and privilege. It keeps me mindful of my own privilege and helps me be more compassionate.

I have noticed a bit of a propensity toward short-tempered-ness (that's not even a word) but I really can't say for sure if it is related to the individuals being trans, or just part of their innate personality. Either way, it is frightening to me, and is a big turn-off.

From my own experience, it appears that T has really mellowed me out. I'm certainly no Mr. Spock but it takes a lot to get an emotionally charged response from me.

[persiphone]

I have noticed a bit of a propensity toward short-tempered-ness (that's not even a word) but I really can't say for sure if it is related to the individuals being trans, or just part of their innate personality. Either way, it is frightening to me, and is a big turn-off.

hi pretty :) in all fairness i have to say that i've seen lots of anger issues in varying degrees of severity with butches as well, so for me (in my experience only) i don't think that it's just a trans thing or only a trans thing, rather. in fact, in my experience only, the guys i know are pretty even tempered. sure there has been one or two that weren't, but for ME, in general, transguys are pretty relaxed. i definitely don't think aggression is dude exclusive. :)

[ScandalAndy]

I believe that my statement is getting a little bit misinterpreted here. While I am aware that sometimes there are fears expressed regarding an individual's starting HRT and the supposed anger issues, I don't subscribe to that school.

In my original post I stated that I wasn't sure if it was due to them being trans, not being on HRT. What I should have said to make my thoughts more clear is that I am not sure if the irritability is tied to the individual's innate personality (i.e. they are naturally a crankypants) or if the way they are experiencing their transition emotionally/mentally is far more influential in their interactions with others than they are able to comfortably express. I have seen a bit of hypermasculinity in some people I know, and perhaps the insecurity associated with it also plays into a shorter temper.

Luckily, I have the benefit of being active in the queer community and seeing firsthand that there are a lot of good guys who don't struggle with those types of things.

I apologize if I have offended anyone. I can assure you, no offense was meant.

[persiphone]

I believe that my statement is getting a little bit misinterpreted here. While I am aware that sometimes there are fears expressed regarding an individual's starting HRT and the supposed anger issues, I don't subscribe to that school.

In my original post I stated that I wasn't sure if it was due to them being trans, not being on HRT. What I should have said to make my thoughts more clear is that I am not sure if the irritability is tied to the individual's innate personality (i.e. they are naturally a crankypants) or if the way they are experiencing their transition emotionally/mentally is far more influential in their interactions with others than they are able to comfortably express. I have seen a bit of hypermasculinity in some people I know, and perhaps the insecurity associated with it also plays into a shorter temper.

Luckily, I have the benefit of being active in the queer community and seeing firsthand that there are a lot of good guys who don't struggle with those types of things.

I apologize if I have offended anyone. I can assure you, no offense was meant.

i, for one, never thought you were offensive. :) and i completely understand what you're saying.

[ScandalAndy]

i, for one, never thought you were offensive. :) and i completely understand what you're saying.

Thanks, hon! And I appreciate your input that you have similar experiences with butches. Gives me a lot to think about. :)

[Jarrek]

I have not taken offense to what you have written. The meaning of my post was to help give insight on the many factors that play into transition, for transmen. It was nothing more than an educational tool to help others know more about themselves, especially those new in the process, and to help SOFFA's. I posted this out of good intentions.
:aslpeacelove:


I believe that my statement is getting a little bit misinterpreted here. While I am aware that sometimes there are fears expressed regarding an individual's starting HRT and the supposed anger issues, I don't subscribe to that school.

In my original post I stated that I wasn't sure if it was due to them being trans, not being on HRT. What I should have said to make my thoughts more clear is that I am not sure if the irritability is tied to the individual's innate personality (i.e. they are naturally a crankypants) or if the way they are experiencing their transition emotionally/mentally is far more influential in their interactions with others than they are able to comfortably express. I have seen a bit of hypermasculinity in some people I know, and perhaps the insecurity associated with it also plays into a shorter temper.

Luckily, I have the benefit of being active in the queer community and seeing firsthand that there are a lot of good guys who don't struggle with those types of things.

I apologize if I have offended anyone. I can assure you, no offense was meant.

[ScandalAndy]

Thank you for your post. It was really enlightening and shares a lot of great information. It's a really good resource to have in the thread! There's no doubt in my mind that your intentions are noble, and we're lucky that you have this info to share.

Also, thanks for the reassurance. I always worry that I will say something that comes across as offensive.


I have not taken offense to what you have written. The meaning of my post was to help give insight on the many factors that play into transition, for transmen. It was nothing more than an educational tool to help others know more about themselves, especially those new in the process, and to help SOFFA's. I posted this out of good intentions.
:aslpeacelove:

[sarahwho]

Hey...rushing in, and then going to bed.

It snowed today - woke up to a sprinkling of the white crap on the leaves - ugh! Luckily tomorrow it will be in the 50's...have to take my son to see his grandparent's from his bio side, and then despite a cold I suddenly got, I have to rake the leaf piles and get them up before it actually decides to snow and kill the rest of the grass!

[Leigh]

Hey guys and gals, I hope you all have a fantastic weekend :)

[morningstar55]

**peeking in **

hey ya singles....... wow a lot to catch up on here.
been busy running the highways to towns and cities near you .. lol
hey is anyone getting on that christmas card exchange thingie?? i been on it for a few seasons now. its kinda a fun and nice thing to do..

welp bbl..... :)

[Leigh]

Hi everyone, I hope your all having a great Monday so far :)

[kannon]

Hello all you singles! I hardly ever post in threads, however, I saw this one and

felt "at home". Dating is much more challenging, in my experience, as a

transman, so I was wondering if I could have other people's input if they felt

comfortable sharing? Can other guys relate to this?

A question for those who admire us: What types of characteristics in an FTM/Transman attracts you to us? Turns you off?

*I appreciate and respect the honesty and incite anyone would like to share!

I've been thinking about this since you posted this question. I'm at a really weird transitional stage. Some days I pass completely and some days I don't. About a month ago, I had a car accident and every person at the scene addressed me as sir or bud except for the officer who saw my drivers license. However, he didn't front me out. Anyway, a woman stopped to offer assistance and seemed to be interested. Later, I realized that she was. She stayed with me throughout the ordeal and gave me a ride home. Later she comes to my house to "check on me." We exchanged numbers. I didn't feel obligated to explain my situation at that time. I wanted to wait until she got to know me a little better. Anyway, she goes to my work and asked my co-workers about me. I've only told a couple of people that I'm transgendered. I live in the bible belt. I'm waiting until I graduate from grad school and move to more liberal area before I come out completely. So, a co-worker corrects her when she addresses me as he or him. After that, she completely cuts off all communication with me. So, I just left her alone and respected her wishes. I didn't try to explain myself or justify my actions. I just left it alone. Throughout the whole ordeal I struggled with it. The whole situation made me feel uncomfortable. I'm sure it really embarrassed her. It was very awkward. I hope this will be easier to deal with after I move. I really don't want people to know until I choose to tell them. I'm not planning on dating straight woman without telling them. But, I would like to get to know someone before I reveal something so personal to me. So, dating has been more difficult for me.

[sarahwho]

I've been thinking about this since you posted this question. I'm at a really weird transitional stage. Some days I pass completely and some days I don't. About a month ago, I had a car accident and every person at the scene addressed me as sir or bud except for the officer who saw my drivers license. However, he didn't front me out. Anyway, a woman stopped to offer assistance and seemed to be interested. Later, I realized that she was. She stayed with me throughout the ordeal and gave me a ride home. Later she comes to my house to "check on me." We exchanged numbers. I didn't feel obligated to explain my situation at that time. I wanted to wait until she got to know me a little better. Anyway, she goes to my work and asked my co-workers about me. I've only told a couple of people that I'm transgendered. I live in the bible belt. I'm waiting until I graduate from grad school and move to more liberal area before I come out completely. So, a co-worker corrects her when she addresses me as he or him. After that, she completely cuts off all communication with me. So, I just left her alone and respected her wishes. I didn't try to explain myself or justify my actions. I just left it alone. Throughout the whole ordeal I struggled with it. The whole situation made me feel uncomfortable. I'm sure it really embarrassed her. It was very awkward. I hope this will be easier to deal with after I move. I really don't want people to know until I choose to tell them. I'm not planning on dating straight woman without telling them. But, I would like to get to know someone before I reveal something so personal to me. So, dating has been more difficult for me.

I do not understand why people are so closed minded and so prejudiced! Maybe I am an :alieninjar: or something! I just don't get it! Maybe people should follow some of them around for awhile and see what makes them so "lily white"! UGH!

[CockyDude]

Hey all. Would love to see this thread get more involved. :sunglass:

[Leigh]

Just came in to say hello :)

[TEXNSMILE]

I couldn't agree more with the awkward part of timing.
I lived 2/3 of my life as a confident often cocky butch, before my
transition. Out and Proud, front line, flag carrying member of an incredible
movement. I say I'm living my life back ass wards.. lol
Was out and proud, fearless
Now closet case, hard to know where ya fit in, who to tell, who
will see something worth keeping.
I'm no newbie to transition, but I sure haven't got it figured out.
I recently came here, to make some friends, try to feel connected, make
some connections.
Looking forward to the posts
TEX


" Character, what you do when no one is looking. "

[Leigh]

Well I'm back to the Singles drawing board again but no worries, I'll be fine .......... just here to be with My friends :)