And how are you feeling?

[Bèsame*]

totally bummed. Today, I guess, is the last day of my sewing machine. I just bought some new fabric pieces to make more masks. My first go around of masks were from scraps I had in my stash. Now is the time for more, fashionable masks, since we are going to wear them for some time.

All set up, cut out, ready to go and my machine decides to freeze up. Now what? Lol

[Stone-Butch]

Feeling very happy and relieved as I just heard that there are no new virus diagnosis on my island home. The stats are great for the people. 15,000 tests done, 261 confirmed cases, 258 cleared cases and only 3 deaths. All of this since the pandemic started. No new cases in over 3 weeks. If you go there you have to isolate for 2 weeks even if you are from there, which is great in my opinion.
We are surrounded by the Atlantic ocean on the island and the mainland part is Labrador and is to the N. and W. of the island. NFLD is an island north of the coast of Maine U.S.A. Summer temps. around 65 to 70 and sunny.

[C0LLETTE]

Went for a walk just now. Passed 5 people on my block. All were wearing masks and even stepped off the sidewalk to maintain social distancing. Made me proud and hopeful for my community.

[Stone-Butch]

Was talking to my cousin and feeling very homesick. Nice cool weather, no crowds and traffic, walks on the beach and watching the ocean. Fresh food and nice folks to chat with. I miss my friends there. Brother is getting ready to go but I think he has a bit of a wait.

[easygoingfemme]

Refreshed.

Daddy whisked us away on a surprise spontaneous trip to Lake Placid for the weekend and it was just what we needed. I have today off of work too so I'm going to be extra re-charged when I go back to work tomorrow.

[homoe]

~~
F a n t a s t i c.........

[Degotoga]

Blessed to have another day and the ability to leave the world just as or better than I found it.

[clay]

I am feeling really sad.

I just heard a bit ago, and it was verified, that Abigail Crabby has passed away. Sunnydee Kotaros.....I do not know of any details.

RIP, Sunny Girl! Soar with the angels

[JustLovelyJenn]

I feel anxious and uncertain today... Almost to the point of panic.

[Stone-Butch]

Feeling totally stuffed. bbq going and had 1/2 lb hamburger on a cheese bun (from the local deli) with bacon and everything else I could find in my frig. omg it was sooooooooo good. Might skip that steak supper LOL.

[Wrang1er]

Feeling totally stuffed. bbq going and had 1/2 lb hamburger on a cheese bun (from the local deli) with bacon and everything else I could find in my frig. omg it was sooooooooo good. Might skip that steak supper LOL.

I do not know what a cheese bun is but your post made me hungry. I want a cheeseburger on a cheese bun.

[easygoingfemme]

I feel positively wilted. It is so hot at work... so so hot. Steamy hot. I do not like it.

[Orema]

Good. Was able to get out of two meeting today.

Weekly meetings are things I won't miss.

:bow:

[C0LLETTE]

Just fine thank you and once I take all these meds and drink a beer, I'll feel even better.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Content - with a warm kitty sleeping next to my knee.

[Ginger]

I feel better.

[Stone-Butch]

Feeling sick of the condition our beautiful world is in. Let us all be patient and steadfast to try to heal her. Life is not always fair but its the only one we have, lets respect it and try to get along with one another.

[Blade]

Full bored ready to get back to work. Ready to use my camper did I mention full? I think my grits blew up like popcorn in my belly.

[~ocean]

Feeling sick of the condition our beautiful world is in. Let us all be patient and steadfast to try to heal her. Life is not always fair but its the only one we have, lets respect it and try to get along with one another.

Doesn't the chaos make you want to shut out to the world....STOP !:|:|:|

[Orema]

Good. Working from home this morning. Fasting since yesterday afternoon and will get blood work in a couple hours at the lab. Need to wrap up this final project by Monday morning so I can spend Monday and Tuesday packing the last of my stuff.

[Stone-Butch]

Came home from shopping and bumped into my noisy downstairs party neighbor outside on the little patio. I spoke to her finally about the noise all the time with her friends hanging out right below my window and into my living room. I told her she would have to turn it down to a dull roar. I got so very close to crossing my assertive line into my aggressive stage but she agreed, apologized and said np, will turn it down. SO, I am now feeling like I might not have to blast my tv to hear her outside. (I hate getting aggressive). My fuse is very short once I cross that line but it has been quite a while coming.

[Gemme]

Feeling very happy and relieved as I just heard that there are no new virus diagnosis on my island home. The stats are great for the people. 15,000 tests done, 261 confirmed cases, 258 cleared cases and only 3 deaths. All of this since the pandemic started. No new cases in over 3 weeks. If you go there you have to isolate for 2 weeks even if you are from there, which is great in my opinion.
We are surrounded by the Atlantic ocean on the island and the mainland part is Labrador and is to the N. and W. of the island. NFLD is an island north of the coast of Maine U.S.A. Summer temps. around 65 to 70 and sunny.

That is good news, with the exception of the poor 3 people who passed away. One of my customers is in Canada, visiting her mother, and she is halfway through her mandatory quarantine. She said that there's a tremendously large fine and possible jail time for disobeying and leaving the residence in which she is quarantining. I don't know if she was exaggerating but if that were the case here, I think people would take quarantines more seriously.

I have customers that will see the sign on the door saying to wear a mask and then come in anyway without one or will have one but have it pulled down around their chin. What is WRONG with people??? Our state has a mandatory facial covering order for entry into ANY business or enclosed area.

smh

I feel positively wilted. It is so hot at work... so so hot. Steamy hot. I do not like it.

I KNOW, right?!? Thankfully, yesterday's storm took the dew point down but it's still too hot for me.

I'm turning precious in my old age.

:|

[Wrang1er]

Tired with a side of headache.

[Bèsame*]

functioning on 5 or less hours of sleep, ahuh, that's a feeling alright

[easygoingfemme]

I get to have my nephews tomorrow. My heart is so big waiting for this moment. Due to COVID I haven't been able to touch them since the beginning of March. We have had car visits and zoomed and socially distance planted flowers on my brother's/their father's resting place- but tomorrow I get to actually go get them and take them out for a treat and visit and read stories. With all of the virus surges coming up I want to take advantage of the current NY lull and love them up. I don't know what is ahead for us. I'm glad my sister in law was agreeable to having a visit. We've all been being so careful. We can't handle more loss in our family if we can prevent it a little. But I need to hug and love on those boys.

[kittygrrl]

https://irishtatler.com/uploads/article/2019/2/2698/article_getty_sad_lady_.jpg?t=1549993225

Just want to say, i think women are beautiful whether we read or not...we are complicated, intoxicating beings and deserve all good things

[Stone-Butch]

Feeling like one should not have an individual choice of preference without being seen as excluding all others. I like shorter women because that is what I prefer as opposed to taller women (like 5'5" and under). Does not mean tall women are by any means unattractive in my eyes, just a preference. No matter what is said lately seems to offend someone so individual liking is not a good thing or a thing you need to keep to yourself. I see, ty.

[kittygrrl]

https://ariseletusbegoing.files.wordpress.com/2019/11/img_20191105_1440502262805707246903970..jpg?w=584

Dear Stone-Butch..i esteem and value your opinions and enjoy your posts. I want to extend my apology to you if my quasi-affirmation offended you:praying:

[homoe]

Feeling like one should not have an individual choice of preference without being seen as excluding all others. I like shorter women because that is what I prefer as opposed to taller women (like 5'5" and under). Does not mean tall women are by any means unattractive in my eyes, just a preference. No matter what is said lately seems to offend someone so individual liking is not a good thing or a thing you need to keep to yourself. I see, ty.

Stone remember the words of poet John Lydgate, later adapted by President Lincoln... “You can please some of the people all of the time, you can please all of the people some of the time, but you can’t please all of the people all of the time”.

It does appear that people are more on edge lately and seem to take offense to things they might not normally, but I've chalked it up to us being in the middle of a pandemic and having that idiot in the White House!

[FireSignFemme]

I'm feeling great today.

As for the whole height thing, for me it's a lot more about how the person in question feels about their height than the height they actually are. I don't like people who are cocky and arrogant because they are tall and I don't like people who are insecure and all snivels because they're short. When it comes to height the thing I find most attractive in a person is confidence.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Feeling like one should not have an individual choice of preference without being seen as excluding all others. I like shorter women because that is what I prefer as opposed to taller women (like 5'5" and under). Does not mean tall women are by any means unattractive in my eyes, just a preference. No matter what is said lately seems to offend someone so individual liking is not a good thing or a thing you need to keep to yourself. I see, ty.

Thinking back on my girlfriends, I think I like shorter women also. I'm not so tall myself (5'6") and I like how I can walk up behind a short woman and kiss her on the back of her neck.

[Gemme]

I feel like I wasted the day, and I did, but I also am kinda okay with that.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I'm feeling sleepy and tired. Yet, I can't sleep. Also feeling full, like I ate a little too much for dinner.

[Gemme]

I feel like I got bamboozled by my body. Here I thought I was beginning to crest the hill of Perimenopause and begin my journey into less uterine annoyances and more concern about balancing hormones but apparently freakin' not. Stupid uterus with its blitz attack. :mohawk:

[Stone-Butch]

Frustrated. Some women frustrate me, even the ones that hardly know I am alive.

[firegal]

Feeling a little dejected by all the crazyness going on. I look forward to a time when being nice is the new norm!

[easygoingfemme]

I guess I'm feeling glad I'm an early riser since work started calling me at 6am even though it's our holiday and I'm off and there is someone else being paid to be on-call....

But I'm looking forward to the day.

[Gemme]

I feel exhausted. Got 3 hours of sleep last night and I'm struggling to make it to my bedtime tonight. Watch me get into bed and my eyes will pop open, wide awake. Typical.

[kittygrrl]

right at the moment..rushed...meeting best friend for coffee..skinny jeans, white stretch lace tank, riding boots, leather bracelet w snap❤

on my drive-
2e9diL0xTN4

[C0LLETTE]

I'm feeling ok if lying on a couch in a state of lethargy, suffering close to heat exhaustion means "feeling ok "

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I'm feeling tired of watching Hulu and listening to podcasts for hours on end; bored because there's nothing else to do except physical therapy exercises.

[Kenna]

Down.
My Tundra needs brakes and my old furbaby needs expensive meds monthly.

[Orema]

Good. Finally ridded myself of carbs. What a difference it makes to my arthritic joints. They feel so much better.

[C0LLETTE]

Feeling fine but just a bit nostalgic. Wishing old friends like cupcake, prof packer, traumaqueen, clyde , vixenagogo, and many more would come back in, even if only for a post or two.

[Bèsame*]

As the positive cases continue to raise, I'm feeling fortunate to be able to stay in contact with my friends across the land by phone calls, texting and emails. I'm amazed how social media keeps us all connected.

[Kenna]

Amused and tickled at my best friend for his telling of his story about how he reacted to what he thought was a giant spider.

Very tired and sore after my morning at the Ortho for shots in my shoulder.

Full of love and tenderness for my sweet, old neighbors. Caring for them during the past few months has made us grow closer.

[Orema]

Good but am sleeping at the oddest hours. I’ll come up with a routine and schedule soon.

[kittygrrl]

warm..sunny

[Orema]

Good. Everything is falling into place nicely. Applied for unemployment and my claim was accepted, looks like all will go well with SSI, will be able to get knee surgery under medicare. And am purging other areas of the house.

Things could be worse.

:bow:

[FireSignFemme]

Irritable, I have to see the gynecologist today.

[Bèsame*]

My excitement overflows at this moment. I'm getting a substantial tax refund! Wow, wow, wow!

[Lecheloco]

I feel like I need a drink after how my day started

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Hungry and waiting for the Grubhub driver. Wondering if I should feel guilty because I have totally abandoned my plan not to order delivery during this pandemic - NAH!

[Kenna]

Relieved and thankful...

[kittygrrl]

curled up on the couch w my plaid blanket and watching Titanic w the sound off thinking.....https://www.irishcentral.com/uploads/article/129804/mcdermotts-castle-auction.jpg?t=1545037599

[Wrang1er]

Stressed. Tomorrow is mom's memorial service. I wrote the eulogy. I've never done that before so I'm not sure it's right. I also wrote her a song. The yard is mowed just needs a few finishing touches. Now we are cleaning. This is going to be a long night of waiting. I hope tomorrow goes well.

[Kätzchen]

It's hard to know or tell. I often wonder when those who are left and survive will grow a conscience and say 'enough, is enough', and exercise their anger by making sure every last person on Team T---p, including T-p himself, will be voted out of office, frog marched publicly, or jailed for their roles in letting white collar criminals go free, or had a hand in lying about X, Y or Z things that have hurt and scarred our country beyond all measure.

I go from sad to outright mad, but try super hard to not let the Jack A$$ committee ruin what's left of each day that goes by.

[Kenna]

Tired
Tired
Tired

And pissed at myself for making a terrible dinner.

[Gemme]

Good. Finally ridded myself of carbs. What a difference it makes to my arthritic joints. They feel so much better.

That's good news! How do you feel about nightshades? When my sciatica flared up, it was suggested to me to reduce my intake of them as there are some theories that they can aggravate or even cause inflammation.

Stressed. Tomorrow is mom's memorial service. I wrote the eulogy. I've never done that before so I'm not sure it's right. I also wrote her a song. The yard is mowed just needs a few finishing touches. Now we are cleaning. This is going to be a long night of waiting. I hope tomorrow goes well.

Whatever you say will be perfect because it will be coming from your heart. As cheesy as that sounds, it's true.

As for thread compliance, I feel pretty darn good. I got a crap ton of sleep last night and have the day off so there's nothing I can really complain about.

[Chad]

I feel lazy today. My life is busy with two jobs. I work and care for mom which takes up all my time. I feel ready to retire and just care for mom.

[Orema]

That's good news! How do you feel about nightshades? When my sciatica flared up, it was suggested to me to reduce my intake of them as there are some theories that they can aggravate or even cause inflammation.



Whatever you say will be perfect because it will be coming from your heart. As cheesy as that sounds, it's true.

As for thread compliance, I feel pretty darn good. I got a crap ton of sleep last night and have the day off so there's nothing I can really complain about.

I haven’t noticed a difference and will let you know if I do and good advice to Wrangler.

[Blade]

Worn out this evening. A lot of pain this morning finally went away this afternoon. Enjoyed supper with Mom. Tired now. Give out.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Feeling a little stronger. PT wasn't so hard today. I guess that means it's time to take on more, right?

[theoddz]

I feel wonderful.......after deleting my FB account.

Fuck 'em. :thefinger:

~Theo~ :bouquet:

[kittygrrl]

it's late but feeling happy and sleepy

[Blade]

Better than this morning.

Word of the day
KRYPTONITE

You lose KRYPTONITE I didn't cave but I almost did.

I have never known pain like I had this morning

[Bèsame*]

Actually, I'm feeling ok. Well, considering I've worked 17 days in a row. I have 4 more days until I have a real day off. My feet are screaming though, lol. However, I have lots of lotions and potions and change up my shoes. I really would love a foot massage, just saying.

Or a walk in the sand.....

https://images.fineartamerica.com/images-medium-large-5/sand-footprints-pacific-ocean-surf-dszc.jpg

[cathexis]

Anxious about the course of COVID between now and the inauguration of the next president. We have a quarter of the virus on Earth with an ignorant "leader" who has shut out the most learned researcher in Infectious Diseases. Trump is trying to ruin Dr. Fauci's reputation. There are people out there who are just stupidly gullible enough to buy Trump's nonsense.

Dr. Fauci is THE expert on Viral Infection. We would never gotten control of HIV/AIDS if not for him, and we NEED him to end Coronavirus' hold on us now.

I have little doubt that we can eventually get Trump OUT of office, but believe it will be difficult to extract him from the White House. Three years ago I warned that he would disregard the Constitution and the Rule of Law, that the US was electing a Fascist government which is what we have.

Just hoping that Trump won't be as difficult to remove from office as I fear.

[FireSignFemme]

I'm feeling appreciated and understood. Yesterday my eldest came over, we had a long talk. Instead of just brushing me off he listened, intently. It left me with a good feeling that's lasted into today.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I'm feeling sneezy. (I'd rather feel Sleepy or Dopey.) Srsly, I'm allergic to something that's blooming right now.

[Bèsame*]

Super tired.

A warm shower with eucalyptus body salt scrub, will push me over into total relaxation....and....
My bed has fresh laundered lavender scented sheets, ready for me.

But....I made chocolate Mason jar ice cream that is calling my name.

[Blade]

Feeling good enough to be bored. But still not as mobile as I'd like to be. But I will be. Ya can't keep a good man down

[RockOn]

I am feeling great and super happy. I have a present from me to me that shipped out and will arrive next week. 😆😃☺

[Orema]

Good. Am venturing outside for the first time in weeks. Going to Ralphs to shop for groceries during senior hours. Will go to the drive-through car wash. Would love to go out for a low carb breakfast, but that’s not a good idea. Will go for short drive and return home and check on my seedlings.

[Stone-Butch]

Feeling better of late. My physio therapist says I can do my own exercises now so that is a relief he was starting to get boring lol.. I am back at lifting my dumb bells too so that always makes me feel a lot better.

[Blade]

Real good. My knee never hurt today. Little stiff after my nap, but good the rest of the day

[kittygrrl]

I came home early today to watch John Lewis brought to the Capital..i'm still in shock he is gone. How will we manage without him?

https://specials-images.forbesimg.com/imageserve/5eea8be484bc02000709d496/960x0.jpg?fit=scale

[FireSignFemme]

Amazing! I've been having these headaches from hell and aching all over stuff going on. I can't say whether it was the cold or the flu because it felt like both were going on at the self same time? Anyhow it just kind of drug on and on to the point it almost began to feel normal. Until I woke up this morning and felt, well amazing. What a difference!

[Orema]

Good. Lost 10 pounds and it’s the hardest 10 pounds I’ve ever lost.

Granted, it’s not easy losing weight while you’re a toker during a pandemic, but it’s also hard because of my age.

If anyone is thinking of losing weight, I suggest you do it before menopause or before you hit your sixties because it’s a whole new ballgame after that.

[Gemme]

Good. Lost 10 pounds and it’s the hardest 10 pounds I’ve ever lost.

Granted, it’s not easy losing weight while you’re a toker during a pandemic, but it’s also hard because of my age.

If anyone is thinking of losing weight, I suggest you do it before menopause or before you hit your sixties because it’s a whole new ballgame after that.

Congratufreakin'lations!!!!

This is a fantastic achievement and I'm proud of you. However, you must have good genes because mine slowed down the second I turned 40.

As for how I am feeling, I'm feeling a bit gluttonous reading about Orema's success in dodging some pounds while stuffing my face with Twizzlers.

:blink:

[Orema]

Congratufreakin'lations!!!!

This is a fantastic achievement and I'm proud of you. However, you must have good genes because mine slowed down the second I turned 40.

As for how I am feeling, I'm feeling a bit gluttonous reading about Orema's success in dodging some pounds while stuffing my face with Twizzlers.

:blink:


Thank you, Gemme. You are always so kind and generous with your compliments.

Not feeling good but better. I think I ate something bad because I can’t keep anything on my stomach and stayed in bed yesterday. Hopefully, today will be better.

[Gemme]

Thank you, Gemme. You are always so kind and generous with your compliments.

Not feeling good but better. I think I ate something bad because I can’t keep anything on my stomach and stayed in bed yesterday. Hopefully, today will be better.

Thank you. Bland food and immunity boosters for YOU, missy. I hope you feel better soon!

I feel okay. This week so far has not been my best at work. Tough, actually. I left work two hours late last night due to a multitude of things going off the charts wrong. Today is a new day, though, so I'm trying to soak up the possibilities of it all. I did enjoy the rainstorm earlier. I always like a good storm.

[Bèsame*]

I feel like a holiday is getting closer...

IHknoSQZibU

[FireSignFemme]

Very content. Now with the grandson keeping her busy J and I aren't spending as much time together which for us hasn't been a bad thing. No matter how much you care about someone, love them, enjoy their company a little absence truly does make the heart grow fonder. She's bringing him by for a visit on Monday.

[Stone-Butch]

https://youtu.be/TwOfMtuTgEM

"What if I Never get Over You"

Lady Antebellum

[GeorgiaMa'am]

A little nervous. There's a thunderstorm outside; I used to enjoy them. But ever since the tree fell on my spare bedroom, I always wonder if _this_ will be the time the next one falls.

[Build A Bridge]

confused, and tired

[Kätzchen]

I'm kind of all over the map: I feel motivated, yet my body aches from all the walking I did today, yet I feel okay, but just as important, I feel ever so slightly satisfied, a contented happiness, so to speak.

[Blade]

Like I'm about to have a diabetic coma. 4 swallows of cherry coke. WOW! Oh and I'm not even diabetic

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Like I'm tired of waiting for the physical therapist to get here. He's already 30 minutes late.

[Gemme]

I feel like I should have laid off of the Reese's for dinner and I should have done more work in the house during daylight hours today but other than that, I feel good.

[Wrang1er]

I am feeling irritable. No reason other than having to go out when I would prefer not to.

[easygoingfemme]

Worn out and happy after my elder nephew's birthday party. Outdoor miniature golf with just immediate family. Still was too close for comfort on some levels but at least we were outside and there was a lot of hand washing. I was in charge of my 4 year old (younger) nephew and miniature golfing with him was... quite creative.

[Gayandgray]

I feel great:jester:

[homoe]

I feel pretty oh so pretty, I feel pretty, and witty and gay....:musicnote:

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I feel relaxed and like I can get a good night's rest. Trying not to think about my doctor's appointment tomorrow.

[RockOn]

feeling better now .... I was almost asleep earlier and both legs, feet and toes started mega-cramping ...it was so hard to get off the bed ... hobbled into the kitchen and guzzled 3 huge mouthfuls of mustard, chased it with cold apple juice ... I know some coaches have people on their team hit the mustard hard and fast when muscles start cramping ... it worked ... I am so tired and am eyeing the bed now ... will summon my courage in a few minutes and lie back down ... I have salt and a coke beside the bed if the cramps return ... I over did it today working outside in the heat ... that is all it is

[Kenna]

I feel like a pin cushion.
And OUCH!!

6 weeks ago received cortisone shot in rotator cuff.
Today 3 more shots in Levator Scapulae area.
Omg. Now I feel like I've been stung by a bunch of wasps.

[FireSignFemme]

feeling better now .... I was almost asleep earlier and both legs, feet and toes started mega-cramping ...it was so hard to get off the bed ... hobbled into the kitchen and guzzled 3 huge mouthfuls of mustard, chased it with cold apple juice ... I know some coaches have people on their team hit the mustard hard and fast when muscles start cramping ... it worked ... I am so tired and am eyeing the bed now ... will summon my courage in a few minutes and lie back down ... I have salt and a coke beside the bed if the cramps return ... I over did it today working outside in the heat ... that is all it is

Potassium works like a charm for me.
https://www.chicagotribune.com/consumer-reviews/sns-bestreviews-health-the-best-potassium-supplement-20190617-story.html

[FireSignFemme]

plagued and boycotted at the self same time

[Gemme]

feeling better now .... I was almost asleep earlier and both legs, feet and toes started mega-cramping ...it was so hard to get off the bed ... hobbled into the kitchen and guzzled 3 huge mouthfuls of mustard, chased it with cold apple juice ... I know some coaches have people on their team hit the mustard hard and fast when muscles start cramping ... it worked ... I am so tired and am eyeing the bed now ... will summon my courage in a few minutes and lie back down ... I have salt and a coke beside the bed if the cramps return ... I over did it today working outside in the heat ... that is all it is

Potassium works like a charm for me.
https://www.chicagotribune.com/consumer-reviews/sns-bestreviews-health-the-best-potassium-supplement-20190617-story.html

I've heard of both of these remedies for muscle cramps; glad to hear they work. I personally drink dill pickle juice, which works too. Sports coaches use this option for their players, which is how I heard about it.

To piggyback onto Fire's potassium post, eating a banana a day will reduce chronic muscle cramps because of the potassium content. Also, drinking enough water daily will help as well.

[Bèsame*]

worn out. hungry. tired.

[Gemme]

I came in here to post and got sidetracked with muscle cramps.

:blink:

I guess that answers the thread's question, eh?

Know that feeling when are doing something and then you start the quiet slide into sleep, with your eyes closing and your body starting to relax and then you jerk back to alertness but are still a wee bit sluggish?

That's me right now because my body doesn't like it when I cheat it of sleep and I only got 4 hours last night soooo....she's sneaking in and trying to take it back. Don't tell her, but she's winning.

:|

[Bèsame*]

cJqjlFGZxtE

Wonderful! Well, I'll try to forget the scorching temps. It is the dog days of summer...

[Stone-Butch]

Feeling pretty good. Won $500. on a scratch and win. Beats getting a kick in the butt with a frozen mukluk eh. *S

[FireSignFemme]

Horrible. I've been having headaches the past few days but low key, mild. Wasn't really sure what that was about but since they weren't non-stop or all that bad have been riding the things out with over the counters on an as needed basis. However today I woke up with dental pain so bad, now it's all about okay I don't care what you need to do here but as far as I'm concerned just hurry up and hacksaw it out! I already knew I needed follow up but getting a dental appointment has been LOL like pulling teeth with this pandemic going on. However Jillian managed to find a place accepting new patients with an opening today in just a couple of hours. So either restrictions due to this pandemic must be easing up. Or in just a couple of hours I'm going to see one of the worst dentists in America. One so desperate for patients they're willing to take on just anybody almost immediately. Wish me luck.

[Kätzchen]

I'm sort of a bunch of mixed feelings tonight: I feel steady, and full of contemplation; yet I also have a deep feeling of reverence for the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. That kind of feeling. A good feeling. From a deep, deep place in my soul.

[easygoingfemme]

It's a really good day when I can start my work morning listening to Barack Obama's latest speech.

[Gemme]

Horrible. I've been having headaches the past few days but low key, mild. Wasn't really sure what that was about but since they weren't non-stop or all that bad have been riding the things out with over the counters on an as needed basis. However today I woke up with dental pain so bad, now it's all about okay I don't care what you need to do here but as far as I'm concerned just hurry up and hacksaw it out! I already knew I needed follow up but getting a dental appointment has been LOL like pulling teeth with this pandemic going on. However Jillian managed to find a place accepting new patients with an opening today in just a couple of hours. So either restrictions due to this pandemic must be easing up. Or in just a couple of hours I'm going to see one of the worst dentists in America. One so desperate for patients they're willing to take on just anybody almost immediately. Wish me luck.

I feel curious. How did it go? If it were me, it might be a sinus infection. The really bad ones seem to settle in my jaw and the ache is torture. Hopefully, you figured it out and it 1. won't cost you a fortune and 2. you didn't meet the worst dentist in the US.

As for myself, I feel pretty content today. The weather is amazing with blue skies, a steady breeze and low humidity. I even wore my hair down! The cats are snoozing on the floor and the back of the sofa and I'm in the midst of a decent lunch. I mean; it's no filet mignon with a peppercorn cream sauce but it's reasonably good. Also, my outside chores and errands for the day are done and the groceries are put away so I got to pare down to my shorts and camisole bra, which is sooo comfortable. Other than the world being in shambles, I have nothing to complain about.

[Bèsame*]

Super tired with a side of relax. I had a really early dark o'clock shift today. This afternoon I spent an hour floating in the pool, hence the relaxation. I definitely will be sliding between the sheets early.

[kittygrrl]

chill
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[clementinefemme]

Not feeling great because I had to cancel a bike ride with my friend this morning as I woke up with a migraine, but I'm gonna make it to dinner at another friend's after work.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Sleepy, but I'm always sleepy these days. Concerned about my cat, who has diabetes and a urinary tract infection. Worried that I will not get everything done that I need to get done before my surgery in September.

[FireSignFemme]

I feel curious. How did it go? If it were me, it might be a sinus infection. The really bad ones seem to settle in my jaw and the ache is torture.

The dentist at the dental hygiene clinic at our community college had said it was an abscess. The dentist I saw yesterday she didn't know what it was, pointed to the x-rays and said – See this? It could be any number of things couldn't it? What the hell? I couldn't believe what I was hearing! So since she seemed a little crazy hesitantly I asked, well it wouldn't be an abscess would it? She thought about it and said – maybe, but I don't think so. Again I was like what the hell! So I asked her, what did she think it might be then? She said well it could be anything but most likely it's probably one of two things... either way here's what I'm going to do. She wrote me prescriptions for a rinse and antibiotic. I still don't know out of all the things it could be, how she narrowed it down to just two or what either of those two things it might me. She said if I needed to I could take two ibuprofen and if that wasn't enough two Tylenol along with it for the pain. As if I hadn't already tried that. She said if things got worse give them a call and they'd squeeze me in. What the... That's it? Oh, no, if all goes well, see you back in a month. If all goes well? In a month? Really?

Oh, hell no! I'm not going to let myself suffer and maybe die in agony just because some incompetent dentist, who asked me to read my own films, says that's what I ought to do. There was so much more wrong this dental experience I'll spare you the novel. Moral of the story a good dentist is worth their weight in gold. Anyhow, I came home and did emergency dental surgery. I had once before, for an abscessed tooth decades and decades ago. Every dentist I've seen since and stupidly told that too they've all said the same thing – Don't do it again!!! So keeping that in mind I did it again and in less than an hour was completely pain free. A little tender if touching it but well what's the easy answer for that – don't touch it!!! A few hours later I was able to eat a late dinner of canned stew. Today I felt so much better I was snacking on peanuts while waiting for my antibiotics to arrive. Anyhow I don't think I'm cured or even just well enough to try beef jerky yet, but at least now I can pain free continue my search for a competent dentist. I haven't had to take any pain meds at all today :)

[Orema]

feeling better now .... I was almost asleep earlier and both legs, feet and toes started mega-cramping ...it was so hard to get off the bed ... hobbled into the kitchen and guzzled 3 huge mouthfuls of mustard, chased it with cold apple juice ... I know some coaches have people on their team hit the mustard hard and fast when muscles start cramping ... it worked ... I am so tired and am eyeing the bed now ... will summon my courage in a few minutes and lie back down ... I have salt and a coke beside the bed if the cramps return ... I over did it today working outside in the heat ... that is all it is

Thank you for posting this, Rocks! Was just falling asleep as my foot started cramping. Ate a spoonful of mustard and it stopped within minutes. Hope you’re continuing to feel better.

Am feeling well.

[Gemme]

I feel pretty good. I shortchanged myself of sleep Friday night so I turned off the alarm last night and slept a little over 9 hours. I feel okay too. Not too groggy or off, which is always a risk when sleeping more than my usual 7.5ish hours.

[Orema]

Better. Am back to losing weight. Had gotten into a bit of a funk, but I stuck with it and eventually it’s starting to pay off again.

I think the losing-weight Gods like playing tricks on folk.

:bow:

[Gemme]

I'm feeling bittersweet with a tinge of betrayal. My employee has been assigned to another store. The sweet part is that I've done such a good job training her that they feel she can run her own store. I'm proud of and genuinely happy for her. The bitter part is that now I have to begin the process of searching for someone else and going through the extensive interview sessions and then long training in order to get someone at the point where they are not 'bad', not to mention saying goodbye to any personal time off for the next couple of months and also having to deal with winter on my property, which is supposed to be quite nasty this season.

Finally, betrayed because my immediate supervisor knew about his idea for her for months before he said anything at all to anyone and then he told her not to tell me until he could 'surprise' me with the info, which he did today. Not cool, man. Not cool at all. All of this is dumped on both of us at the holidays so both of us could potentially lose vacation time (that doesn't roll over).

[homoe]

~~

Foul and I feel I might explode and blow my top any second now...:blink:

[nhplowboi]

Calma te mi hermano. I hope a good night's rest has helped. I think we are all in that space now off and on in this day and age.

[C0LLETTE]

Donkey pet/companion

Been feeling a bit down lately so thinking about getting a pet.
Recently read that donkeys make excellent pet/companions and not expensive if you don't insist on pure-bred, championship stock.

'In fact, a growing number of people are buying donkeys for companionship rather than work. They don't need help with carrying firewood or pulling a cart; they just want a fun, friendly animal to brighten their days.'

I'll have to redo the second bedroom. Hope it's worth it. Fingers crossed.

[Bèsame*]

feeling happy, content, wonderful, very good.

Spent the day exploring my new area. Had a great lunch. Stopped in for a local drink and heard good live music. She was a lesbian singer. Chatted it up with the people who were sitting safe enough away.

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BkFXQENCcAAOHiH.jpg

I cant wait till Monday to go back to that area.

[Orema]

Better. Thought I had mistakenly thrown out a recipe book received when my favorite aunt, Jessie, passed away. It has clippings, notes, and hand written recipes she made. Thank goodness it was stored with some cookbooks I seldom use anymore.

I found it just as I was about to give up and cry. So glad I found it.

Yep, I'm all up in my feelings this morning.

:bow:

[akiza]

always mixed feelings ☺ i'm stressed with school and ok let's say lonely 😕 just me and myself who's not always nice but i'm content to check here it's been a while ne

[Chad]

I feel healthy but I have the travel ich. I want to go everywhere; Hawaii, Italy, Ireland, California, Maine, Mexico, Florida, and Canada.

This pandamic as tethered me. I guess many other folks feel the same way.

:flying:

[homoe]

I feel healthy but I have the travel ich. I want to go everywhere; Hawaii, Italy, Ireland, California, Maine, Mexico, Florida, and Canada.

This pandamic as tethered me. I guess many other folks feel the same way.

:flying:

OMG me too Chad!

I'm itching to go, I'll settle just for Chicago!

[Chad]

OMG me too Chad!

I'm itching to go, I'll settle just for Chicago!

Yep, love to have a meal with you buddy.
I had a GF in Chicago years ago I really like that town.

[Gemme]

Better. Thought I had mistakenly thrown out a recipe book received when my favorite aunt, Jessie, passed away. It has clippings, notes, and hand written recipes she made. Thank goodness it was stored with some cookbooks I seldom use anymore.

I found it just as I was about to give up and cry. So glad I found it.

Yep, I'm all up in my feelings this morning.

:bow:

Aww, good for you. It's hard when someone you love isn't here anymore and you can't find something of theirs. I had a stole that my stepmother gave me before she passed that was stolen from me. I didn't give two shakes about the stole; it was that it was from her and that someone took it from me. Glad you found it and can make some goodies now!

As for myself, I feel good. I have some fall night air baby endorphins swirling around so I'm in good spirits. I've eaten well today and have drunk lots of water, so that makes me feel proud of myself.

Loki is also watching his figure and has cried and whined less today than yesterday so that makes me feel good that he's getting into the rhythm of things now. He's also the most beautiful boy when he sleeps and has the cutest snore. Can't get enough of him.

Gracie has been more affectionate lately. She's been with me almost 3 years now and it's been verrrrry slow going with her but the past couple months, she's let me rub her ears and tonight she let me loosely hug her...twice!...so I feel ecstatic. I've had my heart broken a thousand times by this one and it's such a wonderful feeling to see her open up more. Each step forward feels like I just climbed a mountain. A year ago, she never would have jumped up on my lap but she just spent a solid 10 minutes walking back and forth on me, scenting my computer desk from one end to the next as well as my journal and a book I'm reading.

I've got a plan for tomorrow and am gathering more things for donation so my urge to purge is being met as well. I feel...fulfilled.

[Stone-Butch]

Feeling like I need a trip somewhere in North America. Canada or U.S, either is fine. Gotta wait to see what summer brings. Glad I have Skype to communicate and almost feel myself there.

[clementinefemme]

I'm feeling that climate change depression... I know Mother Nature can recover from almost everything we throw at Her, but I feel like I'm not doing enough and I worry about our future.

[akiza]

half ready to deal with the day and half ready to go back under the sheets with earplugs
serieux i don't know it's can be the weather who does that

[akiza]

How am i supposed to write a paper about a course who goes over my head? 😅 i think improvisation is the word who'll follow me tomorrow 😱😅

[Orema]

Good but getting tired of the “same old, same old” routine each day. Have to remind myself I’m one of the lucky ones not forced to go out.

[Stone-Butch]

Happy and confused.

[Kenna]

Extremely, beyond measure, heart broken. On October 12th, I had to have my furbaby, my spirit animal, my little 15 year old love of my life put to rest because he had an enlarged heart that for some damn reason, after spending hundreds (maybe 2 or 3 thousand, I lost count) of dollars over the last 5 years, no one told me this was an issue. No one caught this until it was too late.
15 years he was my shadow and the most amazing companion I could ask for.
Life has been so empty without him.
He deserved better than I could give him.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Wonky, groggy, sleep deprived. I have somehow gotten myself onto a 36-hour sleep schedule - sleep 24 hours for a night and day, be awake all night for 12 hours, sleep 24 hours for a day and night, be awake all day for 12 hours. Oddly, I was trying _not_ to take too may pain pills and sleeping pills, so I only took pain pills when I felt pain and sleeping pills when I needed to sleep at night. The sleeping pills seem to have quit working at night sometimes but then they kick in the next morning and I sleep all day. Maybe I need to take them on a regular schedule regardless of how I feel. Oh, and my Prilosec is off kilter too - I get heartburn at the oddest times.

[kittygrrl]

home....happy to smush my kittens, put out pumpkinshttps://i.pinimg.com/originals/1d/29/7a/1d297a021a616560750c2affbf08f457.jpg...unwind...an d being lazy..no run today..shhh(don't tell):byebye:..oh..private party for two (she tells me), she has "treats"

[Kätzchen]

A combination of high anxiety and feeling scared. My city is on standby for massive rioting if the election goes awry. I am glad to leave town after work and will be worried to come back. :(

[Stone-Butch]

Feeling a little nervous, hoping I am not taking her wrong.

[~ocean]

Extremely, beyond measure, heart broken. On October 12th, I had to have my furbaby, my spirit animal, my little 15 year old love of my life put to rest because he had an enlarged heart that for some damn reason, after spending hundreds (maybe 2 or 3 thousand, I lost count) of dollars over the last 5 years, no one told me this was an issue. No one caught this until it was too late.
15 years he was my shadow and the most amazing companion I could ask for.
Life has been so empty without him.
He deserved better than I could give him.

((((( Kenna ))))))) so sry ~ there are no words to express how deep the loss is. ~

[Buckaroo]

sorry for your loss.

[FireSignFemme]

Woke this morning with a sore shoulder, it's now 3PM and still hurting. I'm starting to think there might be something more than just than slept on it wrong going on here.

[~ocean]

Woke this morning with a sore shoulder, it's now 3PM and still hurting. I'm starting to think there might be something more than just than slept on it wrong going on here.

" hands fire a lidocaine patch " try this !

[Stone-Butch]

Anxious, waiting, hopeful, smiling.

[easygoingfemme]

I'm exhausted, anxious, and frustrated. We have our first covid case at work (I manage a communal living program for 55 women). She was rushed to the hospital at 3am Monday and by noon the DOH was on the phone giving me the news. It has been a sh@t show of epic proportions that I can't even begin to describe. I've been working 18 hour shifts frantically as the state put all residents on mandatory quarantine, putting all new procedures into place for how they can shower/bathroom/eat when all of those areas are common areas. Not to mention the residents themselves who are scared and anxious- worried about losing their jobs, not being able to pay their bills, getting sick. Only one staff member was close enough to her to be at risk and that staff member was my daughter- who was helping her when she went out with the ambulance. So my daughter is on mandatory quarantine and waiting until Thursday when they will test her- but still have to wait days for the result. We have bleached the living daylight out of the whole building and continue to do so several times a day but it's still a crap shoot how this will play out. I arranged for DOH to come on site Thursday to test every resident. And then there's watching the election results trickle in and feeling sick about the state of America.

[akiza]

Sleep deprived, stressed,anxious, fatiguee putain

[kittygrrl]

good..thoughtful...happy

[GeorgiaMa'am]

hungry, sleepy. Not looking forward to a day of doctor's appointments
and lab tests.

[Lecheloco]

Excited and a little nervous after signing up

[Gemme]

Excited and a little nervous after signing up

Speed dating? Book club? Antarctica trip? Space camp?

You can't just drop that ambiguous bomb and walk away. Rude!

Clearly, I am feeling inquisitive today. It's an overcast, drizzly day....which I love, don't get me wrong....and I have it off and have things to do outside the home but I don't wanna so I'm busying myself with being nosey in other people's lives until I face the music and address my own stuff.

[Lecheloco]

Speed dating? Book club? Antarctica trip? Space camp?

You can't just drop that ambiguous bomb and walk away. Rude!

Clearly, I am feeling inquisitive today. It's an overcast, drizzly day....which I love, don't get me wrong....and I have it off and have things to do outside the home but I don't wanna so I'm busying myself with being nosey in other people's lives until I face the music and address my own stuff.

Clearly. You made me really laugh out loud at work, and now I have people looking at me trying to figure it out. I’m grumpy looking so it seems to be a big deal.

Nothing as great as your suggestions, I mean who wouldn’t want to go to space camp, but it was just in reference to signing up for the holiday card exchange on here. I have talked myself out of it the last couple yes I have noticed the thread pop up

[Gemme]

Clearly. You made me really laugh out loud at work, and now I have people looking at me trying to figure it out. I’m grumpy looking so it seems to be a big deal.

Nothing as great as your suggestions, I mean who wouldn’t want to go to space camp, but it was just in reference to signing up for the holiday card exchange on here. I have talked myself out of it the last couple yes I have noticed the thread pop up

Right on! Don't be scared; we don't bite that hard really. It's always nice to get snail mail, I feel.

[Lecheloco]

Dang noticing that took the wind out of my sails
Time to turn on some feel good music and hit the shower, going to be a very long weekend at work

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Sad and lonely.

Diva Kitty passed on yesterday. For weeks she has been looking ill, losing weight and drinking tons of water, peeing everywhere. She's been to the vet twice, who was ultimately unable to help. She had to live in the bathroom for the last month or so, due to the peeing, and that's no way for a cat to live.

She was a good cat. She liked to play, right up until the very end, even though she was an old kitty. Her favorite toy was a red ribbon that I would toss out and jerkily pull towards her. She was inquisitive and interested in things. She liked to be petted, and would occasionally consent to be snuggled. She followed me around the house, and would (usually) come when I called her. She tolerated grooming pretty well, especially when followed by treats. She would tolerate lots of things in exchange for treats - like being snuggled.

So I have no pets now. It feels lonely and weird. And since I'm dealing with this illness of my own right now, I don't foresee adopting any new ones any time soon. I dreamed about two of my former dogs last night. I hope that they and Diva Kitty and all of my other pets are happy together on the other side.

Diva Kitty, I loved you. Thank you for hanging with me for so long.

[Stone-Butch]

Not too sure, getting unsteady sitting on this fence.

[Lecheloco]

Sad and lonely.

Diva Kitty passed on yesterday. For weeks she has been looking ill, losing weight and drinking tons of water, peeing everywhere. She's been to the vet twice, who was ultimately unable to help. She had to live in the bathroom for the last month or so, due to the peeing, and that's no way for a cat to live.

She was a good cat. She liked to play, right up until the very end, even though she was an old kitty. Her favorite toy was a red ribbon that I would toss out and jerkily pull towards her. She was inquisitive and interested in things. She liked to be petted, and would occasionally consent to be snuggled. She followed me around the house, and would (usually) come when I called her. She tolerated grooming pretty well, especially when followed by treats. She would tolerate lots of things in exchange for treats - like being snuggled.

So I have no pets now. It feels lonely and weird. And since I'm dealing with this illness of my own right now, I don't foresee adopting any new ones any time soon. I dreamed about two of my former dogs last night. I hope that they and Diva Kitty and all of my other pets are happy together on the other side.

Diva Kitty, I loved you. Thank you for hanging with me for so long.

I’m sorry for your loss G M lost my little guy last summer and I’m still depressed when I think of him . It’s like losing a part of your heart

[akiza]

Sad,tired and sleepy

[Orema]

Pretty good. I know it's too early to decide on these latest pillows, but I woke up without a stiff neck and am not taking tylenol today.

Could be worse.

[HoldMeSteady]

Sad and lonely.

Diva Kitty passed on yesterday

So very sorry. It's hard to lose an animal companion.

[Stone-Butch]

Feeling very concerned about my older brother. He woke up blind in one eye and Dr. says that sight is gone for good. I spent 3 days with him the beginning of this week and saw how he tried to manage. Not bad but not good either. I guess I will have to go and see him more often. We email daily and talk a couple times a week. I am only an hour away so if he needs me I can go. He is super independent so looking after him is totally out off the question.

[clementinefemme]

Really feeling that seasonal depression. If anyone has any tips, (supplements, etc.) I'd be appreciative (besides a sunlamp, which I already use).

[AlexF]

Have you tried Vitamin D in addition to the sunlamp? I have used it myself and it has helped me.

All the best!



Really feeling that seasonal depression. If anyone has any tips, (supplements, etc.) I'd be appreciative (besides a sunlamp, which I already use).

[Gemme]

Really feeling that seasonal depression. If anyone has any tips, (supplements, etc.) I'd be appreciative (besides a sunlamp, which I already use).

Other than the vitamin D that AlexF mentioned, supplements usually aren't taken in my experience. There are medications but require prescriptions. Almost all of the articles I found list these as the best way to combat S.A.D. : exercise, social connectivity and light. Basically, trick your eyes and mind into thinking it's lighter, brighter happier times.

When I developed S.A.D., I'd moved from FL to WA in February. I went from a moderate temperature and crisp, sunny skies to a persistent pearl grey sky and rain that stung my face and eyes like cold needles when it struck me. Also, it was 32 degrees. Huge difference. Throw in that I was in a brand new place and didn't know anyone except my partner and pets, depression was pretty much inevitable.

Unfortunately, I didn't really pull myself out of it consciously so I can't offer you any real wisdom there. It just kind of wandered off into the shadows after a few months but it was rough until it did and it's never 100% gone. It pops up now and again but much less than before. By the time it did wean off a bit, I had a good very social job and I had made some friends and I was enjoying life more so there's definitely something with that whole social component. COVID has really screwed that up for folks now.

Exercise would give you endorphins and that helps. I felt lighter and had a more positive outlook after a workout, even the light ones or the ones where I didn't accomplish what I wanted. Now, I take walks regularly and even the ones when I'm dragging a bit or just puttering around help me feel better than before I started.

I find myself more productive during daylight so this dark before 5pm thing is not helping me organize my craft room! I do sit in front of the screen more than I should but nothing like it used to be all those years ago.

Sorry I couldn't be more helpful. I think if you can scrounge up the effort to get yourself up and at 'em doing whatever makes you happiest, it might help. I hope you feel better.

For myself....currently....I am procrastinating taking my nightly walk. It's cold out there! The low for tonight is 18 degrees. My little grey hoodie won't cut it tonight. Mama's gonna bring out the big guns. I won't be able to hear the sounds of the night because of all the swish, swish, swish in my ears from the hood but I'll be toasty warm and I feel that's not a bad thing.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

My down spirits are usually holiday-related this time of year - a result of growing up wondering why my family wasn't like the Brady Bunch.

I'm feeling pretty good and prepared for the upcoming holiday season. Going to get Uber delivery for the Thanksgiving meal, and spend it with two good friends. I ordered my holiday cards and stamps, and it will take me some time to fill all of those out and mail them. I haven't started gift shopping yet, but hopefully I can get to that soon. I'm going to just have a small tree in my bedroom this year - some friends are going to decorate my bedroom for the season.

These are a few holiday traditions I like to stick with every year, as they keep me from getting the blues. Another important thing for me to remember is to have _no_expectations_. I get back about half the number of holiday cards I send out, but everyone seems to enjoy getting mine. People are like, "I enjoy reading your newsy cards! I just don't have time any more at the holidays and so I quit sending them." I get phone calls and emails instead.

One holiday tradition I won't be able to keep up with this year is baking cookies. What with COVID, who could I give them to, anyway? I might make one or two batches for myself and my friends who come over. But honestly, I don't know if I will have the energy to do so. We'll see. Hopefully my self-imposed holiday puttering will ward off the seasonal blues.

[akiza]

Je suis morte de fatigue 😥not only because of school but ne the usual i hate feeling on autopilot

[GeorgiaMa'am]

ELATED! I spoke to the oncology doctor and the PET scan showed that they got all the cancer out when they did the surgery. Yay! Basically, I am cancer free!

I still have to do the chemo, though, just in case there are any microscopic particles of cancer floating around that are too small for the PET scan to catch. But it will be worth it. The chemo will give me a 50% better chance that there will be no recurrence.

[Kelt]

ELATED! I spoke to the oncology doctor and the PET scan showed that they got all the cancer out when they did the surgery. Yay! Basically, I am cancer free!

I still have to do the chemo, though, just in case there are any microscopic particles of cancer floating around that are too small for the PET scan to catch. But it will be worth it. The chemo will give me a 50% better chance that there will be no recurrence.

:balloon::happyjump::cheer:

:pile:

[FireSignFemme]

ELATED! I spoke to the oncology doctor and the PET scan showed that they got all the cancer out when they did the surgery. Yay! Basically, I am cancer free!

I still have to do the chemo, though, just in case there are any microscopic particles of cancer floating around that are too small for the PET scan to catch. But it will be worth it. The chemo will give me a 50% better chance that there will be no recurrence.

That's such great news for you and your loved ones. What a kick ass way to start off/head into the new year - congrats!

[Kätzchen]

ELATED! I spoke to the oncology doctor and the PET scan showed that they got all the cancer out when they did the surgery. Yay! Basically, I am cancer free!

I still have to do the chemo, though, just in case there are any microscopic particles of cancer floating around that are too small for the PET scan to catch. But it will be worth it. The chemo will give me a 50% better chance that there will be no recurrence.

That is so awesome, Georgia! There are several people in my life here at home who are battling cancer; so I know how special it is to get a positive outcome like this. Hooray for you! :bunchflowers:

[homoe]

ELATED! I spoke to the oncology doctor and the PET scan showed that they got all the cancer out when they did the surgery. Yay! Basically, I am cancer free!

I still have to do the chemo, though, just in case there are any microscopic particles of cancer floating around that are too small for the PET scan to catch. But it will be worth it. The chemo will give me a 50% better chance that there will be no recurrence.


Wonderful news indeed! So happy for you GeorgiaMa'am....

[homoe]

My down spirits are usually holiday-related this time of year - a result of growing up wondering why my family wasn't like the Brady Bunch.

I'm feeling pretty good and prepared for the upcoming holiday season. Going to get Uber delivery for the Thanksgiving meal, and spend it with two good friends. I ordered my holiday cards and stamps, and it will take me some time to fill all of those out and mail them. I haven't started gift shopping yet, but hopefully I can get to that soon. I'm going to just have a small tree in my bedroom this year - some friends are going to decorate my bedroom for the season.

These are a few holiday traditions I like to stick with every year, as they keep me from getting the blues. Another important thing for me to remember is to have _no_expectations_. I get back about half the number of holiday cards I send out, but everyone seems to enjoy getting mine. People are like, "I enjoy reading your newsy cards! I just don't have time any more at the holidays and so I quit sending them." I get phone calls and emails instead.

One holiday tradition I won't be able to keep up with this year is baking cookies. What with COVID, who could I give them to, anyway? I might make one or two batches for myself and my friends who come over. But honestly, I don't know if I will have the energy to do so. We'll see. Hopefully my self-imposed holiday puttering will ward off the seasonal blues.

I have a sneaking suspicion more people than usual may be sending out Holiday cards this year. And on a more personal note, I remember being in the postcard exchange with you and loved all you sent me! In fact I have the Coca-Cola one in a small frame...:hangloose:

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I have a sneaking suspicion more people than usual may be sending out Holiday cards this year. And on a more personal note, I remember being in the postcard exchange with you and loved all you sent me! In fact I have the Coca-Cola one in a small frame...:hangloose:

I would love it if sending out holiday cards became a thing again. They're fun to get in the mail. They're festive to hang in the house. They're good reminders to people that they are important in your life.

You were great at sending postcards, too, homoe. That was a fun project! I still have several of yours . . .

[Stone-Butch]

We had a few days of really nice weather and although it has turned cold no snow so all is well. Clear and cool is nice weather for me.

[Lecheloco]

I am feeling very optimistic about my new career.
I started yesterday and today I am looking forward to going to work, it has been quite a minute since I have felt like that

[Orema]

Better. Found a huge lump on my collar bone this weekend. Doctor was able to see me today and after examining it he told me it osteoarthritis and assured me it had noting to do with parathyroid problem. I was concerned because it’s close to my parathyroid.

When I found it on Saturday, my first thought was, oh, I’ve lost so much weight I can feel my bones. LOL

I stopped smiling when this “bone” was only on one side of my body.

Feeling much better.

[Stone-Butch]

Slowly getting through this holiday season and trying to keep my head above water with depression. I have spent most of it watching tv and a bit of time in here. After losing my best friend/cousin, I find out she was cremated and kept away from all her friends, not buried with her husband or mom and dad so none can go to pay respects and I spoke to a close friend of hers down home and they are all very upset, no funeral to attend and no grave to oversee. These were closer to her than family for many many years. I feel very sad for them also as they are all older women and most are living alone and they all hung out together. Life is not fair at times so even if I get down there no connection will be made. I hope her daughter gets some satisfaction from keeping her on her mantle.

[Orema]

Dreading that I'm getting ready to list my place back on the market. Which means I've got to start looking for places again, placing offers, accepting offers. Sitting in parking lots while people view my place. I would gladly shop, dine alone, check out a movie, visit some nearby friends, hang out in local book stores, shoot some pool with the local yokels.... but of course I can't.

I'm having a hard time being graceful and appreciative about this move. It will be joyful once I find a place. More than anything I think it's being in limbo that has me out of joint. Half my shit is packed in the garage. Thank goodness Mitzi and I labeled all the boxes. Last week I needed mango butter and bees wax. Was able to find them.

Feeling good about my cannabis concoctions. The canna-coconut oil and salve I made came out great and the salve is way less expensive than buying from the dispensary. I'll post the recipes if anyone is interested.

[Bèsame*]

Thrilled!
My bestie from high school is planning to visit! It looks like the summer if all things go smooth for travelers. Once she gets here we will be taking a road trip. Find all the beaches we can as we head towards the Caribbean sea. Well, I think it's a blend of many waters. I'm just thinking of all the girl chat time!

It's good to have something to look forward too!

[clay]

Getting married in 41 days to THE love of my life. We are having so much fun picking her lacy, light pink dress, and wild socks for my feet. I put on my tux the other night for her...she was so happy...she has never seen a woman in a tux. She is ordering wild socks with butterflies on a pink background for me to wear with my leather Italian dress shoes! Trying to decide on a vest, cumberbund, & bowtie color...perhaps a pastel pink to match her.

IN a few weeks we will begin consolidating our respective households, as I am moving with her! She owns her own home.

Parting ways each Sunday evening is getting really OLD! BUT we have 9 days when we get married, she is taking vacay...we are going to daytrip around the state. We want to sell her place for a bigger place, with a pool & garden space!!

[FireSignFemme]

Pretty dang good. I did the math and discovered I can have my debt completely paid off in four months if I Scrooge it, am dilligent about it. Or just six if I afford myself a bit of fun each month, and that's without any additional COVID relife monies. It would sure be great if we get another stimulus check but I'm not banking on it. However if we do, I'm going to reward myself with something major I've been wanting for a very long time – a freezer! For which I will pay cash. Lesson learned.

[Orema]

In a funk. Political days like yesterday take the wind out of my sails so much that it’s hard to get out the bed sometimes. I get up though because that’s exactly what the haters want.

Got rid of cable news last year and now I read most of my news online. This way I have more control over the news I take in, but of course even that didn’t help yesterday.

I’m already thinking of how I will get out of this funk, but I know the only way is to sit in it for awhile without concern of “getting out’ of it.

[homoe]

~~
Sickened because I am sure, even though there are various charges that could be imposed, that none will against Trump, Trump Jr, or Rudy!

[Cin]

~~
Sickened because I am sure, even though there are various charges that could be imposed, that none will against Trump, Trump Jr, or Rudy!

There aren't even any charges being imposed on the rioters. Despite the bizarre request by the FBI for help identifying the terrorists and despite numerous videos and pics of these people, some where they actually identify themselves and confess their crimes, no arrests of these people have been made. Law enforcement has become strangely inept at handling rioters all of a sudden.

[Cin]

Angry. Sickened.

This is from the head of the Chicago Police Union.

“Do I support the Capitol attack? I wouldn’t have partaken in it. They’re individuals. They get to do what they want. Again, they were voicing frustration. They’re entitled to voice their frustration."

They're frustrated? So they get to do what they want? Seriously? BLM protestors they're not frustrated? They're not entitled to voice their frustration? Those protestors you meet in full riot gear.

Before much more time passes they will water down what has happened at the Capitol and make it sound like some good people, good and special people, because of being so frustrated and incited by Trump and some others made some poor decisions but overall they were just misguided patriots trying to do the right thing.

One thing I can thank Donald Trump for is showing us all what the heart of the US really looks like.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

One thing I can thank Donald Trump for is showing us all what the heart of the US really looks like.

Disheartened and sickened. I really, really want to believe that this is not what most Americans are like. I really want to believe that most Americans are not sheeple, who will go along with T***p's Hitleresque propaganda. I really want to believe that America is a great experiment where with hard work, though not perfect and not played out yet, and though unfortunately with a lot of blood and grief, people are learning to live together happily and productively in one multicultural society.

I could adopt a more cynical viewpoint, and I do at times. But it makes me feel hopeless and sad about the world. I can't go through life in despair. So I'll keep taking my antidepressants, striving to live with compassion, looking at all sides of the situation as much as possible. I need the inspiration of people like Martin Luther King, Jr., the Buddha, Gandhi, and Jesus of Nazareth in my life. Because I simply can not live like this, with the crappiness of what we have been through for the past day (or the past 500 years of America).

I'm reminded of these lyrics from a song by Nancy Griffith. I suppose you might take them with a grain of salt.

"I was a child in the sixties
when dreams could be had through TV
With Disney, and Cronkite, and Martin Luther
And I believed, I believed, oh I believed.

". . . It's a hard life wherever you go
And if we poison our children with hatred
Then, a hard life is all that they'll know."

:bigcry:

[Kätzchen]

I have been having massive panic attacks (PTSD) over my six figure debt to US D. of Ed....and over the daily assault by the sex perp in the WH. I just read two minutes ago that he plans to pardon himself.


That is what a narccisist does: they jerk you around daily, nightly, a never ending hirricane of bullshit and threats and (....).

Me too#
:bigcry:

[Cin]

Disheartened and sickened. I really, really want to believe that this is not what most Americans are like. I really want to believe that most Americans are not sheeple, who will go along with T***p's Hitleresque propaganda. I really want to believe that America is a great experiment where with hard work, though not perfect and not played out yet, and though unfortunately with a lot of blood and grief, people are learning to live together happily and productively in one multicultural society.

I could adopt a more cynical viewpoint, and I do at times. But it makes me feel hopeless and sad about the world. I can't go through life in despair. So I'll keep taking my antidepressants, striving to live with compassion, looking at all sides of the situation as much as possible. I need the inspiration of people like Martin Luther King, Jr., the Buddha, Gandhi, and Jesus of Nazareth in my life. Because I simply can not live like this, with the crappiness of what we have been through for the past day (or the past 500 years of America).

I'm reminded of these lyrics from a song by Nancy Griffith. I suppose you might take them with a grain of salt.

"I was a child in the sixties
when dreams could be had through TV
With Disney, and Cronkite, and Martin Luther
And I believed, I believed, oh I believed.

". . . It's a hard life wherever you go
And if we poison our children with hatred
Then, a hard life is all that they'll know."

:bigcry:

I totally get where you are coming from. And I too have hopes and dreams for my country. I agree with what you are saying and the words to that song are meaningful. It is always best to keep a positive attitude.

However in some cases if you don't drag certain things out into the light they slither around in the dark and their power grows and grows. You can't defeat something you can't see. White supremacy is woven deeply into the fabric of the US. It's in our DNA. Systemic racism is the other side of that coin. There is a great deal invested in keeping this status quo. There always has been. A black Metro D.C. police officer who was on duty yesterday said in a public Facebook post that off-duty police officers and members of the military, who were among the rioters, flashed their badges and I.D. cards as they attempted to overrun the building. “If these people can storm the Capitol building with no regard to punishment, you have to wonder how much they abuse their powers when they put on their uniforms,” the officer wrote.

In a poll released by YouGov this morning, almost half of Republicans support the pro-Trump protesters who stormed the Capitol. A lot of these people who are Trump supporters are police, retired police, ex military. Which explains why over and over you hear witnesses of yesterday's debacle marvel how these terrorists were not at all afraid of the police. How can we expect any change when law enforcement is so invested in maintaining a white supremacist ideology unless we shine a light in the dark. How can we really change if we never even examine the truth of who we are because it makes us feel uncomfortable. You have to start from where you are at. Otherwise it's just more lies and God knows we have enough of those. It's better to look at the truth painful as it is because the truth has the potential to set you free.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I totally get where you are coming from. And I too have hopes and dreams for my country. I agree with what you are saying and the words to that song are meaningful. It is always best to keep a positive attitude.

However in some cases if you don't drag certain things out into the light they slither around in the dark and their power grows and grows. You can't defeat something you can't see. White supremacy is woven deeply into the fabric of the US. It's in our DNA. Systemic racism is the other side of that coin. There is a great deal invested in keeping this status quo. There always has been. A black Metro D.C. police officer who was on duty yesterday said in a public Facebook post that off-duty police officers and members of the military, who were among the rioters, flashed their badges and I.D. cards as they attempted to overrun the building. “If these people can storm the Capitol building with no regard to punishment, you have to wonder how much they abuse their powers when they put on their uniforms,” the officer wrote.

In a poll released by YouGov this morning, almost half of Republicans support the pro-Trump protesters who stormed the Capitol. A lot of these people who are Trump supporters are police, retired police, ex military. Which explains why over and over you hear witnesses of yesterday's debacle marvel how these terrorists were not at all afraid of the police. How can we expect any change when law enforcement is so invested in maintaining a white supremacist ideology unless we shine a light in the dark. How can we really change if we never even examine the truth of who we are because it makes us feel uncomfortable. You have to start from where you are at. Otherwise it's just more lies and God knows we have enough of those. It's better to look at the truth painful as it is because the truth has the potential to set you free.

Thank you Cin. I totally agree with everything you say here. Of course it is important to continue to fight the good fight, deeply examine our flaws as individuals and a nation and a planet, and bring the dregs out into the light. There is some pain involved in doing so, but it's a good pain that accompanies healing ultimately. I was really just talking about how I _feel_ right now, in the spirit of what this thread is about.

That is interesting about the D.C. Metro police officer. I had not heard that viewpoint yet. It confirms what we already know, that many police officers and military personnel seem to have a sense of entitlement to one-sided violence. It also explains why some Capitol Police were opening doors for the protesters and taking selfies with them. I strongly hope that those cases that were captured by social media will be dealt with appropriately.

[Cin]

I was really just talking about how I _feel_ right now, in the spirit of what this thread is about.


Oh ya. This IS the "And how are you feeling thread?" Sorry about that. :bunchflowers:

I'm feeling a tad silly at the moment. But at least I'm thread compliant this time.:)

[Orema]

Better. Not feeling as paralyzed or “stuck” this morning as I did yesterday.

[nanners]

i’m feeling extremely blessed! 2020 was quite the year, my beloved cat Mickey ran away but in spite of that the year was a good year for me. I got sober and have been sober for 9 months now, I got married to the most kind, patient and understanding butch who loves me as much as I live her, and I figured out a way to retire within the next 1.5 years. I’ve become closer than ever to my parents, and my husbutch is close to them too... and what really amazes me is that my parents love her! My parents have NEVER cared for my choice in butches I’ve had relationships with...usually with good reason.

This year I have a list of 20 intentions and have started on 3 of them already. I feel great physically and I love working from home. Hopefully within the next year I’ll be moving south to be with my husbutch, we have a beautiful home on an acre of land. I’ll have a craft room/office and I love the kitchen.
Life has never been better and I feel truly happy and extremely blessed.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Oh ya. This IS the "And how are you feeling thread?" Sorry about that. :bunchflowers:

I'm feeling a tad silly at the moment. But at least I'm thread compliant this time.:)

No need to feel silly. It was an overwhelming day for most people. Thanks!

* * *

OREMA - ^5! Good for you!

* * *

I'm no longer feeling so overwhelmed, either. Let's get back on the horse!

[Orema]

No need to feel silly. It was an overwhelming day for most people. Thanks!

* * *

OREMA - ^5! Good for you!

* * *

I'm no longer feeling so overwhelmed, either. Let's get back on the horse!

Right back atcha, GeorgiaMa'am! Back on the horse, indeed!

[easygoingfemme]

Frustrated. Pretty sure one of my co-workers is about to test positive. Her partner tested positive this morning. I had like four meetings with her yesterday and one this morning before her partner got their results. She ate lunch in my daughter's office yesterday- obviously not with a mask on. I know she and her partner travelled for Christmas and I've been extra careful wearing a mask around her but this is probably going to mean I have to quarantine, as will my daughter. She's also a counselor here so she's potentially exposed dozens of residents.

[Gemme]

Well, I'm officially down 35 pounds since September so I'm feeling pretty darn good right about now.

[Bèsame*]

Well, I'm officially down 35 pounds since September so I'm feeling pretty darn good right about now.

Awesomeness!!! Great job!!!

[Orema]

A little bummed because my unemployment pay was discontinued but I’ll manage.

[clementinefemme]

I'm feeling frustrated. Could use some advice.

How do you know when someone is really guarded and needs love and care to open them up versus when someone truly just has the emotional depth of a toothbrush? How much time should I invest in this process?

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I'm feeling frustrated. Could use some advice.

How do you know when someone is really guarded and needs love and care to open them up versus when someone truly just has the emotional depth of a toothbrush? How much time should I invest in this process?

I guess you just have to weigh how much you like them already versus the value of your time. I would suggest that you keep in mind that your personal brand of "love and care" may not be what is required to "open them up". And try not to fall in love - yet - because betting on changing a person into someone you want them to be is usually a losing bet. Good luck!

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I'm feeling overstuffed and sleepy because I had quite a large breakfast. I'm also feeling accomplished because I finally tried a recipe that I found on TikTok.

[homoe]

~~~
Restless! i

And it can't be "cabin fever" because it WAY too early in the season for that right....:|

[Gemme]

I'm feeling frustrated. Could use some advice.

How do you know when someone is really guarded and needs love and care to open them up versus when someone truly just has the emotional depth of a toothbrush? How much time should I invest in this process?

Is this the person that drove off to let you move stuff by yourself? Am I remembering that right? If so, and you've talked to them about that and nothing has changed for the better, move on. But before you do, make it absolutely clear as to what the consequences will be and why you are letting go. Do not make an ultimatum but let them know that you're trying and you aren't getting anything back and you aren't willing to spend a lifetime trying to crack whatever kind of nut they are. Then listen to them. Really listen. Are they talking in circles just to get you to hang around or are they trying too, but not in the way you want them to? That would create two very different results, if it were me.

[VintageFemme]

Emotionally whipped and we're not even halfway through January!

[theoddz]

Well, I'm feeling a little "muted", so to speak, but aside from my sore left arm, I'm doing well. :)

I had my first COVID-19 vaccination yesterday. :twitch:

I think I'll just take it easy today, sit around in my underwear and eat snacks all day.

Life's good. :winky:

~Theo~ :bouquet:

[GeorgiaMa'am]

~~~
Restless! i

And it can't be "cabin fever" because it WAY too early in the season for that right....:|

I think we've all got cabin fever due to isolating. I keep dreaming of running away to a beach vacation . . . then I remember that people are isolating and social distancing on the beaches, too.

[Cin]

I'm tired of juggling the horrifying and the devastating.

I'm with Randy Rainbow and I wish the horrifying assault on democracy would end so I can get back to my devastating pandemic.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

After Wednesday's Capitol event, I think I'm going through the stages of grief. At first I had disbelief, and now I'm just angry. Bargaining - meh, I don't see it happening any time soon. And I don't think I'll ever make it to acceptance, but I don't want to hang around in depression forever, either.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Feeling disappointed and a little depressed. I didn't hear back about Reddy, so I guess she found her forever home with someone else. I expect the right dog for me will come along - they always have a way of finding me. I had such a good feeling about Red though. <sigh>

[EmeraldLioness]

:moonstars:Calm...introspective...tired

[Gemme]

I'm annoyed with the state. I had my federal taxes about done and was working on the state taxes and when I go to finish it all up, a blurb pops up saying I can't finish my state taxes for 3 more days. This is what I get for trying to get ahead of the stampede.

[homoe]

I'm annoyed with the state. I had my federal taxes about done and was working on the state taxes and when I go to finish it all up, a blurb pops up saying I can't finish my state taxes for 3 more days. This is what I get for trying to get ahead of the stampede.


You can't win for losing...:|

[easygoingfemme]

I'm annoyed with the state. I had my federal taxes about done and was working on the state taxes and when I go to finish it all up, a blurb pops up saying I can't finish my state taxes for 3 more days. This is what I get for trying to get ahead of the stampede.

Yup. Me too. They are like... well well well early bird, we're not ready for you!



I'm feeling relieved to be home. The snow is horrible right now and our city sucks at keeping up with the streets. While I was making my commute home I knew my daughter was making her commute in to work so it was double stress. What is normally a 10 minute drive took both of us 45 minutes. Now I have to deal with waiting until after 1am to hear that she made it home.

I'm also feeling hungry now that the panic from driving has let go of my stomach.

[Stone-Butch]

Feeling pretty good. My brother is on his way here its been a while. He and I only go shopping for groceries and don't see anyone else so I think it is ok. If not, I would rather share his virus than a stranger (not) LOL.

[Gemme]

I feel good. My hair's almost dry from my shower and the laundry is almost done so it'll be bedtime soon. I'm getting that slightly dozy feeling when the body knows sleep is not far off.

[homoe]

~~
I think it's mainly due to travel restrictions but who knows!

I'm also sick of this place where I'm plunked, out in god's country on green acres, with no chance of any excitement happening whatsoever!

I've mostly been a "glass half full" type, but it's getting harder and harder to remain so... :|

[Stone-Butch]

Not feeling too bad but would feel a lot better if it was warmer than 17 out there in that warm "looking" sunshine".

[FireSignFemme]

I keep feeling this sense of dread and doom I just can't shake. Like whatever it is, I better hurry up and duck before it flies straight at me and hits me in the face.

[Orema]

Feeling good. Things are going well and better than planned. I should be in a hotel on Lake Michigan this time next week anxiously waiting to see my new place.

This coming week will be a blur with final packing, hauling, movers, cleaning, traveling, hotels, goodbyes.

Thank goodness for the good girlfriends I have who are helping me through this transition. From talking me through my anxieties to helping me decide on renovations (no one has anything good to say about popcorn ceilings!) to packing, helping me organize and research quotes, and reminding me of what I need and need not do.

I have taken organization to a new level, at least for me. My packed boxes are color coded and numbered. I am taking inventory before and after the move, and before signing off on anything. Hopefully this will help. We’ll see. I on’t have it in me to take the movers to court if things dont go well, but I’ll do what I can to prevent anything bad from happening.

So, I’m feeling good, excited, sentimental. Life is good.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

. . . no one has anything good to say about popcorn ceilings!


Nope.



I have taken organization to a new level . . .

So, I’m feeling good, excited, sentimental. Life is good.

Sounds like you have it all under control, and like an auspicious beginning!

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I am feeling sore all over, like I've been sat on by an elephant. I understand this can be one of the lingering symptoms from Covid though - hopefully it is temporary. It is supposed to be mostly sunny with a high of 56*F tomorrow, so I'm planning to walk outside with my rollator in the driveway. Hopefully, that will help me shrug off whatever this is.

[Stone-Butch]

OK what powers that be are annoyed with me? Yesterday I thought it would be nice to be a little warmer than 17 and mother nature was listening. Today it is changed and it is now 10. Consequently I need to watch who I am making requests from eh.

[Canela]

I'm feeling great! After being home sick for a week, today I'm back at work and it's amazing. I missed all my co-workers and patients and they missed me. :rrose:

Feeling appreciated...

[Stone-Butch]

Got a surprise visit from the family. The little one charged at me down the hall calling to me. She says she misses me every day. We had a fabulous visit and I got lots of needed hugs and I love you. So, I am a happy camper. They brought me some fresh fish from their shopping and I will have that tomorrow. Turned out to be a fine day after all.

[JustLovelyJenn]

I have been feeling like I am on a roller coaster ride lately... but today its... motivated. I am actually doing some of the things on my to-do list!

[Orema]

Good and apprehensive.

I’m in Michigan and it’s as cold and as beautiful as I remember. It was snowing when I arrived yesterday and I dreaded it as soon as I saw it. But after riding through neighborhoods for just few minutes I was reminded of just how beautiful the snow could be.

The sale transitioned smoothly and the movers were just great. They took care in wrapping/protecting my furniture and even vacuumed my area rugs before loading them (which I had planned on doing but they got to it first—I asked them to pack the vacuum cleaner last.) I couldn’t have asked for a better moving team.

Am apprehensive on seeing the condo next week, meeting contractors for renovations, and probably being my own project manager for any changes made. This is the 2nd part of the transition. Thank goodness it’s a three-day weekend and I can chill like a villain before the fun starts again. Also apprehensive about the my shit being in storage. They have to unwrap what the movers wrapped and then re-wrap it. Some of my things might be jacked, but I’m doing the best I can.

[homoe]

Good and apprehensive.

I’m in Michigan and it’s as cold and as beautiful as I remember. It was snowing when I arrived yesterday and I dreaded it as soon as I saw it. But after riding through neighborhoods for just few minutes I was reminded of just how beautiful the snow could be.

The sale transitioned smoothly and the movers were just great. They took care in wrapping/protecting my furniture and even vacuumed my area rugs before loading them (which I had planned on doing but they got to it first—I asked them to pack the vacuum cleaner last.) I couldn’t have asked for a better moving team.

Congrats woman, glad to hear you've arrived safe & sound...:hangloose:
Am apprehensive on seeing the condo next week, meeting contractors for renovations, and probably being my own project manager for any changes made. This is the 2nd part of the transition. Thank goodness it’s a three-day weekend and I can chill like a villain before the fun starts again. Also apprehensive about the my shit being in storage. They have to unwrap what the movers wrapped and then re-wrap it. Some of my things might be jacked, but I’m doing the best I can.

Congrats woman! Glad to hear you arrived safe & sound!

[homoe]

~~~
cranky!

[MrSunshine]

Breeze...drifting on by and you know how I feel.... what a beautiful day!

[Stone-Butch]

Feeling rather happy as there has been tons of snow falling up north and down south of here but have gotten none that has stayed even though it is freezing cold. Cold and sunny is a lot better than snow for driving.

[Orema]

Better. Yesterday I fell in the snow in front of the condo. I didn’t try to break the fall, sorta rode with it, and ended up bruising my hip. It’s still tender, but could be worse.

Thankfully, most days I won’t have to walk in the snow as I did yesterday.

I need to get some winter boots and a cute parka or winter coat. I’ll get around to it.

:bow:

[GeorgiaMa'am]

Better. Yesterday I fell in the snow in front of the condo. I didn’t try to break the fall, sorta rode with it, and ended up bruising my hip. It’s still tender, but could be worse.

OMG, Orema, be careful! Glad you're okay!

I need to get some winter boots and a cute parka . . .

Is there such a thing as a "cute parka"?

How about some Yaktrax (https://www.nytimes.com/wirecutter/out/link/17522/54344/4/127163?merchant=Amazon)? Although there are some really cute winter boots (https://www.self.com/gallery/stylish-snow-boots) out there. (I really like the Moon Boot Monaco Low WP 2 Snow Boots.)

https://i.imgur.com/fnhtZNzm.png

[Orema]

OMG, Orema, be careful! Glad you're okay!



Is there such a thing as a "cute parka"?

How about some Yaktrax (https://www.nytimes.com/wirecutter/out/link/17522/54344/4/127163?merchant=Amazon)? Although there are some really cute winter boots (https://www.self.com/gallery/stylish-snow-boots) out there. (I really like the Moon Boot Monaco Low WP 2 Snow Boots.)

https://i.imgur.com/fnhtZNzm.png

Thank you for thinking of me and providing these links!! You are the best, GeorgiaMa’am :)

I am hoping for a cute parka, maybe in a soft pink. I’ll find something but it may not be till the season is over. I’m wearing a nice and thick jacket that I can layer with sweaters underneath.

I think I’d rather fall than wear the Yaktrax, but I may buy some ice cleats (https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08G1K5MCK/ref=ox_sc_act_title_1?smid=AGF7U3D5XBK1R&psc=1) for added protection.

Am digging the boots at the other link you included: so many are cute and I love the faux fur. Thanks again.

[homoe]

Better. Yesterday I fell in the snow in front of the condo. I didn’t try to break the fall, sorta rode with it, and ended up bruising my hip. It’s still tender, but could be worse.

Thankfully, most days I won’t have to walk in the snow as I did yesterday.

I need to get some winter boots and a cute parka or winter coat. I’ll get around to it.

:bow:

OH MY GOSH, yes do be careful and especially where you fall! Gosh forbid you fall into one of those Michigan huge snowbanks! You maybe not be fished out until spring...:|

[homoe]

Better. Yesterday I fell in the snow in front of the condo. I didn’t try to break the fall, sorta rode with it, and ended up bruising my hip. It’s still tender, but could be worse.

Thankfully, most days I won’t have to walk in the snow as I did yesterday.

I need to get some winter boots and a cute parka or winter coat. I’ll get around to it.

:bow:

https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/515jrg9APKL._AC_UY218_.jpg

May I suggest something a bit longer, like this, with a hood? It'll keep your upper legs warmer and the hoods prevents heat escaping through your head!

[FireSignFemme]

Optimistic and hopeful

[Reach *BANNED*]

I feel extremely fortunate to have the people in my world that I do. I need to start telling them that a lot more.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I'm feeling like I'm continually getting better all the time. It has been a long, hard road, but I am getting more endurance as time goes by. For instance, I haven't been able to change the sheets on my bed for a long time - probably since last February, or longer. Friends have helped me change them, and sometimes I would try to help; but I would have to take a break between every piece of linen. Put on half the mattress pad - lie down on the bed for a minute. Put on half the fitted sheet - lie down on the bed for a minute. Put on half the flat sheet . . . you see how this went. Most people just said they would do it all themselves. But tonight a friend was helping me change the sheets, and I didn't have to take any breaks at all! and I wasn't out of breath! And I didn't collapse when it was over!

I'm also feeling some apprehension. My chemo was finally rescheduled after my bout with Covid, and I begin on Monday. I'm having a port placed this Thursday. Truth to tell, I'm freaking out a little bit. I haven't cut my hair yet - I'm not sure when to cut it. Will my hair all fall out after the first treatment? Or will it take two or more treatments for it to fall out? I have no idea. I have some good web resources to read about the whole process, but I haven't been able to make myself read them yet, because I start to get agitated and nervous. I guess I will be reading that this weekend. Wish me luck, please!

[Orema]

I'm feeling like I'm continually getting better all the time. It has been a long, hard road, but I am getting more endurance as time goes by. For instance, I haven't been able to change the sheets on my bed for a long time - probably since last February, or longer. Friends have helped me change them, and sometimes I would try to help; but I would have to take a break between every piece of linen. Put on half the mattress pad - lie down on the bed for a minute. Put on half the fitted sheet - lie down on the bed for a minute. Put on half the flat sheet . . . you see how this went. Most people just said they would do it all themselves. But tonight a friend was helping me change the sheets, and I didn't have to take any breaks at all! and I wasn't out of breath! And I didn't collapse when it was over!

I'm also feeling some apprehension. My chemo was finally rescheduled after my bout with Covid, and I begin on Monday. I'm having a port placed this Thursday. Truth to tell, I'm freaking out a little bit. I haven't cut my hair yet - I'm not sure when to cut it. Will my hair all fall out after the first treatment? Or will it take two or more treatments for it to fall out? I have no idea. I have some good web resources to read about the whole process, but I haven't been able to make myself read them yet, because I start to get agitated and nervous. I guess I will be reading that this weekend. Wish me luck, please!

Congrat’s on your progress, GM! So glad your energy, strength and endurance are improving. :)

Here’s hoping your weekend reading isn’t too stressful. If you’re open to it, maybe a trusted friend or relative can sit with you and discuss the possible side effects while you read up on chemo.

Am thinking of you and sending light, love, and lots of good juju your way! (f)

[easygoingfemme]

I'm feeling like I'm continually getting better all the time. It has been a long, hard road, but I am getting more endurance as time goes by. For instance, I haven't been able to change the sheets on my bed for a long time - probably since last February, or longer. Friends have helped me change them, and sometimes I would try to help; but I would have to take a break between every piece of linen. Put on half the mattress pad - lie down on the bed for a minute. Put on half the fitted sheet - lie down on the bed for a minute. Put on half the flat sheet . . . you see how this went. Most people just said they would do it all themselves. But tonight a friend was helping me change the sheets, and I didn't have to take any breaks at all! and I wasn't out of breath! And I didn't collapse when it was over!

I'm also feeling some apprehension. My chemo was finally rescheduled after my bout with Covid, and I begin on Monday. I'm having a port placed this Thursday. Truth to tell, I'm freaking out a little bit. I haven't cut my hair yet - I'm not sure when to cut it. Will my hair all fall out after the first treatment? Or will it take two or more treatments for it to fall out? I have no idea. I have some good web resources to read about the whole process, but I haven't been able to make myself read them yet, because I start to get agitated and nervous. I guess I will be reading that this weekend. Wish me luck, please!

Wonderful news on the successful increase of your endurance.

Having gone through port placement/chemo/hair loss myself, I'd be happy to talk to you about how I experienced it and some things I did to help myself through it. Feel free to PM me if you want to chat at all. Outside of that, I'm sending you loads of positivity, energy, healing, and calm.

[Orema]

Pretty good. The condo is as nice as I was hoping it would be. Don’t have a basement, but a crawl space with insulation and a concrete floor. I was misled on who controls the sprinkler system on my lot but there’s not much I can do about that now. Will probably need a new HVAC unit, but won’t know till summer.

Will move in next week after the flooring is installed this weekend. Meeting the floor guy this morning to receive delivery of materials. He wants the flooring material to sit for a couple days in the condo before laying it out.

Am also meetiing the last of the contractors on the shower conversion this morning. He came by last week but didn’t bring any samples, only a measuring tape. So he was unable to leave me an estimate. I’ve decided to go with the 2nd contractor who had his act together. I will still meet this guy today if he shows up.

Have found a good “handy” person who will run a gas line to the kitchen, install the ring video door bell and some other things I need.

Think I’ll be happy in my new femme cave, but it will be awhile before it’s all done.

Am keeping the popcorn ceilings for now.

:bow:

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I'm feeling pretty good! I've gotten some great advice (thanks everybody!) on chemo, and I am currently one day after the first chemo treatment, and I'm not having any symptoms except dry mouth and a slight headache that I can't shake. I know symptoms might not kick in for another 24 hours or so, but I am strictly sticking to my medication schedule and drinking lots of water.

I'm also feeling great because I got a new kitchen wall clock! I ordered it some time ago, and I have been eagerly awaiting it. It's like a school clock, except the outer rim is orange, which matches my orange kitchen chairs. They all look great in my 60s-70s vintage kitchen.

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I'm feeling a little bit more tired today, after my chemo of 48 hours ago. My headache is gone though, and I may only be tired because I have to keep waking up every few hours to take more medication. I still have a little dry mouth, but not as much. No nausea, I still mostly have an appetite. Here's hoping it's all downhill from here!

[Reach *BANNED*]

I feel pretty good all things considered. That just has to be how it is for now.

[FireSignFemme]

Like tap dancing.
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[Orema]

Feeling good and lucky. Good because I got a text on Thursday to make an appt to receive the first part of the vaccine, but they wanted me to travel 30 miles. Yesterday I went to my local pharmacy to see if they could relocate my appt to their store. They did and I’m scheduled to get it on Wednesday. That’s the same day I’m moving into the condo, but I don’t care. I’ll get the vaccine and will just take it easy for the rest of the day while the movers do their job.

Lucky because I’ve avoided COVID while selling, buying, and traveling.

So glad to get the vaccine.

:bow:

[homoe]

Pretty good. The condo is as nice as I was hoping it would be. Don’t have a basement, but a crawl space with insulation and a concrete floor. I was misled on who controls the sprinkler system on my lot but there’s not much I can do about that now. Will probably need a new HVAC unit, but won’t know till summer.

Will move in next week after the flooring is installed this weekend. Meeting the floor guy this morning to receive delivery of materials. He wants the flooring material to sit for a couple days in the condo before laying it out.

Am also meetiing the last of the contractors on the shower conversion this morning. He came by last week but didn’t bring any samples, only a measuring tape. So he was unable to leave me an estimate. I’ve decided to go with the 2nd contractor who had his act together. I will still meet this guy today if he shows up.

Have found a good “handy” person who will run a gas line to the kitchen, install the ring video door bell and some other things I need.

Think I’ll be happy in my new femme cave, but it will be awhile before it’s all done.

Am keeping the popcorn ceilings for now.

:bow:

Do keep an eye on that crawl space Orema!

Michigan bears, much smarter than average bears, have been known to seek out crawl spaces, especially the ones with insulation, to use as their warm & cozy den for hibernation! :|

May I suggest, if you hear any loud snoring sounds, call the Dept of Wildlife Fish & Game!

[Orema]

Do keep an eye on that crawl space Orema!

Michigan bears, much smarter than average bears, have been known to seek out crawl spaces, especially the ones with insulation, to use as their warm & cozy den for hibernation! :|

May I suggest, if you hear any loud snoring sounds, call the Dept of Wildlife Fish & Game!

I”m gonna find their number and add it to my 911 contact list.

You will be glad to know that I received a welcoming package assuring me that the association will take care of errthing regarding snow. They suggested I don’t park in my driveway for long periods of time when it’s snowing so that they can make sure it’s cleared away (thank you very much). And they gave me a number to call if I couln’t get out of my driveway (stop laughing). I thought of you and Gemme when I read that.

I”m like it here, Homoe. And the nice weather hasn’t even arrived.

Still feeling good as I drive all over the place since the snow has melted.

:poc-cool:

[GeorgiaMa'am]

I'm still feeling achy in my back and not much appetite after the chemo. My knees are a lot better, though, probably because I got the go-ahead from my doctor to take some ibuprofen. Also got some anti-inflammatory topical gel which has helped a lot. I'm just hanging in there until this is over.

[C0LLETTE]

It's tax time. Time to switch from beer to whiskey.

[Orema]

Anxious for the shower conversion, but I won’t get it for another month.

[Reach *BANNED*]

I am feeling excited and sad at the same time. (I know - it makes no sense).