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|  07-10-2011, 04:54 AM | #21 | 
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			host a costume theme party. Indiana Jones - Must dress like characters in the movie. Have a large basket of water pistols filled with 151 Rum. Get some props such as rope, a truth whip, etc. The rest will just unfold as they shoot that 151 into each others mouths and confess whilst wrapped in the truth whip. 
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|  07-10-2011, 11:16 AM | #22 | |
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 Well... there may be some sleeping over. I do offer an extra wide amazingly comfortable couch. Pool party would be a good idea, but right now it is 12C out and there are about 1,000,000 Mosquitoes per sq inch. Oh joy. So... and outdoor event is a possibility, but one butch is so tiny she just might get carried away by our overgrown oversized northern mosquitoes... I just don't know how I would explain that to her girlfriend. But I do love your attitude and your enthusiasm to help me!!   
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|  07-10-2011, 11:18 AM | #23 | |
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 I think that would be fun personally. I love costumes, but being a storyteller does that to a gal. 
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|  07-10-2011, 05:17 PM | #24 | 
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			I'm trying to think of something with the blindfolding that would be close to top/bottom play. With commands or.... You said they're mostly couples, right? With couples you could go pretty far with that.  When you said tasting and blindfolds, do you mean á lá 9-1/2 weeks? I think that could be fun. 
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|  07-10-2011, 05:44 PM | #25 | 
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			Are you meant to be throwing a play party? My experience is that drinking a lot is usually discouraged. I know I might sound like a priss, but I wouldn't have fun at a party with a lot of drinking and public sex play in front of my friends. This is just my preference, of course, but It is possible that I am not the only person who might feel that way. I love the idea of a sexy costume party, or a theme party. I had my fiftieth birthday party at a Korean restaurant where I reserved a karaoke room, and it was a blast. | 
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|  07-10-2011, 08:14 PM | #26 | |
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 I am hoping it is all fun. I don't know many of the women coming, so there is a part of me that is a wee bit nervous. However I am an open minded woman with a good sense of humor, hoping my party guests are as well  . 
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|  07-10-2011, 08:22 PM | #27 | |
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 I have not thrown a party like this before. I don't know many of the women coming. Only some of them drink, none smoke and I am not sure where on the "fun" spectrum they fall. But what the hell, we are all adults with the ability to establish boundaries and speak up. 
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|  07-11-2011, 05:24 AM | #28 | 
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			I totally understand that you want the party you throw to be fun and sexy. You know what I've been thinking about as I read this thread? When I'm single, I want to be flirty and send out I'm fun, no, really, signals, but I don't want to send out I'll do anything to get you to like me signals. and I almost always get it wrong. My more staid friends think I'm a wild thing, and My drinky party friends think I am d-u-l dull, because I don't really drink and I don't usually dirty dance except with my beaus. | 
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