Making Peace with Exes

[Passionaria]

Originally Posted by Apocalipstic

For me it is important to buck up and deal and take it on the chin like an adult rather that being filled with fury and vindictiveness months after a break up,

Sure be mad a couple of weeks but then agree to be cordial and dont ask your friends to taske sides.

The negativity of prolonged anger is not worth it.

Here is to all of us resolving to treat everyone we once said we loved with respect!

Well I would like to think that I can be friends with all my exes, as Apocalipstic said. In my mind and my heart that feels so beautiful. Definitely the treating people we once loved with respect.

One thing I am finding out about myself is I have no desire to be near people who do not respect my heart, my love, or our love. If someone does disrespect my heart or my love, or really breaks my heart; I won't be disrespectful, but if our paths cross, I would treat them like a stranger. On the other hand, one ex of mine we drive each other absolutely crazy sometimes, but we never denied loving each other, and that's why we are still friends. We respect the love we shared. Plus she taught me how to fight and get over it. LOL what a mess.


I was thinking about a particular person the other day, and what I wanted to tell them was that I gave you my love freely, but you will have to earn my friendship. After really looking at that, I need to make some changes. I will give you my friendship freely, but you will have to earn my love....... Deep breath and back to the drawing board.

Pashi