How to be a femme ally

aishah · 05-14-2012, 11:30 PM

i love this thread so much

these are qualities that are important to me in friendships...
fierce loving honest direct communication
being accountable when we fuck up
showing up for each other, especially when it's hard
being willing to stretch past our comfort zone for each other
listening and honoring our feelings (all of the time but especially) when we need to vent and we're just pissed off
sharing pleasure
being kind to each other
asking when we don't know, not assuming things about each others' identities, preferences, or anything else
standing up for each other

05-14-2012, 11:30 PM	#19
aishah Member How Do You Identify?: queer stone femme shark baby girl Preferred Pronoun?: she, her, little one Relationship Status: dating myself. Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: dallas, tx Posts: 1,495 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,823 Thanked 6,439 Times in 1,288 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	i love this thread so much these are qualities that are important to me in friendships... fierce loving honest direct communication being accountable when we fuck up showing up for each other, especially when it's hard being willing to stretch past our comfort zone for each other listening and honoring our feelings (all of the time but especially) when we need to vent and we're just pissed off sharing pleasure being kind to each other asking when we don't know, not assuming things about each others' identities, preferences, or anything else standing up for each other