Lesbian bed death?

oboejive · 09-29-2014, 04:51 PM

The relationship I am in (which I have been for more than 5 years) is lacking in sex although not intimacy. We are still really close, but my partner admits that she might have a sexual problem because she doesn't have any sexual desire. This upsets me, because I tend to internalize and am also still very sexually attuned. I'm not sure how to help it. We've tried talking about it and making a schedule for it, but it never happens. For those who have had issues with this, what have you tried that has helped?

09-29-2014, 04:51 PM	#25
oboejive Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Open lesbian and more femme-ish (although not much for labels) :) Preferred Pronoun?: Lee, she Relationship Status: Seeking Friends Join Date: May 2011 Location: Plantation, FL Posts: 36 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8 Thanked 76 Times in 22 Posts Rep Power: 450001	Thank for this forum! The relationship I am in (which I have been for more than 5 years) is lacking in sex although not intimacy. We are still really close, but my partner admits that she might have a sexual problem because she doesn't have any sexual desire. This upsets me, because I tend to internalize and am also still very sexually attuned. I'm not sure how to help it. We've tried talking about it and making a schedule for it, but it never happens. For those who have had issues with this, what have you tried that has helped?