"Butch" and "Femme" - Truly Antiquated Terms or More Marginalization?

[Jett]

Originally Posted by Arwen

I apologize if my post did not address what you wanted me to understand, Metropolis. While I do see what you are saying about lesbian sex being a stereotype, I think you are missing my point. That's okay. Like I said, I do not have any issues with how you identify.

I didn't miss you're point at even slightly... I was making my own point related to you continually using the term "lesbian sex" as if it means something specific that everyone should understand.

Also I have not stated how I identify as far as "lesbian" goes... I'm not sure what you "do not have any issues with" as far as my identity.

ETA: (because I just read your most recent post) I personally in no way got the impression you hate lesbians, (and I'm wondering where that was implied)... and I am truly sorry you're as upset as you are, unfortunately when people have hard discussions it can feel personal... I assure you on my end it's not.