Femmes: How do you like to be treated on a date?

[girl_dee]

I've been thinking about this thread, and even though it's fluff there is so much to learning about people based on dates.

I saw a show once where they did *productive* dating.. the couples that were unadvised shared small talk, sillyness and basic awkwardness around each other, basically at the end of the night knew nothing much about each other.

The couples that were advised had a much more *productive * date. There were advised to ask real questions around conversations that most would never ask normally. For instance, religion, politics, family, children. If one of the couple never ever wants kids and you do, why would you want to have a second date if you are looking for a future?

I guess it all depends on what you are looking for.

[atomiczombie]

Originally Posted by sassy_girl

I've been thinking about this thread, and even though it's fluff there is so much to learning about people based on dates.

I actually don't consider this a fluff thread. I put it in the femme zone and not the "fluffy stuff" because I do take this seriously. What femmes want is important to me, and imho, it should be to anyone who wants to date a femme.

[Apocalipstic]

I am not a lady but I can play one if needed. lol. Please just be yourself on a date. Yes, I know how to act no matter what the situation, but would rather relax and get to know you.

Please do not bring flowers on a first date. Yes I adore flowers, but they will scare me off. Wait for a couple of dates at least please. Cool is key. lol.

If you must text or use cell phone, make it quick.

Please do pull out a joint, I will be pleased as punch!

Please be clean.

A good hair cut or style is always appreciated.

I do enjoy nice manners and a smile. But remember I would way rather fuck in the back of a cab than be treated like your grandmother.

I do enjoy shows, dinner, symphony etc, but I enjoy hanging out just as much.

As far as money? I don't care about it...I can make my own. If you think your car is too dirty, we can take mine.

Dating need not be expensive! It should be fun and easy!

Oh and don't play too hard to get, if you want to be gotten.

Respect me as a person, not as a Femme.

and

No games please. I bore with them easily.

(All of this applies no matter who does the asking out and paying)

[gaea]

Originally Posted by apocalipstic

I do enjoy nice manners and a smile. But remember I would way rather fuck in the back of a cab than be treated like your grandmother.

i love this...