New sex partner=new toys? Your opinion

[kittygrrl]

Originally Posted by Toughy

Did you know that every pronoun you used for a butch is clearly without a doubt a male pronoun?......HE......I hope you do not believe butch=he.

I'm curious what the turn off is about gloves? I used them for anal sex long before HIV came into existence..... It was easy just to add vaginal penetration with gloves. What I highlighted in red is confusing to me. Can you explain it?

Contrary to the opinions had by some who think they know me i ' havent had numerous encounters. I had one lover that lied to me about her casual encounters with men and as a result had to endure 2 hiv tests scared and completely convinced i had contracted hiv. From that point on I made it a priority that before & until I got to know someone well I wasn't going to put myself in that position again, hence by the time we are involved we've both been tested and i feel safer. Gloves, it's just a personal thing, it's a turn-off..i've no problem with saran wrap.
Regarding he/hi/hym/her/hir. I have a tendency to use whatever term appeals to the person i am with..it's automatic..her is also totally fine but i haven't been with anyone in many years who hasn't expressed issues with her. No disrespect intended I am comfortable with both him/her etc. Just a habit of late, real time it's usually easy to pick up but this is a forum so tend to project from my current experience.