What is your Flirtation Style?

homoe · 01-01-2016, 04:44 PM

In real time, I'll start with a smile then more than likely strike up a conversation with them.

Wrang1er · 01-01-2016, 05:59 PM

I tend to use humor...perhaps I need to reevaluate this approach.

jingles76 · 01-01-2016, 07:59 PM

[QUOTE=Wrang1er;1035995]I tend to use humor...perhaps I need to reevaluate this approach.

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Wrangler. You had me at knock knock lol

imperfect_cupcake · 01-01-2016, 08:02 PM

Humour. Smart Arsery. Cheekiness. Comes across as far more charming and flirtatious in person but people with the matching senses of humour usually can pick up on it on line.

imperfect_cupcake · 01-01-2016, 08:14 PM

What works with me?

Not vague naughty. To me that sounds like pure cheese. I like *wit* and banter, not "soft and saucy".

Best way to impress me is - intellect, humour, cockiness, self deprecatory humour, able to take the piss out of me and laugh when I do it to them. And being blunt *really* helps. Not pushy, blunt. Say what you want and then while I panic, laugh, chill and make a joke and order anther drink, smoothly go into another subject and revisit the suggestion later, after I've gotten past my initial knee jerk panick reaction in my head. It will more than likely be yes.

If I look deer in headlights, fumble for a non-answer and be vague, that's a *really* good sign.
I I look perfectly calm, stare right at you and say "no thank you" in a polite voice - it's no.

The more polite I am, the less interested I am.

CherryWine · 01-01-2016, 08:22 PM

I'm a bit of a tease. If I like you, I'll pick on you in a playful manner...if I can work up the guts to do it.

Nattih · 01-01-2016, 08:44 PM

My flirting style is attentive and complimentary, I suppose. I am fairly quiet and keep to myself, so if I am paying a good amount of attention to you, that is a hint.

I am very complimentary and humorous if I like a person. Not sure how well everything plays over, given that the telepathy tends to have a higher batting average. That's why I prefer online dating, there is only one reason I am contacting you, lol.

01-01-2016, 08:14 PM	#5
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	What works with me? Not vague naughty. To me that sounds like pure cheese. I like wit and banter, not "soft and saucy". Best way to impress me is - intellect, humour, cockiness, self deprecatory humour, able to take the piss out of me and laugh when I do it to them. And being blunt really helps. Not pushy, blunt. Say what you want and then while I panic, laugh, chill and make a joke and order anther drink, smoothly go into another subject and revisit the suggestion later, after I've gotten past my initial knee jerk panick reaction in my head. It will more than likely be yes. If I look deer in headlights, fumble for a non-answer and be vague, that's a really good sign. I I look perfectly calm, stare right at you and say "no thank you" in a polite voice - it's no. The more polite I am, the less interested I am. Last edited by imperfect_cupcake; 01-01-2016 at 08:19 PM.

01-01-2016, 04:44 PM	#1
homoe Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: ..... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: 30 minute ferry ride from Seattle Posts: 38,565 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 20,811 Thanked 33,548 Times in 14,914 Posts Rep Power: 21474889	In real time, I'll start with a smile then more than likely strike up a conversation with them.

01-01-2016, 05:59 PM	#2
Wrang1er Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Me, myself and I Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Here Posts: 1,526 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,112 Thanked 7,043 Times in 1,354 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I tend to use humor...perhaps I need to reevaluate this approach.

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jingles76 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2015 Location: Texas Posts: 22 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30 Thanked 61 Times in 17 Posts Rep Power: 1073754	[QUOTE=Wrang1er;1035995]I tend to use humor...perhaps I need to reevaluate this approach. [/QUOT Wrangler. You had me at knock knock lol

01-01-2016, 08:02 PM	#4
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Humour. Smart Arsery. Cheekiness. Comes across as far more charming and flirtatious in person but people with the matching senses of humour usually can pick up on it on line.

01-01-2016, 08:22 PM	#6
CherryWine Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian femme Join Date: Oct 2014 Location: The Deep South Posts: 2,491 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,060 Thanked 10,006 Times in 2,182 Posts Rep Power: 21474847	I'm a bit of a tease. If I like you, I'll pick on you in a playful manner...if I can work up the guts to do it.

01-01-2016, 08:44 PM	#7
Nattih Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: May 2010 Location: always on a plane Posts: 174 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 285 Thanked 633 Times in 164 Posts Rep Power: 13046651	My flirting style is attentive and complimentary, I suppose. I am fairly quiet and keep to myself, so if I am paying a good amount of attention to you, that is a hint. I am very complimentary and humorous if I like a person. Not sure how well everything plays over, given that the telepathy tends to have a higher batting average. That's why I prefer online dating, there is only one reason I am contacting you, lol.