The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

Jet · 11-22-2009, 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Galahad

Glad to see this thread.Thanks Jet. I'm 52, just a spring chicken. Taking care of my parents is aging me rapidly though. It's harder than having a two year old. I'm actually looking forward to my 80's when I get to be the cranky, stubborn old goat.

Hey there...I know what you're saying. I'm 53 and the roles have reversed with my dad and I. He's so cranky and mad ...and stubborn as hell. My father and I had falling out for awhile over my sexuality...something else he could pick on...but we've reconciled. But to give you an exact idea of my dad...how he sounds and looks and moves and his bigoted vernacular.....Gran Torino totally with Clint Eastwood. It's my dad ditto up and down..not to mention my dad was in Korea.

So I hear what you're saying. Welcome to the thread and free to share whatever/whenever you like.

HumV4me · 11-22-2009, 06:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Galahad

Glad to see this thread.Thanks Jet. I'm 52, just a spring chicken. Taking care of my parents is aging me rapidly though. It's harder than having a two year old. I'm actually looking forward to my 80's when I get to be the cranky, stubborn old goat.

OMGoodness.. I have had the child / parent role switch on me just this year... it is not easy at all to take care of your parents... expecialy when they are still up and able but not quite all the way and have intrusted you with their stuff and well being.

Believe me... I love role playing... BUT NOT LIKE THIS. I don't want to be the MOMMY/DADDY!

morningstar55 · 11-22-2009, 07:27 PM

evening lofters
is a pleasant evening here in the indy area
i have a early morning wake up..want to beat the rush hour traffic.. heh

BellaOctober1 · 11-22-2009, 07:46 PM

Yay! Love this.

I'm 54, and after 12 years, am about to be single again. Should be interesting.

Anyway. Great to see this board and be a part of it.

morningstar55 · 11-22-2009, 08:13 PM

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Originally Posted by BellaOctober1

Yay! Love this.

I'm 54, and after 12 years, am about to be single again. Should be interesting.

Anyway. Great to see this board and be a part of it.

hello bella [_]D

WolfyOne · 11-22-2009, 11:55 PM

I'm enjoying this thread....reading is fundamental.

Boots13 · 11-23-2009, 01:35 AM

knock-knocking on 48, or 49 ... I forget.

At any rate, I havent celebrated a birthday in ages. Maybe thats why I
feel young, ignorance is bliss.

but then there's that constant noise :
creeek, craaack, groannn.

AtlantaButch824 · 08-08-2010, 08:28 PM

I'm 52 and single again after 10.5 yrs. I feel strange trying to date again. You think you know someone after that much time, only to realize you didn't.

Jet · 08-08-2010, 08:33 PM

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Originally Posted by AtlantaButch824

I'm 52 and single again after 10.5 yrs. I feel strange trying to date again. You think you know someone after that much time, only to realize you didn't.

so don't date

11-22-2009, 07:27 PM	#3
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	evening lofters is a pleasant evening here in the indy area i have a early morning wake up..want to beat the rush hour traffic.. heh __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

11-22-2009, 07:46 PM	#4
BellaOctober1 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: High Femme Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Kansas City, MO Posts: 10 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 8 Times in 3 Posts Rep Power: 16	Yay! Love this. I'm 54, and after 12 years, am about to be single again. Should be interesting. Anyway. Great to see this board and be a part of it. __________________ BellaOctober1@att.net Kansas City, MO

08-08-2010, 08:28 PM	#8
AtlantaButch824 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch Preferred Pronoun?: does it really matter Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Atlanta Posts: 30 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 25 Thanked 35 Times in 15 Posts Rep Power: 121158	I'm 52 and single again after 10.5 yrs. I feel strange trying to date again. You think you know someone after that much time, only to realize you didn't. __________________ It doesn't cost one penny to be nice to someone

11-22-2009, 11:55 PM	#6
WolfyOne Magically Delicious How Do You Identify?: Gentle Butch Relationship Status: Single and content Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minnesota Posts: 6,558 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22,052 Thanked 15,397 Times in 4,140 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I'm enjoying this thread....reading is fundamental.

11-23-2009, 01:35 AM	#7
Boots13 Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: No Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: PNW Posts: 823 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,387 Thanked 2,314 Times in 428 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	knock-knocking on 48, or 49 ... I forget. At any rate, I havent celebrated a birthday in ages. Maybe thats why I feel young, ignorance is bliss. but then there's that constant noise : creeek, craaack, groannn.